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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend went on a date with another girl, we splitted over this, now he wants us to start fresh again. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I had been going out with my boyfriend for over five years, we moved in together and things started going downhill between us, I was thinking that he was seeing someone else,so I started checking his mobile, I found a text he sent to his friend ...

How can I help him change so I can enjoy a night out without his jealousy ruining it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - last night i went out with a friend i havent seen in 5 months for a drink and my bf didnt stop texting me when i didnt reply back he would text me the same text until i replied and at 10 he sent one that said why i wasnt home yet he then phoned me ...

We split and she doesn't keep in touch. Should I persue her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for eight years I am five years older....when we first got together she was 15 and I was 20. She was a virgin and I never slept with her, for four years I was faithful, but when I moved to Georgia I cheated on her. She neve...

Should I leave my alcoholic partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Should i leave my alcoholic partner? He's ok through the week but at weekends he starts drinking as soon as he gets up and so is back in bed by lunch time. He gets up at tea time and starts drinking again then he's in bed again before our one year ...

Who is to blame? He or I or both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Who is to blame? He or I or both? Well, here's the situation. My boyfriend and I started dating three years ago. Everything was fine at first. About six months later, we started arguing and he would get into name calling and he tried to break up ...

Have I got unrealistic hope that he is just very confused, hurt and angry and needs time, or is it really to late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I'm sorry this is long, but I think you need the background to answer the questions at the end. I have been with my partner just over 3 and a half years. We've lived together for 3 years. Two years ago I discovered I could have a genetic defect t...

He told me he wants us to have a proper relationship and I'm reluctant to do so for fear of hurting my baby father and also for the fear of putting them both in a dangerous situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Where do I start!! I was going out with the father of my child for almost 4 years. At the beginning of this year I started to feel like I didn't want to be with him anymore and so I ended the relationship but got back with him in April. I became ...

My boyfriend left because he didnt love me anymore. He's only come back because he fell out with his dad. All I want is him to love me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend coming up 6 years this month but for the last couple of months things have been really bad between us. He told me that he didnt love me anymore and he moved out for 3 weeks then he moved back in as he fell out with his ...

My husband cheated on me so we split. The guy I'm with now is making me suspicious. Any advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I split up with my husband 2 years ago as he had an affair.i am now with my boyfriend almost two years. i still abit insecure to how my husband treated me but love my boyfriend so much.The only thing is i dont know if i trust him and feel he lies to ...

He spent so long chasing me and now he just wants to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - A show of hands please, when he tells you after dating for a few months let's just be friends, does he really mean it is over, he doesn't want to be romantically involved with you ever again? I started out as friends with this guy, and he purs...

He resents me going out in the day and my friends all say he is being unreasonable!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Hiya everyone !, Im writin for some advice because for the past 6 weeks my 3 children have been off school for the summer holidays, and i also have my nephew during the school holidays so i've been stuck in the house most days. I have been really ...

Is the age difference the reason I'm so bored with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. I feel the relationship lacks spontaneity. He's 21 and I'm 16. My parents love him and vice versa. He's a lovely guy, very hardworking, and has plans for the future but I just feel that I'm getting ...

My brother spies on me getting changed and tries to have sex with me, help me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - This started ages ago it was about 3 years ago but my brother who is 4 yrs older than me he is a nerd but he always spies on me getting changed and tries have sex with me i try to push him away but he is to strong for me. I scream and shout because ...

Is this the end for us? My ex and father of my child told me he is bisexual...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - hi.. my ex boyfriend who i have a child to and we are still really close has just recently told me hes bisexual and has feelins for men ? i was wondering if anyone else has had this happen to them or been in the position and can give me any ...

I need to stop bein unfaithful before I get caught and lose him, what's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Im so confused......I love my boyfriend, I REALLY do. Id love to someday be his wife but....I have this huge problem....I cant seem to be faithful. The sex is great, our relationship is great, we are best friends and I dont ever want to be without ...

He could get into trouble, because I lied about my age, and now I feel guilty.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - there's something i need to get off my chest, when i was 15 i slept with a 38 year old. i convinced him that i was 18, but i feel so guilty because i know that if anyone found out he could get into trouble. he recently got in touch but i'm so disgu...

My husband flirts with other women, takes their numbers but says its innocent.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I have discovered that my husband has been flirting with other women - but would like advice on whether he's going too far. I have been with him for 5 years, married for 2. Last night he came come late and drunk, about 3am. He fell asleep mid text...

I have an open marriage and I'm having problems with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - I had a very tough time recently on holiday in the UK with my bf - he was not happy there - he wanted to come to be with me but he just couldnt enjoy himself - he didnt mean it - I think he was culture shocked -he is Egyptian and life is so ...

I think my girlfriend of 2 years is going off me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (M) - i was wondering if my relationship is about to end? me and my girl have been going out for two years now we are both 20.we have lived together about 1 year.the past 2 months have been really hard i keep doing romantic things for my girl such as ...

I met this guy, all was going good for a few weeks. Then he wanted to call it off. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - i am approaching 50, i have been on my own for 8 years. i met a guy i was at school with, for six weeks he couldn't get enough of me, in his words i was his number 1, he would do anything for me, he was so kind and thoughtfull. he seperated earlier ...

My husband left last night. Its our daughters christening on sunday, how do I tell the family whats happened?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - My husband left me last night. We had a furious row where lots of things in the past were dragged up. He says he's going up north. I am left here with four children, his business to run and I don't know how I'm going to cope. On Sunday it's our ...

I'm not keen on him drinking, how can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 490 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - hi all! i need some advice on my boyfriend situation. i love him, he loves me, we've been together for over 16 months now and i've no doubt in my mind that we will spend the rest of our lives together. the issue lies in the fact that he drinks and ...

I put him first and he spits and yells at me. Why cant he respect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 490 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - My finacee of 4yrs and I are having problems. He is very mean to me just because I dont want to go with him over to his friend's place since i believed that it was a guy thing going on. I've been trying to explain this but he just doesn't get...

I think my husband is having an affair. He tells me I'm not in a position to say anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - how do you survive in this situation i married a guy though my parents didnt like him and definetly didnt want me to marry i have a three month old baby my husband has a baby ,from cheating of course with a girl who has no respect for o...

He takes my money so I cant go anywhere or look for a job.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - well about my problem that i put out there about the guy i live with and im pregnant from. well the situation about me giving him money the point of it all is i don't give him my money he goes threw all my things until he finds it, and will take it ...

How can he be true to me when he is doing what he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

8 September 2007 (F) - Do you think a man can love you if he sleeps with his ex within weeks of you splitting? And then meeting another, 10 yrs older than he, and uses them for sex then tells you he isn't interested in them for anything but sex. He smokes dope with her ...