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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend is a pornography addict!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now. 5 months ago, he told me that he had an addiction to pornography. I was really upset at first, but then decided to stay beside him, be a prayer support, and try to get him through it. Thin...

My ex allowed his female cousin to pick a fight with me...now he wants back with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - I hav been having so much bad luck laterly ..:( my ex boyfriend's cousin wanted a fight so i gave her a fight but it was when i was goin out with my ex.And he dint stop it from happenin and he says hes wants to get back with me but i duno what sha...

I am almost certain no drugs are involved, I just think he will always be flighty and I want the "normal life..." What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my b/f for nearly 5 years. We broke up in April after I learnt some devasting news about his life, he has started to take drugs. I threw him out of our home and bought him out. I kept in contact with him to support him to s...

If they don't care enough to wish me a happy birthday, should I waste the time and money to be in their wedding? (I'm the bridesmaid)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Hello everyone. I need some advice on what I should do with a situation that just occured and has me extremely upset. I do not know if it is because I am angry, which is why I need someone to help me think straight. Yesterday was my birthday, and...

He says he doesn't care about me, then fears I can get hurt in an accident, after that says has no feelings, then can't stop holding me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 476 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - He is all about pleasing me when we make love, and he even cried the last time, but then he told me he doesn't care about me, that I'm not on him mind and he doesan't miss me when we are apart. Then he frets that my car is too small and I'll get ...

She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...

The relation has advanced and I suddenly feel unhappy. I've had same symptms in other relations. Confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - I've been friends with a girl for the past three years and recently we've become close and we got into a close relationship. Its been about six weeks now and we become deeper and suddenly ive felt numb and unhappy, especially after we have a sexual ...

He shows no care when we make love, doesn't react when I'm mistreated, why is he like this? Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over a year and even though i have asked to meet his friends,i never have, he only visits them if we have an arguement,he has also lied to me a lot. Last year he slept at his ex partners sister,when we had ...

One week I feel attracted to her, the next I'm doubting her or questioning my love for her. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - My mind is in a mess. I have been with my great girlfriend for over a year but keep getting these strange moods. One week i'm into her and feel attracted to her, the next I'm doubting her or questioning my love for her. The thing i've noti...

Part of me thinks that I could do the "casual relationship," but I fear that I would be stuck in a loop of heartbreak everytime I "left in the morning."

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - hey all, Me and my ex dated before the summer, she broke up with me before she went home. The breakup was very sudden and out of the blue for me, she told me she didnt want to be in a relationship and needed space. So she returned the other d...

If it's true he hates me (as he tells other people) why does he get with me when drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Theres this guy I like, I've liked him for over 2 years now. At one point about a year and a half ago he was interested for a few months, but nothing ever happened coz my mate liked him too, at this point I was 14 and he was 16. Now I'm 16 and he's ...

Made a promise a while back, it didnt happen, now we are just coasting! How do we get it all back!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Been together 4 years... Things used to be fab... in the main they are ... but we seem to be just coasting along and no getting very far. It all stemed ages ago(2years) when i made a suggestion of introducing a 3rd party to our sex life. Only ...

He says he feels like I'm a step ahead of him on everything. Is it time to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and currently live together. He comes from a pretty messed up family and has therefore had a lot of difficulty in relationships. Our has been plagued with conflict..him being dishonest abou...

All of a sudden he wanted space after 3 years, is it over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - I was living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and all of a sudden he wanted space, so i moved out. Two weeks later he said that it was best that we weren't together. We have an awesome relationship and get along great and talked about the ...

Am I being stupid?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

16 September 2007 (?) - Am I being stupid? I have a great wife, who is a great mother with our children and in 12 years we have never had bad problems. My problem is that she had a couple of relationships in high school and as she says she was "forced to have sex". ...

My loving, wonderful boyfriend has changed since his return from Iraq. I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - hay guys! right i have no idea were to start i met this guy 2 yrs ago! the perfect guy eva! we fell in love almost straight away! then he found out he had to go away for 8 months with the army to iraq! then half way though the trip he got a we...

He's cheated on me twice and has hi me 3 times... I've found somebody else, but I'm not sure where to go from here

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and hes cheated twice and hit me 3 times. he was genuinlly sorry but everytime i try talk to him about it he ignors me and the only person i feel i can talk to is another boy and now me and him keep sleeping ...