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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I've been with him for 7 years, and I think we are losing each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend we've been together since 7 years but we have some fights in the middle but lately we had alot of fights and im afraid that i feel we are loosing eachother i love him and he loves me but i feel that he dosent care anymore i feel ...

It seems like my boyfriend and I are growing apart. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 7 months. In the beginning, everything was all great but now it seems like we're growing apart. Our conversations are filled with pauses (never used to happen) and it seems like lately he's been ...

My boyfriend keeps me a secret - I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months, he still wants us to remain secret while he tells his parents about taking his ex out..when i told him i don't like him telling about his ex and keeping us secret, he told me that, loads of things ...

We made out on our date, but now he just treats me as a friend! I want to know what's up with us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - theres this guy that ive liked for ages, and we finaly went on a date, during this we made out it was so amazing, but since the date he just treats me as a friend and we don't even talk about wot we did. and now we r both back at college, we hardly ...

I love my girlfriend, but I have feelings for someone I consider my soulmate, too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a year now and I love my girlfriend to death. The only thing thats bothering me is I have began to have feelings for another girl. I feel like she is my true soulmate but I know that I can never have her. As long as ...

He gets violent if I ask him not to be in contact with his ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of 9 months and the man who i live with accepts the fact i have a son from a previous relationship and doesnt get mad when my sons imprisoned father sends letters but it infuriates me when his ex that lives 10minutes away calls him and ...

I'm married. I've fallen in love with someone far away, but I don't know if I should up and go to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I have been married for 4 years (started dating since '98). Things were good (not the greatest) with her from the beginning. Let's start from the beginning... I was previously engaged to a wonderful person, but she died of lukemia. Ever s...

He doesn't want me anymore. How can I respond properly to his comments about me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Sorry for this silly question, but trying to decide how to respond to my future x, he informs me after 5 years of being together, that he can't totally commit to me because he needs a different body type to keep him turned on, and I lack certain p...

He has been violent. Is he sorry? Can he change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (?) - hi there i really dont know how to start this but my partner of 2 1/2 years has been violent since we brought our home together approx 18 months ago i always thought it was me that got him worked up by things i did or said. he told me it was my ...

Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Was my wife overly promiscuous or fairly normal before we got together?? During High School she had sex with 3 guys. 2 of them were boyfriends and one was a friend who she had a crush on. She had sex a total of 4 times in high school. A few weeks be...

I quit my job for him and we deleted our internet profiles. I found out he has a new one that lists him as single and looking for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, i worked in a pub which he wasn't happy about, as customers flirt. so i gave up the pub, and together we decided to delete our internet profiles. however i found out he had created a new profile ad...

I think my ex is "the one," but my family really likes me current guy! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Oh my goodness such a dilemna. Im 19 and last year went out with this lad who was 6 yrs older than me, he was gorgeous and spoiled me and was amazing in bed and we had so much fun together. But now I'm with someone else, he treats me ok and wants us...

My husband and I are too shy to kiss each other! This shouldn't be an issue - we're married!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - This is kind of embarassing to ask. My husband and I (married last weekend) are too shy to kiss! We kissed when the minister said kiss the bride, but before then it had been like a year since we kissed last..He is not the initiating type at all, and ...

I've just come out of the hospital and found out I've failed uni, my relationship is strained and my friends are moving on! How can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - hey ppl im so low at the moment.within the past week my whole life seems to have fallen apart. this time 2 weeks ago i had the world at my feet. i had the most perfect boyfriend in the world with an amazing relationship, great health, a place at a ...

After a fight, he stormed out of the house and is giving me the silent treatment! It's been 2 days now - I need help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I'm 33 and have been engaged for a little over 4 yrs. We have been together alittle over 10 yrs. My fiance' and I just purchased our home last Dec. We agreed to purchase the house 1st before getting married. We are now working on our wedding ...

My boyfriend is too busy to see me or call - He says he is not the phone type of guy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is too busy to see me or call. He goes for a week without calling if l dont call him he doesnt call and when l call he says l tried your number and l failed to get through. He also says he is not the phone type of guy. Tell me if he ...

I think that my bf may have been in a relationship w/ his best friend - I don't want to share his love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 8 months now,although i have known this man for 9 years.I am very confused,i think he may be in love with his best friend(m).His friend is a single gay guy,who i am certain is in love with him. Before we started ...

I've tried to talk w/ my gf about our sex life, but she gets angry and says I'm "an a$%hole male after only one thing!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm a 23 year old male who has been with my g/f for 2 years now. When we started going out, our sex life was healthy. But we haven't slept together for over a year. I tried talking to her about it, but she kind of just doesn't even give me a ...

Is it weird I don't want a guys night out? My buddies are upset when my wife comes out with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Is it weird i don't want a guys night out? I'm 24 and married. I'm a very social guy and prefer group dates and parties and just generally any situation that involves a lot of people. My friends that I have from before meeting my wife will som...

I feel like a reject everytime he's not in a good mood cause he doesn't want to be near me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - A major problem I had with my last bf was that when ever he was upset he wouldnt want to be around me or anyone. He would just want to be alone. I always took this really personally. And if he was around you when he wasnt happy, he would be really ...

My 'friend' is acting like an immature jerk about my past sexual relations - he says he's going to tell my bf about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I am in a bit of a muddle. I have recently got together with a friend of my ex. Myself and my ex split up years and years ago, but a couple of years ago when I was at a low ebb and after listening to him tell me all the things I wanted to hear I ...

I caught my fiance and daughter getting it on in our house!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I moved a long way to live with my fiance. I love him so much. My two kids came with me: son, 14 and daughter, now 20. I have caught my daughter and fiance at it in living room! I went to bed early and came back down and caught them. This has broke...

He cheated and while we made love and I climaxed, he told me the graphic details! We're sick about it, but it's a turn on! What's up with that?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - my husband of 10 years had sex with our next door neighbour. he had told me he was attracted to her. neither of us could understand why because she really is not at all attractvive in any way. on my birthday he came home and told me they had just...

My bf slapped me b/c I was nagging him when he wanted to sleep! I feel it's all my fault.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 yrs slapped me in the face yesterday just because I was nagging him very late at night when he wanted to sleep. Is his action justifiable?? He blames me for provoking him since I didnt respect him in letting him sleep. Now, I feel ...

Our friend is being quite snappy w/ me and will not talk about it! Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have been close with a man of 42 (i'm 27) for some time now and he has recently became good friends with my husband. We all go out drinking together and my husband's friend and i have remained really close friends. My husband is aware of this ...

I'm dating a married man who cheated on me! His wife refuses to divorce him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What can i do now? I am a 26 year old girl, pretty and independent. My college boyfriend left me when I went abroad for my further degree. I had another boyfriend two years after I came back to the country, but i found he married, he cheated on m...

I'm in love w/ someone other than my abusive husband - but I'm unsure about his actions, as well! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a husband for 14 years. I loved him and was totally dutiful when i got married as arranged by my parents. He beat me sometimes on account of fights and left me helpless. I got fedup and promised to throw him out of my feelings but didnt ...

He quit watching porn for me, but he still is cheating on me by pleasuring himself! Is there any hope left for my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I am having major problems with my husband, been married for 29 years, I found out he was watching porn behind my back, he said he would stop, I caught him again a few months later, he was ashamed and promised he would stop, since then I haven't ...

Should I tell my wife's friend that I love her so I know whether or not to stay w/ my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I love my wife but I am also in love with her friend. I would give everything i have to be with her friend and don't know whether i should tell her that i have fallen for her. Will she tell my wife, would i be better to tell her to clear my thoug...

I went through his phone and saw that he still talks w/ his ex! She's seeing someone, but he didn't mention me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - im 26 and iv been seeing my bf now for about a year, when we first got together he had just come out of a 3 year relationship and i had come out of an 8 year marriage.we've known each other for 8 years and when i split up with my husband i started ...

I really like my ex's friend and she likes me, too. But I think she has reservations about getting together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a couple weeks; I've had the biggest crush on her since I've seen her. Her friend is my ex girlfriend. I really, really, really, really like this girl and she says she likes me, too, although I have a ...

I danced w/ my brother-in-law before my husband at our wedding - now my guy is all upset! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I was married 5 days ago and on our wedding night I danced with his brother before I did my husband. He is all upset and has not talked to me since. I have told him I am sorry but it doesnt seem to matter. What should I do?...

I'm living in hell by staying with my husband for our kids - please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I need advise and opions. Have you ever been in a bad relatioship where you feel as though you're under-loved, never missed and he could care less? What do you do when you feel yourself slowly falling out of love more each and every day? ...

My partner of 20 years and father to my children has fallen in love with a prostitute! He's also slept w/ several others!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Am I mad or what??? I've been with my partner 20 years, we're not married. We have two kids, 18 and 16. Anyway, three or four months ago, he was ill suffering from anxiety. Turns out he has been seeing another women - well, girl actually. She's ...

I figured if I could have sex with a few women, then I would be able to see passed her past. I cheated on her 5 times, but only ended up kissing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - A while ago my girlfriend and I had a rough going of separate ways. A little over a month ago we began seeing each other again. Before our breakup, I was head-over-heals for her, and when we began dating again started off the same. While...

I have no control in this relation, my partner is very dominating and won't listen to what I have to say.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I feel as though I have no control in my relationship. My partner is very dominating towards people in his life, especially women, and uses this to get his own way. For instance, if he wants you to do something and you refuse, he will say “I’m ...

My partner is very critical of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I feel as though my partner is very critical of me. Little things like, for instance, not washing his clothes correctly or forgetting something from the store, cause him to blow up and make comments like “I ask you to do one thing and you can’t even ...

Is it ok he's an online gaming addict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - is it okei if my bf is an addict on online games and dont have time for me?...

My step father pushed me into having sex, should I tell my mother? It could give her the strength to leave him.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a serious question that needs your opinion. Was I raped or sexualy abused by my step father? It started when I was 15. He and my mother were dating for just a few months at the time and he sorta slept over alot. One day It snowed so much ...

I thought that pleasing him was the only way to make him love me, but now I want out because he used me. Could he change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I recently turned 18 and i have a big problem and i am looking for some advice. i have been having sex with this 24year old guy since i am 15years old. I recently got pregnant and my mom forced me to have an abortion...

Had plans of moving away, but after meeting my bf I realised I've something good to stay for. Now I resent him for changing my life plans. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - i met my b/f about a year ago and fell for him straight away but a month before that i was asked by a female friend to move to australia with her as her grandad werent well and and needed looking after. my plan was to move with my friend but over ...

We live with his parents! How can I get us out of his bedroom and into our own place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - i wanted to buy a house not long ago and ive been with my boyfriend for over a year. we already live together but at his parents which i find we are always stuck in his bedroom. he's 23 and im 20 i feel like we're now at the point where we need to ...