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writes:Is there any chance of getting back together,i was with a guy for 7 months we had a good relationship together,never argued,thing was i fell in love with him and i think it scared him. We was talking about moving in together,but because he had always been on his own he thought he couldnt change.i think he did start to get feelings for me and that scared him even more. In the end he started making excuses up about coming round so i got abit annoyed and ended it,i did try to get him back after 4 days because i missed him so much,but he didnt seem to want to know.Anyway a week later i find out he has someone else already it only lasted 6 or seven weeks as now i have discovered he is on his own again.I Saw him last week driving in his car,but not sure he saw methen last night we were both on line at the same time on a dating site. I wanted to send him a message but didnt because i am scared of rejection from him,do you think i should write or just leave it to see if he contacts me? I feel deep inside we should be together and it seems funny we keep crossing paths.
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reader, BeckyBadger +, writes (4 September 2007):
 There is always a chance of getting back together, but I think that with this guy, he's scared of commitment, thats why I think now you may need to slow down to his speed.When you do bump into him from now on always try to make a point of saying hello, and asking how he is, after a while, you will find that he will be the first person to say hi.Just show him that you care, but you dont want to smuther him into a relationship, try to be carefree arond him, ask him if he fancies going out at some point just as friends, he will soon become enchanted by you and ask you back out again. During this time you can get to know him better again and sort out your true feelings, making sure he is the right guy for you.Hope I helped, and good luck!BeckyBadger x
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