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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I found a shirt he only wears when he goes out in his car, but we hadn't been out in a while

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My b/f and i were planning on going away for a long weekend. I usually do not see him on wednesdays but since we were leaving thursday morning I saw him straight from work so we can leave in the morning. I get in his car..and i see a plastic bag in ...

My only problem with him is that he is Hindu, while I'm Muslim

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...

My girlfriend overheard me saying I still loved my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - my girlfriend over heard me telling someone i still love an ex tho i know this must have hurt her feelings i dont know how to tell her i love her in a sisterly way and im not in love with her. i love my girlfriend more than anything and im ...

He told his ex-girlfriend all about our sex life! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - So, ive been seeing this guy for two months now. Im completely in love with him already, and he feels the same about me. But the other day when he was at work I couldnt help myself and took a peek at him IM messages. I looked at the conversation he ...

I'm 16, he's 19, and he says he's wanted to propose to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Right! i been wiv my bf for nearly 3months hes 19 n am 16 n we get on really really well as friends and as much much more i'm his longest relationship since he was 13 hes brilliant but last night we were chattin online n he was sayin how m...

Why won't she just break it off completely if this relationship is so bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - So my girlfriend and I starting our relationship a while back. We were together for 18 months, the last 6 of which were very shaky. Not for any terribly wrong reasons, but we had a lot of fights. Finally, she told me that we should break up, ...

A man at a bar poured a drink on me, my boyfriend beat him up, and now I'm torn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - i got a question and its kinda confussion abit i guess! today is my birthday and last night my bf and i went out to the club and he had gotten real jealious over a guy buying me a drink and asking me for my number, but you see i didnt acce...

He says we have to get married for money reasons and he shouts when he is drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I just got married the other day. On the way home from the wedding my husband and I got into a argumement about money mostly because I want to buy a house and he doesn't want to wait to find a home to buy to move because he is currently driving ...

Some friends say I have changed because I don't smoke pot anymore. They say my boyfriend is controlling me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I have two specific friends who believe that my boyfriend is "controlling" because he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who smokes pot. this is fine with me because it is not something that i am attached to so im not doing ...

My partner of 5 yrs has left me. I am 8 weeks pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My partner of 5 years has left me, I am 8 weeks pregnant. I have a daughter who believes he is her father and he has left. He has backed out of getting married to me and buying a house with me. We have been engaged for 4 years....

How did a girl like me manage to muck things up and get involved with a married guy?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Ok...so bare with me. I met his guy, a band guy, and fell head over heels in love with him while I was married. After talking to this guy for about three months it comes out he's still married also but that he and his wife have the most Jerry ...

Is it normal that he wants to keep in touch with some of his exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - hi all - newbie here! just wonder what people think of their partners having contact with their ex's when there's no real need [kids etc] my longterm boyfriend of 3yrs still emails and chats online with a couple of girls he was involved with, h...

I got back with my ex but am I just settling for someting that is just ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Hello. Can anyone help? I split with my partner in February this year after 4 years together. It was my decision. We didn't live together but I have a son from a previous marriage and he has 2 sons too. Mine is 12 and his are 14 and 17. Sinc...

I'm due to get married and love him but get cold feet at times, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married very shortly. I'm very excited about it! And everytime I look at him, I can't help but think of how much I love him. Sometimes though, when I have a minute to sit down and put the wedding planning ...

I've told my partner so many lies. I feel really bad about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - ive done so much stuff to the love of my life. i lied to him about things, i even kept secerts and weve been together for 5 years and have 2 childern together, and i dont no what to do i feel so bad, and now that he knows i feel better but he ...

I'm begining to think he doesn't find me attractive anymore. He seems to prefer girls on tv!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - please help, i moved in with my boyfriend about one month ago.we have been dating for four years now our sex life has been great.i wen't ot bed the other night and he was still up. well i got up to go to the bathroom and found him masterbating, to a ...

I feel like I cant compete with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I met my b/f 2 yrs. after his g/f broke their engagement and moved away. And judging from all the pictures he still had of her on his computer, and the things he had around his house when he asked me to move in, I knew he wasn't over her even ...

His family don't approve of us and if I had someone else I would be happier! We are in our sixties.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Please someone help...........the man that i have been dating 2yrs 9 months is 68 yrs old. i am 64. he broke up with me in july but we have started seeing each other again. he is afraid to tell his selfish family. when i go over to his house in his ...

My girlfriend wants to know my every move and who I've been talking to. Is this normal???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I of 9 months have recently moved in together. She feels as if I am lying to her if I don't tell her EVERYTHING I do. From who I talk to, to emailing an accquaintance to who I had lunch with. Am I in the wrong for feeling ...

My boyfriends ex is trying to cause trouble. Is he cheating with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I had written a post a few weeks ago about my boyfriends ex.. which was.. She emailed me and told me my boyfriend and her had been talking and that they were sleeping together.. I was furious.. Now I didnt believe her because shes been trying e...

How can you get the man you love to want sex with you again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - We are a couple in our 30's. Together 4 years. No children, no stress, nice home and nice jobs. Sex life non existent.. well maybe once a month. You would think he was the female of the two of us. There are no sexual issues, not impote...

Within days of splitting he was in bed with someone new. But now he wants us to get back together. Can I trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Just need some thoughts..My bf and i have been toegther for 3 yrs, we had a bad break up, and got back together. Anyways we broke up again, I told him I hated him and stay out of my life forever....Anyways 4 days after the break up, he goes to ...

I've been married for 17 yrs. Am I in love with a young girl at the church?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - I am 40 and my wife 39 and we have been married for 17 years, about a year ago a 21 year old girl came to my church and i can,t get her out of my head. am i in love with her? it is driving me crazy....

Is my boyfriend over his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Is my boyfriend over his ex? We've been together over a year, living together for 6 months, but he is still in contact with her through texts, email, and occasionally phone (She lives in another country). Thing that bothers me is he hasn't told her ...

She wants a divorce, but I still love her. And the thought of being a part time father tears me apart!

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - My life has just fallen apart. After 9 years of marriage and being together almost 15 years, my wife has told me she no longer wants to be married to me. We have had a tough time over the last 4-5 years after my son was born, my wife has suffered...

Is he just giving excuses not to go to bed with me? I feel unloved...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - i have been married for 3 years now. we have children from previous marriages who live with us. I am very upset as my husband sleeps on the sofa most nights. he gives a variety of reasons for not coming to bed. "cramp, checking something on the net,...

Married 22 years, 2 children caught in the middle, financial problems, had to give up work due to depression, unsupporting husband, no friend... What on earth am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I really don't know what to do? I have been married for 22 years and have two teenage children. We have got financial money problems owing alot of money to alot of people. I have had to give up work due to suffering from depression and am u...

We are meant to be together, but he can't accept what I did before...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for seven months now, and we both know that we are meant for each other. However, a year and a half ago i ended a relationship with another man because he cheated on me bad and treated me like absolute shit. i was with...

My husbands sex drive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My husbands sex drive and stamina and mine aren't compatible. Before we ever dated I'd had about 30 partners. He has had about 7. While dating, I would come home from working midnights and would try to accommodate him sexually. Little did I ...

We were expecting different things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Bit of a complicated one this, but please bear with me! Basically, I'm 18 and off to university in 2 weeks. There is this girl with whom I have been sort of 'on off' (in a way) with for the last few months, but she is younger than me and s...

She dosent even comfort me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have being going out for 4 months now in the beginning it was crazy love now she treats me like Im just a normal friend I have been so nice to her and now when Im seriously depressed she dosent even comfort me?...

I'm starting to feel attracted to other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - Hey, I need a bit of advice I've been with my first and only girlfriend now for almost three years which is great. but for a long while now our sex life has almost gone. In the last 18 months we have had sex less than around five times,we dont liv...

Should I still ask him straightforward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I've met this guy about a month ago, and we've been hanging out about 10 times. Last week we started holding hands and kissing. When I'm with him I feel that he likes me but he's never said he likes me or any of his feelings. So I remain silent, ...

My daughter is acting out to be with my ex and I don't know if I should trust him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Well an update here for my problems with my ex husband that some of you know about. Its been almost 3 months since my divorce and I thought after going through all the drama with my ex, me and my daughters would and could be fine on our own. That...