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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want out of this relationship! How can I make him understand it's over and keep it civil until I can get out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16, it's been 4 years now. We've never had a serious break up until last summer, and it lasted for 6 months. Ever since we've been back together things have not been the same. I have no desire to work for a ...

Is she waiting for me to contact her or has she realised that she doesn't want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I met this girl almost 3 years ago n when we 1st met it was great..we fell in love and i couldnt be happier..we were together for a few months and because of work i had to move away.. we drifted apart and all the feelings i had were becoming a ...

I love her, but can't trust her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I'm totally stuck in my relationship. I love my girlfriend so much and she loves me but I can't trust her at all. Things are ok now, but last August/September we went out on three nights out and on each of them we came back seperatly. The first ...

He's too controlling, but I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year, but the past 7 or 8 months he hasnt trusted me 1 bit. I cant even go into town shopping with a friend without him texting asking who im with, what im doing, and ...

Do I get back together with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hi. Can anyone help sort my mind out? I've recently got back with my ex after 6 months apart but some communication etc in the meantime. I feel that since the split in March that I have got on with my life - that doesn't mean looking for someone ...

I need help to stop feeling jealous! What can I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - help im a 20yr old female, iv always been cheated on in my relationships, and now i have a boyfriend of 1yr and i jus cannot trust him! i never accuse him, i just have the thought in my head he's cheated. we see each other everyday but when he does...

I need to end a relationship but how do I do that without the rest of the semester being horrible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I've come to the point in a relationship where something feels... off. I can't shake off this feeling and I think I need to end the relationship. I have a class with him though, and I don't know how to break it to him without the rest of the ...

How do I stop feeling so needy and dependant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I rely too much on being in a relationship with my girlfriend for happiness, which means I'm always trying to make it more secure by being overly affectionate (which in turn means, I interpret a lack of return affection in a negative manner, and ...

We live in a really high crime and polluted area b/c my husband doesn't want to quit his job! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I hate where my husband and I live. I've lived here all my life (I'm 25) and my husband (24) moved here about 6 years ago. It's been fine up until the last several years. Now, for some reason, everything about this place is taking a dive. We b...

I think this guy is cheating and feel as though he's using me as a trophy g/f and a slave! What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Dilemma, HUGE!~!~!~!~ I'm kind of on the youngin side at 20 years and never before have I cared to pursue a serious relationship. However some months back, at the start of this year, I met a man who had everything to offer at first glance and...

I feel like a babysitter instead of a partner - now I'm crushing on someone from my past! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Im really confused. i have a boyfriend who i have been with for three years, we have three children, 1 which is mine and two that are his, we have none together. the mother of his two sees their children one a week for a couple of hours. all of...

I don't think he cheated, but I'm still insecure b/c of two incidents that occurred w/ him and other women! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - The long and the short of it is this... I have been with my husband for over 8 years. In the beginning we were both young and immature and both of us did some things that weren't totally "kosher" but nothing serious or abnormal - harmless flirting ...

He doesn't want to be w/ me because his friend - someone I went on 4 dates with - is refusing to talk w/ him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I am so unhappy. I am 26. I was seeing a guy (Mr A) (24) and we only met up on 4 occasions, we weren't really well suited so it didn't work out and kind of fizzled out. Before this happened tho I met his friend (Mr B)(25) and there was an instant ...

We don't communicate as often, but I'm not too upset about it - what is happening with our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - hello. im 14. i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half months. he has been sweet and text messages me like really often. even if his just saying, good moring darling. or, darling what are you doing now. he is just really sweet,bu...

Separated from my wife, we have a sexual relation; I left a nasty message to a man who she exchanged suspicious texts with, now she won't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - ive really messed up this time, ive been separated from my wife for nearly three years,i work as a taxi driver and pick her up at weekends and go back to my flat for sex, on saturday she fell asleep and i went through her phone to which there was ...

Do I leave for a couple weeks, a month, permanetly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Good day. I am in a committed, generally speaking, good working relationship, going on 3 years-living together for 2 1/2 years. We share a dog, I have 2 cats, he has a bird (we cannot have human children). We are both recovering addicts for 4 ...

Do you think that I should tell him that either I go to the reunion or I will get out of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I asked a question yesterday about a class reunion that my bf is going to........... we are in our sixties and he will not allow me to go because he will be staying with his sister and brother-in-law and they do not know that we are back together. ...

My gf split with me, as her family was moving away. We tried to talk, but it was awkward, as she sounded angry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - Hi. My girlfriend split with me because her family was moving house, about 130 miles away from me, and didn't want our relationship to continue. We tried to talk after she moved away, but it was awkward. She sounded angry with me, so I decided tha...

I think my partner is going off me - how can I regain lost confidence and realize I'm not at risk of losing my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I'm in a loving relationship with an older woman who has two children. I've never been happier, but I see her turning inwards, sometimes. She says she has issues, with her looks, getting older, etc,. I know she needs me to be strong, confident and ...

Neither man expects an exclusive relationship w/ me, but I feel filthy and disgusting by dating them both at the same time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Bit of a mess... I've been seeing a guy as a very casual relationship, it was agreed it wasn't to be serious, and that we weren't limited to just seeing each other, but it kind of didn't end up that way for me because I've never been the type to ...

My partner confimed my belief that all men would be unfaithful if they could! But he said he's different. Why should he be?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Please, would you give me your view?. It is my suspicion that all men would be unfaithful if they could and were not found out and the person offering sex was attractive enough. My partner told me that I can trust HIM, because he values our ...

My fiance says his active dating profiles are fake, but I think otherwise! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hello there.. i am very tensed and confused. i love one guy and i felt he loves me too well i can say sometimes that he loves me. i just found out his profile in dating sites and talking to other womans for hot chat. i found his pictures n told him ...

I left him b/c he told me he had plans to sleep w/ my friend. We split, now they're together! Is something wrong w/ me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I recently left my boyfriend because he was telling me that he is gonna sleep with my friends. One day after I left him, he already started dating my friend... I tried so hard to keep him, I did everything he told me to... What more am I supposed ...

My current bf is a lot like my ex. I don't want to repeat what happened - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy recently for a couple of weeks and I really like him and he really likes me too. The only thing I have so far seen that may stop this working out in the long run is that he works so much! He works 50, nearly 60 hours a week! ...

I cheated on my fiance b/c I felt lonely! Do I tell him? How can I repair the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I been with the same guy for the past five years. We got engaged a few months ago. He is truely a wonderful man. Two nights ago I cheated on him with a guy I work with. I believe that the reason I cheated was because I was lonely. My fiance has ...

We've split b/c the relationship just didn't feel right, but now I'm confused about my feelings for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend because something just wasn't feeling right but every since then i still think about her all the time. She wants to be together and I do to but there are times that I feel I just want to be single and free and have some ...

We are a blended family and my husband doesn't treat my daughter like one of his own. Any suggestions or comments???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I am a married mother of 4. My husband and I have been together for over 6 years and married for 1 year. We have 3 children together and I have one from a previous relationship. She is 9 years old and has a small handicap / disability if you will. ...

There's too much drama in my school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - My whole school is filled with drama and i hate it soo many rumors soo much of everything high school is deffinatley a hand full i'm in grade 9 and the start to this year it all has been hate, everyone hated someone and there was just a fight today ...

How can I tell her that just b/c I like guys now, I'm still the same person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - One of my friends thinks I'm changing, but everyone else thinks I'm the same. She thinks I'm changing cause I'm more into guys now. But, you see, everyone is changing cause everyone is now having sex at this age! Like a lot of my friends already ...

I havnt been able to orgasm with my boyfriend through penetration and its become a problem in our relationship. What can I do to make our sex life better?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I'm a 24 years old. Me and my boyfriend are having sex for 5 months once a week at least. I never had vaginal orgasm before, I can have clitoral orgasm on my own or with partner. When my boyfriend learned I can not reach orgasm by only penetration ...

I feel like I am getting into a state of depression over my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - PROBLEMS!! Not sure what to think, but I feel like I am getting into a state of depression over my relationship. I have been in plenty of longterm relationships in the past where the man has cheated and I took him back, etc. But this relationship ...

My boyfriend isnt interested in penetration he only wants to masterbate over me. Is this natural?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Seven years with my man and he never wanted sex all he wanted was to stand above me touching me while masturbating. I feel intimidated and unworthy can some one please tell me if this is natural not to penetrate ever?...

Is my long distance bf calling me less because he's busy or because he wants to split up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 September 2007 (?) - So the thing is that I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy who I haven't met yet. He lives so far away, like a couple states over. He used to call me so much and now he calls me less. And when I call, it's like 2 mins we talk and he's...