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age
51-59,
*azz
writes:Hi, I am a 35 year old woman, in a long term relationship which has just become SO boring! I love my partner, but find my mind drifting away thinking of having sexual fun on the quiet with FEMALES!I am concerned that I may be a secret lesbian, and have only just realized. Am I normal?Please help
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reader, Arriella +, writes (5 September 2007):
 You know there are so many women that fantasize about other women so there is no need to worry its perfectly fine. Women are more sensual soft loving and affectionate, and perhaps its that side you crave. Plus being a woman yourself you know what it is a woman wants and feel that you will be able to fulfill anothers needs. You say you are bored, is he? Things can become monotonous as a relationship is at first based on sex but becomes much deeper and is more about respect and a partnership,in the long run. Love changes in that way and you say you love him. Spice things up first... i wouldnt tell you to go and indulge in your fantasy as it should be just that, yours alone for you to secretly enjoy, (we'd go mad if men went about enacting theirs, seeing as they have multiple!)Plus i bet it wouldnt feel like cheating because its a woman right?? It is though...watch some films together, you may perhaps get more out of them than he knows.x
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