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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend so moody... ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I cannot figure out my boyfriend. We just celebrated out 1 year aniversary together a couple weeks ago. It was the greatest day, very cute and romantic, and the private part of the night--fantastic!! hah. Any way we dont see each other as much as we ...

I'm constantly put down by her - then she leaves w/ our baby for days at a time! This time, it's been 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Hi all, i a have been with my partner for two years and we have a 9 month old baby, for about the last 18 months our relationship has changed somewhat, where no matter what i do its not the right thing and i'm constantly put down or criticised fo...

If I left my current relationship to be with Gary, I know I wouldn't be able to trust him as he's emotionally unstable. Thus?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - real confused. i am 18, for the past 3 years was crazy about this guy...lets call him gary*. when i turned 18, i got with my current boyfried, steve*.. i never thought about steve in a "more than friends" was cause we had only been friends a year, ...

He left me for his ex and mother of his two children the day after our miscarriage! How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, im going through hell. i have just broken up with my bfriend, he has left me to move back in with is ex. we find out i had a miscarriage on the tuesday and on the wed he moved out with his two kids, who i helped surport. They loved me...

She says she likes someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I am 17 and so is my girlfriend. we have been together for just over 2 years. She has just told me that she likes/fancys somebody else, even though she does not find him particuly attractive and claims she has never thought about doing anything with ...

I think my wife wants to try saving the marriage but her friend is pushing her back to the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - my and my wife were trying to save our marrige so she left her bf for me, a week later she back with him after i walked in on them. she will not talk to me about it 5 days later, all she has said is that she loves me but not in the way i want as ...

Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Is it emotional abuse? My fiance and I always argue, and last night I just had enough. The problem is I live with him, and where Im from is far away. Anyways, I was just wondering if breaking up with him is the right thing to do. It feels like ...

My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I...

How do I get him to see me like more of an equal?? He gives the impression he thinks I'm stupid and don't have a clue about life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - The man I'm seeing frequently treats me like he thinks I'm stupid. Granted, I grew up in a small town and never moved away. I went to our community college but never received a degree, but it wasn't for lack of intelligents, but because I was ...

He might just want casual sex, and if I tell him I might lose him as a friend, so what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - my best friend is a guy, and he has previously been out with 2 of my friends. in between both of these relationships, we became very close and ended up sleeping together. i felt really guilty, we talked and agreed not to tell anyone. years on, still ...

He's been sending sexy texts to other girls... and somehow I've been made to feel bad about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Im 7 months pregnant and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have two children from prev relationship. I have found a number of text messages and emails from my boyfriend to girls asking if they could meet up etc and he sent a message to a ...

I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. ...

Am I being paranoid, worrying about the old row we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Am I being paranoid? I asked my boyfriend if an arguement we had a while ago is affecting us, he said no, it is dealt with etc...things are really good between us but that makes me even more suspicious I mean what if he is acting nice so he can fool ...

My lack of trust brought back to him bad memories and we broke up. Anything I can do to convince him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Me and my bf ended last wednesday. Things happend a couple of weeks before, and he said that i had been accusing him and checking up on him, and these are the things his ex used to do and she really hurt him. He said he didnt want to get hurt...

I can't understand why he won't give me a chance if he loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - can anyone help? me and my bf broke up over a month ago we where fighting a lot and i was very insecure and didnt trust him i have begged him back but he said no that he loves me but cant be with me hes not the same coz of all the fightin. he has ...

I got drunk and told him I'd had multiple partners and affairs... but it wasn't even true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - If I can get a guys' view on this, I'd appreciate it. I have been with a man for about two years now, in secret (never married, but were both involved in long-term relationships). We have a very close relationship, but not without its hardship...

How do I get through to this guy that I'm already committed to my bf??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - i have a friend at work who has started showing an intrest in me. have told him from the word go that i have a boyfriend whom i am commited to. He also acknowldges that he has a girlfriend but he only wants to know me better personally. He insists ...

She doesn't care about me as much anymore, but wants to fix things. What can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, and we have been very in love with each other all this time, we used to do everything together, she even moved in with me. Two months ago she went to work in another country for 6 weeks and ...

He feels nothing during sex with me and sees it as a chore... He says I'm too loose!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I only had 2 sexual partners so far, one is my current boyfriend. My first boyfriend had a small penis however i had many orgasims and had sex many times a week. But my new or 2nd boyfriend who has a large penis says i am loose an...

I'm 18 and have never had a bf - what am I doing wrong?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Im 18 and I have never had a boyfriend before. I have no idea what im doing wrong. I go to college, I am physically attractive (Guys look at me all the time), and I definately have a nice personality (I make friends easily and keep them. S...

I've slept w/ my friend's gf when he left. She was going to follow him, but now she loves me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Her bf, a friend of mine as well, left promising she should join him. That is not what he told me. Since he left we started to phone and meet almost everyday. When I opened my heart and mentioned my deep feelings she answered we could only be good ...

I feel we're drifting apart and don't know how to fix things...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - I feel we are drifting apart... My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years and boyfriend/girlfriend for 7 months. We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were absolutely fine until an unfortunate series of events that began 4 weeks ag...

My boyfriend placed an ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend placed a personals ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do? ...

It's so easy for people to say "Just be yourself!" BUT I CAN'T! I'm only like this with girls, though!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Ok, where do I start? I feel so insecure about everything lately. Well most things. For example if I am around other girls I find it hard to engage in a conversation while being myself. Honestly I love my personality and I think I am a great person ...

He told me he wants to take a break b/c I wanted to go out w/ my friends! But I really love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - hey people my heart is really broken. my bf always dumps me and then we return. but now he wants a break. all of this is because i wanted to go out with my friends. is there any chance when somebody asks for break that they can return to each other? ...

What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...

How can I be happy when I'm torturing myself and the one I love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Her threesome in the past problem nr.#982512. How to cope with such a great loss?? After all that time I've spent on helping myself getting over something I never really intended to hear it's all over now. You see we were a dreamy couple. I...