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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there any hope or is this all too messy to sort out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Help. Another threesome question with a twist: when first meeting my boyfriend 3 years ago I was a story teller and prolific liar. Blessed or cursed with the ability to say what I believed people wanted to hear. I told my boyfriend that I had ...

I'm married to a great man, but I think I'm in love with his brother, who makes me feel really special.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I'm married to a great man he works hard for us but things havent been going well for a while i feel the love has gone out of our relationship. He's quite a bit older than me but his brother makes me feel really special he's made a few pass...

My boyfriend broke up with me without giving a reason and now ignores me, and I have a hard time at the job. Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my life is a complete mess right now and i dont know how to get out of it. i just started a new job in a care home about 4 weeks ago and its taking me a while to get the hang of it and everyone else is frustrated cause i make silly mistakes like ...

Got very drunk and woke up in his bed: what are the early signs of pregnancy, and two, was I raped?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Hi... I am in a very frightening situation some people may have been in before. I was recently living with this guy whom I've met at my job, because he believed he could help me further with my education and help me out. I know I should not have, ...

He says I never explain myself properly, and we end up rowing, I'm afraid he is trying to control me like my ex did.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Everytime i try to explain to my bf my side, my veiws on things he doesn't understand me and we end up rowing and breaking up, this has been going on for over a year now. I will try and explain a little to you -I was in a relationship for...

My bf never makes an effort to call me. I've told him it bothers me, but nothing's changed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. At first our relationship was amazing we did everything together and saw each other everyday.I understand that wears off after a while. But now he never texts me, never rings me, i have to do ...

My bf told me he cheated on me w/ his ex after he gave me an STD! How will I move past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. I moved here to be with him after a long distance relationship. We both have two kids from other relationships that we raise. His ex wife cheated on him and left yrs ago and has never wanted him back...

How long should our break last? Will we be able to get back together and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been together for four years. About 5 months ago he got drunk and kissed a girl, but told me that night and apologized. I attempted to get over it but was devastated for the next few months. I lost the emotional aspect of our ...

It's been lies for the past 6 months, so how can we rebuild trust in each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - What can I do or my boyfriend do to rebuild trust? Is compromise an option? Hey all, I could really use your help. I'm 32, my boyfriend is 29. I recently found out that my boyfriend has been lying to me about where he has been going out. He k...

My ex wants me back and I still love him, but I'm already engaged to someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - ok here's my story, i left a guy for my ex, me and my ex were together for almost 2 years, then i had to move overseas to work,that's when he cheated on me with another girl, as soon as i knew, we broke up and i moved on to another guy, me and my n...

My guy wants to move in with me!! ...and bring his brother, too. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I am afraid that my boyfriend will never move away from his brother. We have talked about our futures before and he always brings up taking care of his brother. They are only a few years apart but I think that I'm going to have difficulity. He ...

My fiancee is a cross dresser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my fiancee, is a cross dresser, and iv been with him for 4 yrs. he hasnt always been honest with me about this, but latley this side of him is out again.im sort of ok with it ,but i have 3 imprssionable young sons. they saw pictures of him dressed ...

There were rumors of her cheating. I didnt believe them, but now she is upset with me anyway

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and we just moved off to college. We both have never been so happy in our lives but last week someone I know started a rumor about her cheating on me. Although I trust her completely because of ...

I was all moody with my BF. Have I ruined things now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I slept over my bf's at the weekend. I was quite moody with him and we did argue a little over stupid stuff. When he dropped me off in the morning he seemed different, he did not kiss me goodbye or tell me when he was gonna call. I havent heard from ...

He let another girl give him a bj, but wants another chance with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I was working in the same company were my Bf is the co-owner we're leaving together for almost 9 months. He's a hot and attractive guy. I can tell that coz a lot of our employee has a crush on him. One of the employee really likes him to the point ...

I always fight with my boyfriend. Its not his fault. How can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I always fight and argue with my boyfriend. I am always the one starting the arguments and always blaming him for everything. I know and I can see that it is hurting him and I dont know how to stop doing that. It hurts me because i put him through ...

Why does he always choose rugby over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - On sunday, i was really unwell with womens problems and i had a migraine. i really wanted my boyfriend to come over and pick me up because like every girl gets, i was tearful and upset and felt although i really needed a cuddle. the day before we ...

We have been separated for years, but I am afraid to file for divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I am 49 woman, separated from my husband for a number of years though not in his eyes. In 2000 he gave me std's after 20 years of marriage, the same time this happened i lost my mother and my world fell apart. this actually helped my husband stay in ...

How can he go from declaring his undying love to not even returning a phone call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - What should I think? I never really understood men.... I have had my ex text and call me for the past few months. Chatting about what was and what could be. We decided it was hard to make any plans without meeting up to see how we felt. S...

He proposed, but now says it wasnt real!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - hey, This is a relationship question that i would really like help with because im always thinking about it and its worrying me. my boyfriend who ive been with nearly 2 years perposed to me unexpectedly on holiday last month. ive been hinting ...

How can we resolve this conflict and how can I get time back for my hobbies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - I moved in with my girlfriend a little under two years ago. We've been together since high school (13 years ago) and both of us agree it's the best thing we've done. Our relationship is solid and we very rarely argue apart from about one thing: ...

We've had a BIG fight. How can I win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had the biggest fight ever, and both of us are hurt. He also dont look at me the way he use to and he does not want to hold me. I really love him and dont want to lose him! What can i do to win him back. ...

He told me we need space... How should I be feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - hi my boyfriend just told me on the phone that we need space, we argue too much lately. we hat two arguments in the last couple of weeks. i hav been sensing he needs space for a while. what do i make out of it? can you guys please giv me your poin...

Should I forget what happened and ignore him? My mate texted him that I loved him, which has made things worse.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my life is so messed up right now. theres a guy that i have liked 4 ages and we finally arranged 2 go on a date, it was wickared, i had the best time ever, and we even ended up making out. but since then we never saw each other again till we went ...

I feel he is manipulative when we have a conflict, and he also threatens to kick me out. Should I stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - My bf and I are together for 4 yrs already. We have argue and fight just like any other couple. Only one time I brought up his female co-worker(that he is so nice to, and dedicates his time to her when she asks for help) in a fight because I ...

My ex boyfriend will marry another girl, I'm losing my confidence which I'm afraid will affect my career and future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Hi, My ex boyfriend is going to marry another girl. We were together for around 10 years and my family and me did everything for him. His family first proposed my parents for our marriage on his wish. But they wanted it to happen soon which my p...

I know society would disapprove more of me than her when we become aggresive. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - Hi a few weeks ago I accused my gf of cheating on me and demanded to see her paycheck. She didn't cheat of course I act jealous a lot but she got mad really mad and started slapping me. The next day I slapped her to see how she would react and she ...

He has no self control when in comes to "checking out" other women, although says he loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is allways checking out other women mostly ones with large breasts and butts when he is with me. ( i wounder what he does when i;m not there). there is looking and then there is pathetic constant gawking! I fell emberraced and also ...

I cannot see her or her daughter suffer the consequences of my leaving. Thanks to all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (M) - In regard to the last question I posted: Your advise was all good and probably right. Only one problem, I really am in love with this woman and her daughter. I can not see her or her daughter suffer the consequences of my leaving. Their worlds w...

I took a relationship break, my ex's best friend is a girl who talks nastily about me now, though she doesn't know me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i took a break because all we would do was argue we couldnt communicate with eachother, his best friend is a girl and today i look at her away message and it said "leave her she is not good for u, u want her so bad but behind her ...

The guy I'm dating calls too often, disfocusing me from my studies. How to let him know not to disturb me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - Its almost 4 am. Im awake. Thats ok,im student and study usualy at night. Well, here is the problem. Im dating with a guy who presumably now has problems with sleeping,... Dont want to sound unsympathetic or , but this guy knows that i have strict ...

Are we really over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

11 September 2007 (?) - hey guys i just got really hurt here is my problem? I get back togther with my third time ex Austin 4 weeks ago so i called him tonight and told him to call me back whick he did. Then he said kiss me of course you know i did then all of the sudden i...

He doesn't like to spend time with me as much I would like to with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - I've been in this relationship for over a year and I know that I may be quite needy for quality time and love. I've given everything but haven't recieved the amount needed in return. I love him but these days all I do is cry over things he's doing. ...

How can I stop arguing with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 396 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend an i have been together for 4yrs and i always argue with him for everything and i do it any where now. he doesn't even want to go out with me or talk to me and i feel like i'm losin him what should i do to stop it?...