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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does he want to end things with me and is trying to let me down gently?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 months recently told me he is depressed and that he wanted to get away from his friends, me, the city we live in (not together) and away from doing the same old things. He is a mature student and is due to start back at un...

I found his secret phone and txt from a girl at work. Hes an alcoholic and we split loads but I hate being on my own so we get back together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - i have just found out my partner of 3 years has been cheating on me, i found a secret mobile by his side in bed while he was drunk as usual!, it was full of explicit texts to a girl he works with, i couldnt believe wat i was seeing, i know he hasnt ...

I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - I think my girlfriend wants to cheat on me. What do I do? Here are somethings that have happened: First of all, my girlfriend and I both have herpes. We both know this and talked about it a few months ago. Just the other day I saw in her search ...

He's a great dad and a great guy but I don't think I love him anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been married 6 years now. We met when I was barely 20 and were married 2 years after. We have two children (one from his previous marriage)and I'm trying to act like I'm happy in my marriage for them. I just don't know how long I can do ...

My boyfriend might be moving away. Should I go with him? We have been together a year.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Im 21 and moved to kent 2 yrs ago i have a 2 yr old son and his father has no contact with him. when i moved here i never thought i would meet anyone but i did and i love him to bits. he has three children two of which live with their mum who now ...

My boyfriend is on dating sites as single and looking. Is this the same as cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm really confused whether I should sacrifice my happy relationship of a year because my boyfriend constantly joins and hides his online (local) dating sites, sex personals etc. He claims he loves me and wants to be with me, but then why would h...

She's keeping us guys that like her hanging and sleeping round her exes house. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - I don't know where to begin, my heart and thoughts are all over the place. Earlier this year, a met someone who became a very close friend of mine. Time went by, and I started to develop feelings for her. At the time, she had recently broken ...

Will my boyfriend stay in jail because he pushed me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Can anyone please tell me what happends when someone gets in trouble for a domestic disturbance. My boyfriend was put in jail for three days because he pushed me during a fight and my roomate saw and called the police. I do not want to get him in ...

Should I split with him because I worry I will get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Ive been seeing this boy for 2 months now. I really, really like him and so I think I should stop seeing him cos Im scared of getting hurt. I feel like Im falling for him already - I always want to be with him, Im worried when a day goes by and he ...

Is my guy gay or Bi??!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Help! Is my boyfriend gay, bi or what?? I started seeing someone 3 months ago ( I am female, he he a male). We are both in our late 30's. From Day 1, he told me has never been in love, while I, on the otherhand have been in love a few times in my ...

I want to split with my girlfriend but I'm worried I wont meet someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Did I do the right thing???? I recently split up with my first and only girlfriend. I'm 27 (so its a late start for me) but she was younger. She's a lovely girl and loved me with all her heart, she would have done anything for me. But throug...

I heard that my guy has slept with my cousin and a male mate. How do I find out if its true??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - hi, i got this situation that i really need help on,i was out with a cuple of friends yesterday and sum1 told me that my bofriend has cheated on me with my cusen. the person told me that my boyfriend that i have bin with for two years and his ...

I feel so bad for snooping on my boyfriend! Should I confess to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I feel so bad about myself. I have been having lots of nightmares lately including a very vivid one of my boyfriend with another woman. Anyway, the other night after I had a couple of drinks I found myself looking under my boyfriend's bed. I ...

Friend or enemy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Well I have a friend who is the same age as me (20) and we fell out because she couldn't stay round mine. She called me a bad mum and that she was embarresed to hang around with me because im slightly bigger than her.. Recently we made up and ever ...

My ex and I got back together but he wants to keep me secret because his family don't approve. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been dating a man for 2years 8 months,and he broke up with me about 2 months ago. he and i are again dating but he hides me for fear that if his family finds out they will dump him. they are very dependent on him and i don't think this will ...

I'm losing my boyfriend because I'm jealous of his kids and I don't trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm loosing my boyfriend becouse im jelous of his kids, and acuse him all the time. i dont trust him....

Sometimes I sing her to sleep on the phone at night but lately I've been hearing noises of moaning, groaning and what sounds like sucking or kissing. Very confusing.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Ok well this we'll be the first time i've truly ever asked anyone for help, especially online in a situation like this but i just can't help this feeling.it's driveing me crazy.I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl that i truly ...

My husband and I are separated for a year now, after I confessed about my affair. 15 years of marriage, thrown away? Help, please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - i was with my long term partner for 15 years we had a son together,we split up a year ago,because i had cheated on him in all the years we lived together i never even looked at another man,but what happened my ex started going to the gym all the ...

My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. It has shaken my faith in our relationship. Suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - My fiancee recently asked for permission to kiss two other men before we get married. We are going to get married in about a year. She said she just wanted to get it out of her system. I didn't really think about it much and said she could. The ...

He talks about marriage but hes older than me and doesn't have any money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - i am a women who is 24, and i am single. but there is the man who is busy telling me he loves me. sometimes i think i love him too, but there is only one problem with him. he doesnt have money. not that im looking for his money but his is so old, he ...

We were fine again in 20 minutes and laughing about it but inside I am still jealous, should I be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - Confused and need of some advice! My girlfriend is returning to England as a foreign student(we met 7 months ago whilst she was studying English) We love each other very much and she has gone to much effort to arrange a visa to return to study ...

They love me when I am invincible, but as soon as I crack they don't support me. Do guys only like women who are strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I know this sounds weird but guys only like me because they think that I am strong and don't put up with their crap. All my bf's always tell me how I am different from other girls (I hate when they say this). How I don't care about the same things ...

My boyfriend lives in another city and I feel neglected.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - My "boyfriend" lives in another city and went on vacation with his family and sister/niece/nephew from another country for 2.5 weeks, so the last time I saw him was on August 12. While on his trip, he only e-mailed me once and text messaged me ...

I love her but I have trust issues from previous relations so I've been snooping around and can't put my mind to rest. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - My past is not the greatest i have slept with random girls and i had some one night stands! so here is my question - Me and my girlfriend started dating 6 months ago and when i moved into her house i snooped around because that is the pers...

I want us to learn how to control our anger towards eachother, but after the police intervention I'm afraid the relation will end.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - Please someone help me. I have been crying for over 3 days now. My boyfriend and I have been having some problems, for intance: Whenever he got me really really mad, I would try to smack the back of his head or his chest or sometimes slap the side ...

Should I end this though we have wonderful times? He's showed me no signs on wanting a future together and is looking for his soulmate online.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for the past eight months. I am a very attractive female. My boyfriend is the average joe. He is a part-time musician. A while back he had to perform and I accompanied him. During one of the half hour breaks that he had a ...

I feel that he needs to give me something valuble materially to show me he cares

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I'm really in deep love with this guy, we know each other for only 4 months, but it just feels good.The problem is, that i put so much value on "material" things u know, maybe because im accustumed to it, and had linked them with love which i know ...

She won't cut him off completly and I feel like I am going to get hurt in the end. Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

10 September 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a dilemma, I love my girl but we have had problems in the past. I don't think she feels we can get passed it and I think she has feelings for another. It started as a long distance relationship 6 years ago, I live in England, she ...