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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there a chance he will come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - Is there a chance he will come back? We were together for five months. For me it was love at first sight and in the beginning he seemed really excited too. Before me, he was in a seven-year relationship, long-distance for the last two, and they we...

I need some advice on getting over a relationship after my partner ended it suddenly by text.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - I need some advice on getting over a relationship after my partner ended it suddenly by text. We went away for a few days over August Bank holiday and all seemed great. Her teenage kids from her defunct marriage got on with me as well. The first ...

Helppp!!! How can I control my jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I am going out with a boy I have been chasing up for a year now and finally he says he loves me a lot and I really do believe him as we wouldn't be together otherwise as he has never had a girlfriend before and he used to blow girls off a lot, which ...

I want to apologize but I feel like he owes me one as well...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - i accidently insulted the guy i'm crushing on about his looks. i was only joking around and i didnt think it was really hurtful. but apparently he did. he now acts coldly toward me and even told a friend of mine that i joke around a lot but someti...

I'm interested in a man unsure about the age difference between us. He's nearly 21 and I'm 17.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I have been interested with this 20 yr old guy for a while, and when we were talking the other day he said he liked me but he was unsure about the age difference. hes turning 21 3 months before i turn 18 and he thinks its weird. i told him i have no ...

He told his ex over the phone that "he's not putting his eggs in one basket"... What does he mean by this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I heard my boyfriend on the phone to his ex the other day, telling her his not putting his eggs in one basket, regarding me and our relationship, what do u think he means by this...we have only been together 3-4months now, i really don't see him ...

I'm lucky to get sex once a month and even then the deal she makes of it makes me feel dirty, and as a whole I get the impression she appreciates nothing I do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - I'll give a basic outline of how i feel the relationship is going at the moment and then ask the opinion about it: I always put myself out to make sure she is happy, i go round to her place (we live seperately) pretty much all the time, whereas ...

He is never very affectionate.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I know my bf loves me alot but he doesnt seem to want to be affectionate towards me... for eg, he doesnt want to stroke me to slp (if I asked him to... esp since I dont sleep easily) or a massage if my body's aching. He's ever ready to make out with ...

Should I confront her about the secret texts and emails?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. When she came to live with me she had just left her ex (we knew each other prior to our getting together). She is the type of person who keeps lots of friends, and thinks nothing of the fact that ...

He's agressive after I cheated, so I don't want to reconciliate. Do I deserve what is happening, and how do I stop this tension?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I am writing cos about 1 month ago I split up with my bf of 18 months because he attacked me. But I am finding it very hard getting on with my life. Thing is I can't get past it because I know its all my fault. See after I had been with him ...

I like my teacher and a class mate. I'm confused. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - Hi cupid...my problem is that I'm in love with my CL teacher. Ever since he started to comment me and my prayer I felt like I had a crush on him. I really want him but he has a wife.I want to let go of him but I can't since I see him almost ...

He suffers from prem ej and has now joined a site looking for sex. He doesn't know I know. Should I confront him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I am married for 14 years to a man 16 years my senior. We have got into a vicious circle, where he comes too quick if we haven't had sex for a while which puts me off having sex with him for a while. When I want to have sex with him again he comes ...

I don't know if I should be with him. How do I figure out what I'm really feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I don't know if I'm finding reasons to not like this guy because I'm afraid or because we shouldn't be together. I'm not the most experienced when it comes to dating and the relationships that I've been in have been hurtful. What should I do to ...

My hubby has a low sperm count, I cheated and got pregnant! Do I tell him the truth?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - hi, me and my husband are married for 3.5 years we have been trying for a baby and we found out he has a low sperm count, the doctors say there is always that maricle baby 1% percent chance of having a baby, both me and him really want a baby, we ...

Should I end this or try and make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - my g/f of 5 years and i have had a rough relationship, but we both still love each other dearly. its hard to explain. We have both done so much for one another and always been there for one another. My question is should i dump her because when we ...

Things have gone to hell, sex-wise... she says oral sex "tickles" now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - We have been together for 8 yrs I am 36 she is 30. I met her in her adolescence, she was inexperienced sexually and willing to try anything with me. We loved each other very much. We partied constantly enjoying each other socially and off the ...

My fiance recently lost his grandmother and since then hes shut me out. How can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - hi everyone i really need your help on a very sensitive problem im facing.my fiance recently lost his grandmother they were really close,she was his world and visa versa,the days leading up to her death were quite traumatic for everyone but i felt ...

I love my boyfriend but I don't feel he loves me as much back. Does anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel he doesn't love me as much as I love him. Does anyone else have this problem, or am I just overreacting?...

Should I have given my ex another chance? I'm wondering now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - Hi all, I'd like 2 take ur opinions pls...am 23, 2 years ago I had a bf 4 about a year then we broke up cos he wasnt ready 2 move 2 the next level, as he says he's phobic to commitment, it's been a year since we broke up, then we started talkin a...

Do I tell my mum I am back with the guy that dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - PLease help people!! Okay here's the deal. My boyfriend I had for 7 mounths broke up with me and I was all sad and crying ect. I told my mom what happened and she told me to NEVER get back with him. (She's demanding) The next day we got back tog...

I don't feel the same love for my wife that I once did and I feel like I want to have sex with more women. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - I've been with my wife for nearly 3 years now. We have a 9 month old baby girl who i love to pieces. However i'm just not happy with my life. I don't find my wife attractive, we get on ok but i don't feel the same love for her that i once did....

Is it normal for husbands and wives to spend a night apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - My fiancee and I recently did our first pre-marriage counselling session. As a part of it, we did a test, in seperate rooms, that is sent off and then sent back and we see what our areas of strength are and what areas we can work on. One of th...

Do I give my boyfriend up for the guy I lost my virginity to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - Im confused!! I have a boyfriend and STILL In love with thee guyy I lost it to! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and everything was perfect THen I saw him[[myy loveer not my boyfriend]] I mean we are in the same click an...

I know my childs father is cheating on me and treats me bad. Should I play him at his own game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - hi,im so upset,angry an miserable how my life is,mainly due to my b/f,and how he thinks he can treat me like he has done to past x`s.we only ever have sex when he feels like it and im forced to give him head yet he rarely goes down on me,i also know ...