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writes:Can a women re-gain physical attraction in a 2 years relationship by taking some time off? If not How? Reply to this Question
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reader, dreema gurl  +, writes (9 September 2007):
I definitely think it's possible. Sometimes women can get so caught up in every day stresses that things like sex and intimacy can become a chore rather than a pleasure, in which case time off from the relationship is a good idea for the woman to step back and find out what is important to her. 'Hanging in there' may not always be the wisest solution as the relationship can go sour with both parties becoming more fed up with the situation - he's fed up because the intimacy, sex etc is no longer there, she's fed up because he keeps pushing for something she can't for whatever reason give to him. And as an aside, there is nothing less likely to get a girl in the mood than constantly badgering her for sex, or dropping comments about the lack of sex life into every conversation. It's such a turn off! And nine times out of ten in these cases, the problem lies with her and not you, therefore time apart can be a healer. Absence makes the heart grow fonder may be a cliche, but these cliches come about from truth and experience. If you truly love each other then give her her space and let her work it out, and she will return once she's sorted her mind out. Good luck:
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): All women are different. It depends on why or how a woman went cold on a man to start with. Some people can get the spark back, yet others it is totally impossible. Sorry, i find this a bit hard of a problem to answer without more info. Get in touch if you want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): I think it's possible, but I also think that it's important to remember that attraction for a woman is usually emotionally based. If the time away will help her heal whatever wounds have been made, then yes- I think so. Men need to realize that the best way to be attractive to a woman is to be emotionally supportive, sweet, and make plenty of time for intimate moments (not sex, by the way...)
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