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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I have made more effort to see him? Now I have upset him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have had our first misunderstanding and I don’t know what to do about it. He had sent me a message last night saying that he had arranged an event with some important people he knows which I understood was ...

How much "looking" is too much... my partner spent our whole date ogling other women!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - OK - I understand guys 'look', and sometimes 'talk' about the other pretty women in the room, but what is 'too much'? Within three hours of a date last night, there were approximately 20 comments from my significant other about the 'arm candy' ...

My instincts were right, he has a stash of porn. The trust has now gone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I put a question in the other day about my husband watching porn [just a gut feeling i had] Well surprise surprise my gut feeling was right. I found 19 porn cd's in his work bag today, so its not very pleasant in my home at the moment. Thanks...

How do I figure out if I am being overly sensitive or if my feelings are legit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - Relationships are always stressful because I "over think" everything. I'm not sure my girlfriend is really right for me, so what do I ask myself to determine if I'm truly being overly sensitve or if what bothers me is legit?...

My boyfriend has gotten abusive

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...

Any advice on saving my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - i need to save my relatinship with my girlfriend! having a bad patch, we both love each other. any advice anyone?...

My friends said they were coming to my wedding and then didnt show!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I got married last weekend. I invited 15 of my own friends. Only 2 came, and they left really early too. About 8-10 other friends rsvp'd and said they were coming. They didn't show and only one bothered to tell me she couldn't make it because she ...

My family don't understand my feelings after the recent break up, and it's hard for me to concentrate on employment now and put up with their reaction. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Not necesarily a question but a cry for help. I'm so mad. My sister got a job a this great company and they are still hiring people. I'm unemployed so I applied for a job there and got an interview. I canceled it and rescheduled because I didn't ...

He's hanging out with hsi mates 24/7 and makes my asking for a bit of time sound like a chore. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years,we've always had a great relationship but recently he's been hanging out with his mates 24/7 i wouldnt really have a problem with it but when i want to see him he's never around he's always ...

Now that we broke up, he says he will never find anyone like me and regrets having cheated. He is willing to do what it takes, even counselling. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - He's cheated 7 times we been togther almost for years. I love hime more then anything he cheated again but says now he will do whatever it takes to work on his bad ways including counciling. We have had trust issues because of his past and it made ...

I've left him for the fifth time, but he doesn't seem upset! Is he b/c he's used to it? This is bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I've recently (2 weeks ago) left my husband for the 5th time due to his drinking habits. The other times I have left him he has always cried and begged to have me back. This time he acts as if it doesn't bother him. Could this be because he's ...

He has to hide me from his adult kids or they have a fit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - i have been asking question on this site for the past few days. i am in my 60's and my bf of 2yrs 8 months is in his 60's. his kids are 35 and 39 years old and they run his life. they told him to break up with me in july because they didn't think ...

My girlfriend and I are crazy for each other! So why do I always think I'm going to lose her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - hi, i have the most amazing girlfriend i could ever ask for...in my eyes shes perfect in almost every way. i love her more than i have ever loved anyone else. and shes always saying she feels the same way. so why do i always think im gona lose her...

Will his wife leave him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Thank you for posting this site. I came across your this site by chanced as I am looking for a answer to my problem and hoping to get some help. Is there any case near similar to mine? Being involved with married man. We are both in love but he i...

I cant seem to stop picking fights with my guy and its driving him away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 10 months.. We were 3 1/2 hours away from each other this summer, and would see each other a couple times a month. Everything was wonderful and our relationship was the best it's ever been. We ...

After I checked his texts he got wierd and said he needed space. Does that mean he is cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend was happy,15 months together.then i found text message of a girl on his phone i rang her and she said they were friend he said the same however from that day he went wierd with his phone and then told me he needed space!i am ...

My boyfriend can be so immature. How can I make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 3 years. We've had our usual ups and downs, breaksups and reunions, etc but I really need some advice. Now before I say anything I should say that my boyfriend can be REALLY immature, insecure and needy. Despite all of ...

In an unhappy relationship with lots of issues... But am I giving him a fair chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - recently my boyfriend and i have been having big problems. He started a new job about 9 months ago which takes more of his time and energy, in turn, the past 7 months he has done nothing but work, eat and sleep. I have an office job which requires ...

I've tried my best with my family and boyfriend but my life doesn't seem to move forward. What more can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I really don't know where I've gone wrong in my life. I'm 24 years old and not one area of my life is working out the way I'd hoped. No matter how lacking my life is I maintain my bubbly personality and never let anyone see I'm down. I never s...

Should I be worried about him not being interested in me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf for one year now and he has been wonderful. Lately he has been under alot of stress with work and hasnt been interested in being with me. Should I worry about him not being intertested in me anymore? Is it okay to ask the guy ...

I'm in love with him but he says he doesn't have those deep feelings for me. I don't know what to think anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I'm 29 yrs old. I have been with my boyfriend for 7months. At first he was very motivated, and worked very hard to get me to start dating him. We get along wonderfully, we have the same interest, circle of friends, similar values and goals...

He's older than me, when do men lose their sex drive? And what does he mean by 'not putting all his eggs in one baske't?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - what age do men loose there sex drives. I'm worryed this, and his age may affect us in the furture..And do men become impotant has they got older? When im 25 he will be 50.He looks about 25, but in the end the body and its funcations will slow down ...

I'm paranoid about his ex and now he isn't replying to my txt asking for us to talk! Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - hi. i wrote in yesterday about the contact between my bf and his ex, and how i went through his phone. i decided to ask him straight out about his feelings for her.he told me that he speaks to her on the odd occasion as he is grateful to her as she ...

I want to tell him about past secrets but I'm scared he will go off on one! Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - i posted this a while back as a follow-up to the question "Can he love me that much and still be that relentlessly cruel?". there was only one reply (thank you, basschick), but it's still bothering me, so i'm re-asking. "we've been doing well ...

I broke with my ex because his family arranged for him to marry his cousin! How can I forget him and move on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - hey.well i been with this guy for 3years and 8mths,and i really love him so much,we broke up abt 1mth ago and i cant forget him, well he went on holiday to vist his family in january this yr,and came bk married to one off his cousin,he came bk in ...

His ex wants him back and is using emotional blackmail. He's confused. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I recently got involved with a guy I met a while ago, after swearing that I will never fall for another guy after my last break up 6 months ago. He has also been single for 6 months and also has a son out of the previous relationship. It was no ...

Should I leave my partner? We argue all the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - my partner and i are together 1yr and 8mths we are deeply in love . he spoils me with every including body massages makes personal love song cds brings me flowers and trys get involved with my 2 children . problem is we argue often and every week ...

Should I try and prove to him he can trust me or let him go? I made a mistake before meeting him and he holds it against me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months and I had a fight tonight because I have realized that he doesn't trust me to go out with my friends, or to a party and have a drink. I don't have a problem with alcohol and never have, A few months before I met him...

He went to jail for getting me pregnant - I lost the baby and we split. Now we're together and I'm pregnant again, but he won't tell anyone about us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - ok i have a question quick insite i was pregnant and lost my baby when i was about 4 months along due to stress and everything as my boyfriend was in jail for 2 months for having sex with me i was 16 and he was 20 at the time im now 17...

I work, study at night, do the cooking and more than my share of household duties, and feel unappreciated! Am I silly if I want a bit of help from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - Hi I am a 28yo Male who has been in a relationship for almost a year with my girlfriend also 28. we have lived together for 6 months. My problem is I am so miserable becasue i feel totally unappreciated I work 9 - 10 hour days and study at nig...

My dad told me I'm gaining weight and it's really affected my self esteem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

20 September 2007 (?) - ok so today i came home and my dad suddenly for the first time in my life told me that i have gained a little bit of weight and i feel horrible now! my self esteem went reallllll low and im not fat at all just a bit curvy.. so i dont know what to ...

Is he a cheater, should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Is he a cheater, should i dump him? i want to first start out by saying i have been cheated on in the past and i think the cheating may be my problem now..?? so this is my problem, my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months, before...