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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...

Please help me I dunno what to do and whom to believe......

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

14 September 2007 (?) - I'm 18 and living in California. I met my boyfriend 19 years of age online and also through mutual friends.. he lives in Florida which is 23,000 miles away and still I have not yet met him in person... when we first started talking on the phone his ...

Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I know he was with an escort again. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - I have recently discovered that my partner has been paying for sex. I've been away a couple of times this year with our 6 month old and each time I've been away he has contacted an escort agency. Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I ...

Has anyone gotten back together when your girlfriend says they fell out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (M) - Has anyone gotten back together when your girlfriend says they fell out of love ? Me 24 and my girlfriend 26 have ben together for almost 3 years. Three weeks ago before we went to sleep told me that she thinks we need a break. That she needs t...

My bf has to have a beard b/c of his religion, but I hate beards! I want him to cut it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much, but he's got a beard and long hair, he has to have it this way because of his religion, but the thing is im not a fan of beards, but he can't cut it. I really hate beards ! It just makes him look older and my friends ...

My girlfriend tends to ignore me when friends are around, but says she doesn't realize she's doing it! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months it seems great and we are both soo in love but sometimes i feel like being kind of ignored like if her cousin or one of my friends is there she acts different. i need help because most of ...

Since getting a bf, she's started ignoring me! How can I get her to like me, or even just be my friend again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (M) - Ok im 16 and have this really good friend who i have been really good friends with for about 2 years. She got a boyfriend about a month ago that she really likes, and nothings been the same since. Ive liked her ever since we've been friends and i ...

I feel used and hurt - how do I get through this break-up and get proper closure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - How do i get closure? Im writing because im quite hurt. Ive broken up with my boyfriend of nearly a year. He was very loving, did sooo many lovely things for me, but he could switch and in an argument say some really really hurtful things. ...

My husband said his feelings for me could change again, but only if I kicked my daughter out of our house!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for two years. We have both been married before and have children from previous relationships, we also have our own four year old son. We have had quite a few problems in the past but have always managed to ...

I feel he is backing off a bit. Am I smothering him too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - hi im 19 and my bf is 21. my bf told me he loved me after we were dating for 2 weeks! i was suprised and didn't say it back to him until i felt i loved him which was 5 months later. he was always very lovey dovey with me, wanted to get married in a ...

We broke up b/c of arguments about his ex! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - My boy friend is 13 Years older than me, he has 2 kids from his wife that he is getting a divorce with that he was with for 16 years, I love him to bits but, I always seem to feel threatened by her even though he left her after she cheated 3 times. ...

My bf of 2 months told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears! Should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - I had a row with my bf last nite (we have been together only 2 months) and it was over nothing - mostly my fault. But when I tried to apologise he told me to F%*K off in front of his friends and I left the bar in tears. Usually when we argue I ...

My daughter's boyfriend is treating her like crap and it's driving me crazy!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - I am the mother of a very attractive, smart, outgoing 17 year old. She has alot going for her. She has been dating a guy for two years (they started seeing each other in high school) they are two grades apart but only a year and a few months age ...

He sent me a text about another woman by accident! I'm gutted.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Hi. im 24 and have been with my boyfriend 2 years. last sat night he had a boys night out. i was at home alone when i got a text message from him saying "she can't be more unreal than you..ha. are you settin me up. ha". He obviously meant to send it ...

I always have to be right and my bf just agrees to avoid arguments. How can I stop this behavior??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - hi i have a problem that is going to soon end my current relationship(its partly the reason my other relationship ended), my boyfriend brought a subject up last night which he told me that i "also have to be right" and that he just agrees with me ...

My fiance is a control freak! He's forbidden me from wearing clothes I like and slapped me across the face!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - my fionce is controlling, weve bee together just over a year and at the beginning of the relationship it was so perfect! now, hes a control freak, i cant even wear the tops that i like. hes pinned me down by the throat wen weve bin arguin n slapped ...

I can't tell him that I'm unsure of our relationship b/c his best friend just died - I can't hurt him anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Im so unsure what to do i have been seeing my current boyfriend for a month and its very long distance and ive only seen him a few times in that time. And im going through alot of things this year including the sudden passing of my grandad and i ...

He didn't add me on facebook b/c it would annoy his ex, and more! Is he over her or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Is my guy over his ex? I have found rude pictures of him n his ex(with whom he broke up 2 yrs back),everytime i ask him about her, he is overprotective n blames me of not trusting him. He avoids my questions and blames me instead.He visit...

How do I get my husband of 15 years back after my mid-life crisis affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - is there such a thing as midlife crisis,i'm a women of 44,been split with my husband of 15 years.i went off and had affair,never even look at another man before,started flirting with men,wanted my life back i suppose.then one morning i woke up and ...

My fiance said it didn't matter if he thought of other women, that he loved me. I'm confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - im engaged and afew months before we are to be married i asked if he ever fantisize about other women...his reply, what if i do,what does it matter,i love you...im lost and dont know what to do with this......

She keeps talking to her ex b/c he's related to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend will not stop talking to the ex-boyfriend because they are fourth cousins. They were together for five years, before I came into the picture. As we started dating she told me that it was her ex-boyfriend, but she fail to mention to me ...

I you loved someone, wouldn't you do anything for that person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - IF YOU LOVED SOME ONE WOULDNT YOU DO ANYTHING ???????? well heres my question, my fiance and me are living about 5hrs away and were still kinda young and not making so much money i seen him in july and now i am going crazy i want to see h...

I'm pregnant and feeling angry and sad. Are these just mood swings like my husband says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - quick question if you love some one than can you have bad feelings of sadness ? like as you feel not cared for or loved?????? i am pregnant and my husban thinks its just my mood swings but i feel so unhappy and want to leave all the time ...

She goes out w/ guy friends one-on-one and said if I did that w/ women she'd be jealous, too! But she keeps doing it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

14 September 2007 (M) - Hi all... I am a 40yo guy and have met a wonderful woman 35yo. At the moment though, her and I live in different states and I am planning to move soon so we can be together. We are already talking commitment/marriage and kiddies which is just gre...

I'm pregnant and I think he cheated on me! There's so much evidence! What do you think??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - hello IM GETTING MARRIED IN NOV. im so excited butt heres the problem i fear that my love for my fiance is not letting me see whats really going on i maybe wrong but you tell me what it sounds like my fiance works with a girl that he told me...

My friend got back w/ her abusive ex and said we can no longer talk! I'm tired of her getting hurt! What can I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

14 September 2007 (M) - I need some advice on dealing with a friend and her boyfriend. First some background info: I met her at a church we were attending when I was 14 and she was 7 in 1994, I'm now 27 and she's 20. When we met we hit it off instantly and we were like ...

I found out some things about my long-term partner that disturbed me, like cross-dressing; now I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - Hi! Please help! I've been with a man for almost 3 years now...and recently he told me he has this sexual thing for inflatables...(he likes to masterbate with them and deflate them and such) when we were first together he mentioned it but I never g...

I love him and he loves me but he used to be my teacher; should I back off? He's afraid of the ramifications

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

14 September 2007 (F) - ive fallen for my ex teacher.I am 18 hes 27.We get along great.I told him how i feel ,and he feels same!however he is scared to take it further because of his job.its making me so angry that two people cant be together when we're both adults.He ...