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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I keep crying because I have really really low self esteem and I just feel really ugly and rejected and basically a mess.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I'm really confused right now. I started a job 3 months ago and met this guy called Dan through one of the people at work. We became friends and about a month ago he kissed me and told me he liked me. I was a bit unsure at first because he's a bit ...

He's never cheated on me but when he left his phone at my house there were texts on it from another girl!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - hi... I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. He tells me he has never cheated on any of his ex's, and I believe him. Recently I've been on holiday for 3 weeks, when I got back he told me he'd really missed me and been so bored while I was ...

Am I doing the right thing, am I being unreasonalbe? I gave him 100% of me and I know in my gut I'm only getting 50% back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I came out of an engagement last year, it was a 6 year relationship and ended with me kissing someone else and realising that I wasnt getting what I wanted from my fiance. It hurt considerably to break it off. There was a lot of security involved, ...

I crave attention from him, our sex life hasn't always been great and I've had to come on to him if I want to make love, this is now adding to my fear of him being gay even though he swears he is straight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I'm so confused and I'm at the end of my tether, my partner of 4 years is a cross dresser, he lied about it for a good year then told me, I told him to prove it as I thought it was his way of trying to finish the relationship, so I dug out a pair of ...

Is this wrong that I had a meaningless fling with someone and now I've fell for his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I had a brief relationship a few months ago with a guy. We used to go out socialising together and sometimes his twin brother would be there. He got a job abroad and we would see (and sleep with) each other now then when he was home. It was not ...

Am I supposed to wait while he gets over his committment issues? And if he does decide he wants to commit, how will I forgive him for lying? How can he earn my trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been lying to me about where he has been going out, does that mean he's cheating too? How do I get passed the lies and trust him again? My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I'm 31, he's 28. I recently found o...

Why would someone want to make you feel so ugly, and lie to you the day they have your engagement ring in your hand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I have browsed through everybodys opinion about porn being problem in a relationship. But I haven't found my answer. Here is my scenario, and some opinions would be most helpful. My boyfriend began using porn when we were together for a year and...

Should I just take a break with him and focus on my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Should I break up with him? I really love him and he loves me we have been going out for 8 months now. I'm just not into anything sexual or anything like that, I like him more as a companion right now. It is also probably becuase I am a big ...

I know if I admit to having an affair he will go beserk as he gets very upset if I only just mention an ex's name in our conversation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I have been with my bf for 9 months. He's a lot younger than me (he's 22 and I'm 32), and he says this is the best relationship he's had, he loves me very much and almost puts me on a pedestal. I love him very much and feel the same, he's kin...

She started a new job 10 months ago and I know her new boss is flirting with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new ...

How can I make this up with my girlfriend again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend about one year now and I really love her. We tend to fight a lot but always talk it out and are better. Last month I was having a drunken stupid conversation with this one girl I used to work with. We both liked each ...

My boyfriend told me he's not in love with me any more and needs a break...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Ten days ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect ...

I am cheating on my husband with my best friends husband and don't know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I have this crazy situation. I've been with the same man for 17 years, married for the last 11 years. I have had the same best friend since high school. She has also been with her husband for the last 17 years and they have been married for the ...

She says she needs time, but says she loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - She says she needs Time, buts says she loves me I was going out with this girl for a couple of months, now i no that it doesn't seem like a long time but we just clicked. We stated talking on myspace, then i was over her house the next day. we did...

I just wish she would take it to the next level!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I have this friend of 2 years, earlier this year I started to have feelings for her, a couple of months ago I let her know these feelings, unfortunately she does not feel the same. She was very to the point in the way that she sort of had a go ...

Is there a chance that she was scared my departure would hinder our future together? Now the travel was canceled, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 487 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - Hi all, Quick question for you all. Last week (thurs) my girlfriend said to me she cant do this anymore being with me. This is due to i was supposed to be going away in Jan. I spoke to her again on Sunday and had a longer chat that she didnt wa...

Do you think I should move on or give it a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hi, i'm a female 26 yrs of age. Due to the kind of family i was raised with i really stareted sex very late, i started it when i was 22yrs. The thing is i always belived in marriege and i never wanted to have an affair so i waited so long bu...

He wants me to sell my jewellery to pay for HIS debts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I'm in real trouble please help me quickly, I'm married to a nervous guy who spends money around and at the end of the month he wants me to pay the rent; I'm not working so he wants me to sell my jewellery to pay his debts which he took from the ...

Would you stay in a relationship for convenience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hi aunts, I would like your opinion on this question please. Would you stay in a relationship for convenience? My asshole of a husband has been committing adultery for the last 3 years and constantly lies to me, I don't know why because I always ...

We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 490 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have lived together for 3 years and have a 16 month old baby together. We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't. He has 3 other children all in their twenties now. What would ...

Is it possible for him to change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and for the past 2 things were very rocky. He was never physically abusive but he was verbally. He would belittle me in any way possible and it was as if he never saw anything wrong with the way he ...

I can't let my feelings go for my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 492 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I recently got back together with one of my friends that I really like and I told myself I wasn't going to screw it up with her this time but as I waited in the counselors office to my school (waiting to ask about class change) my ex, who I still ...

He planned to cheat and got caught (that is my fear). He can't believe it is such a big deal to me, but I'm embarrassed, shocked and hurt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is from a very different culture to me. He hid the fact he had a girlfriend when we met, I left when I found out. He broke up with her and said he will try to avoid her, he doesn't, she was even at his place once when I went there ...

My relationship isn't making me happy anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid: I am not happy. My relationship of 3 and 1/2 year is not making me happy, but I don't know if it me or him; or is it a stage that couples go through or are we just simply not meant to be. We are currently in a long distance ...

I don't get aroused. Any ideas about what might be going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (?) - This is a bit embarrassing... but I don't know why this happens. Okay I've been with my boyfriend for a year, this is my first boyfriend. I used to get so turned on even when he just kissed me, there was a lot of lubrication and all. Now, it's so ...

Is it common for people to stay in touch with their ex's like this? Should I stop being a fool and do something about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much but I am so afraid he is going to leave me. He and his ex have a very messy past and I know he talks to her all the time. I try not to let it bother me, but it really does. I don't understand why he needs to talk ...

I love her soo much, she's funny, gorgeous, intelligent, and soo much more and don't want to lose her but really need to figure our problems out because I don't know how much more I can take.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 14 months. I love her soo much but it seems that as soon as things get really good she finds a reason to get confused about me. Last Friday she phoned me in the morning and woke me up which is fine. She wanted to ...

I don't know if he's cheating on me, he says he loves me... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 492 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I have been with my partner a year and half. We use to get on really well till October last year his dad went down ill and everything changed between us, we never have sex, he is always strange with me. Then his mum and dad died this year and ...

It's like pulling teeth just to get my boyfriend to put his arm around me. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I am a year older than him, but we are both teenagers, and are seniors in high school. The first year of our relationship was wonderful, and then, for some reason, after we hit our ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Boyfriend's Mother HATES ME I suspected my boyfriend's mother hated me when she repeatedly sang praises about his ex-girlfriend (two girlfriends ago) and how much the whole family loved her. It was confirmed when she began calling me NOT by my act...