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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Too much too late?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Have been married 18 yrs and 3 kids 17, 15, 11, last few years Ive been unhappy. I finnaly told husband I wasnt happy and I dont have the same feelings for him. Now he is trying to change over night and do things he has never done, do dished, ...

We have a great relationship, but lately I feel he's growing further away from me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i guess i should start by saying that my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 10months now. Things were a bit strange to start off with; we were best friends before. Anyway, we have a great relationship but lately i feel he's grow...

My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) ...

He cheated, but he won me back... Now he's had to move 2 hours away! I love him, but I have doubts...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I am so conflicted. I have been dating a man for about 4 years. Last March I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. I broke it off with him and kicked him out of my house. Afterwards he was very remorseful and fought very hard to win me ...

He wasn't always a horrible boyfriend, so how can I forget the good times?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - hi, i just split up with my boyfriend because i have had enough. he cheats on me, he spits at me, he punches me, he tells me im the ugliest person he's ever seen and if i made him really mad he would rape me. the relationship is completely 150% ...

My bf says he wants to rekindle our relationship, but only wants to see me twice a week!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - after dating someone steady for almost 3 years, breaking up two times, can this relationship be rekindled? once a relationship has gotten very intimate can you really start over like it was when you first started dating the person? my bf says that ...

Has she stopped loving me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I am new here but hope you can help me! I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, I am worried that she no longer feels the way I do anymore, I loved from day one and still very much do. Over the past 6 months or so she has become v...

My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me. I couldn't fight back because he was too strong. What should I do now? He has apologised but I'm not convinced!...

Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...? I have been married 13 years, three kids. Back when dating my wife and I went over pretty detailed things about our sexual past. Names, places, how it took place and so on....

Do I try to make my relationship work? I can't stop thinking about this other guy but is that because of the thrill of it that I enjoyed it all so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and over the last year or so things have been becoming very strained. Our sex life is non-existant - due to an unwanted pregnancy which we chose not to go ahead with and since then I have become ...

Do you think he will ever leave her as they don't see that much of each other or am I just wasting my time hoping he will.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - A couple of months ago I met someone who I later found out to be married to a woman in Thailand, he works in England for over half the year and stays with her for the rest, he lives very close to me and we see each other a lot. He said he does love ...

He said the girl beside him in the picture was his cousin, but his step sister told me it's his ex! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we've been almost a year. I saw his pic. and a girl that makes me confused if who is the girl beside him. He tell me it's his cousin but when i talk with his step sister. She tell me it was his xgf. i confront my boyfriend if ...

I think my attached friend likes me! I think I like him, too, but I don't know. Arrrgh I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have just started college a month ago. My closest friend there is a guy (i'll call him James) and we hit it off straight away when we met. After knowing him for about a month, he keeps calling me his girlfriend's name accidentally. I don't think ...

My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...

Should I let my son's father have contact with his child? I fear he'll mess with our baby's head like he's messed with mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hey, so.. my son is nearly 2months old, hes 1month 18 days, and all of a sudden the father has tryed to get in contact.. he put me through complete hell while i was pregnant with riley (my son) we are still very young, but his actions were really ...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is ...

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...

We've split and she won't give me back my things, including sentimenal items that belonged to my deceased grandfather!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - dear all. my girl and i split 8 weeks ago. i ended up having a nervous breakdown, ended up on anti depressants. she has my things still. i've asked for them in every shape or form: letter, text, e mail etc. Nothing. Left it for fw weeks, nothing. T...

I've started to pull my weight around the house, but I think it's too late! How can I show her I've changed and don't want to split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - hi i don't really know how to start this but here it goes. i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and in the beginning it started out great. we loved been together, everywhere we went it was together. we were always together. we got...

I feel I have to choose between my daughters happiness or my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello... I have been with my partner for almost 4 years...we have a 2 year old daughter together. In August 2006 my partner, his friend Paul and I went out for the night clubbing in Bournemouth. The drinks were flowing and by the end of the night...

I'm the only one who calls and texts in our relationship! Should I stop to see if he'll actually initiate the communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Okay so i've been seeing a guy for the last 2 months. We get along really well and have alot in common. My problem is he doesn't call, or initiate text msgs... but will always pick up and talk, or text me staright back when i initiate the comm...

She makes me feel bad for bringing up our (lack of) sex life! Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Hi I am a 28yo Male and I have been in a relationship with a 28yo female for almost 1 year. We have live together by ourselves no kids, standard 9 - 5 jobs. My problem is our sex life was great at the beginning a couple of times a week and now i...

The day after we argued, he got a text from his ex asking "how'd it go?" Was he discussing our problems with her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I found a text message from his ex girlfriend. I've never been the suspicious type but lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky patch. We had a really big arguement early on in September, which nearly caused us to break up, but we ...

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

Am I cheap person or have misunderstood his actions? Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Am i cheap person or have misunderstood his actions?dear aunts, here is my problem. Im with this boy for almost 5 months,we have fun and everything.Im not so materialistic girl, but cannot understand why he bought me a cheap present and not even ...

He prefers to watch other couples on cam than be with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - hi please help my boyfriend of 19 years would rather watch a pretty couple make love on cam on the internet site he has joined (couples show on cam everything from blow jobs to full on sex) he hasnt touched me for 2 weeks yet he gets excited to ...

How do I get over my crush, for real this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 422 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I've come to a decision. I'm going to try to get over my crush of three years. Yet I've tried so many times. Once I think I'm over him, he shows up out of the blue and it starts all over again. The only signs I've ever gotten to show he likes me...

My ex's brother won't be in a relationship w/ me even though the break-up was a year ago! I don't want to give up on him - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in ...

He called his ex twice behind my back - how can I trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 8 1/2 months and i been having trouble trusting him because he called his ex-girlfriend twice behind my back and i found out about it what can i do to trust him again???...

I get physically nauseaous worrying about whether or not he's going to miss me or just be happy I'm out of town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Well I am not sure where to start. About a year and half ago, I met this great guy. He is about 5 and half years older, we have a lot in common, we moved in together about a year ago, have talked about marriage, not so much now. About 6 months ...