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Archived questions from: 9 September, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm a student and he knows that my financical situation is unstable and he's got a well paid job.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Is this the Austrian way of doing things or am I being foolish. I'm so confused, dating a guy for 3 months. Everything is okay. He text me sms me, not much callings but when I ask him to call he usually does. The problem is, when I'm home back got ...

Should I chuck him or keep holding on and waiting for some miracle to occur?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I'm 16 years old and have had the same boyfriend for about 1 year and a half. At first it was really lovely, and then it just went sour. We have our good days, but when it gets bad, like some stupid argument over who buys what, we shout and scream ...

I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't, I am unsure if I should call it a day or just carry on waiting....

Ever since we had an abortion I've been a paranoid freak.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Im 17 and I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months.. I know that's not a very long time but I'm crazy about him! I'm 99% sure he feels the same for me.. but I can't stop being paranoid. I'm worried that he's cheating on me, even though he has ...

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Ok, this is going to be complicated. I went out with this boy for 3 months, and I broke up with him because he wasnt putting any effort into the relationship, at all. It was always me phoning and seeing him etc. Anyway, we were good mates for w...

She never calls me, I always have to call her first yet she calls her friends with no problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - dear cupid Hope you are fine. I have a girlfreind who I love so much, but the problem is that, I don't know if this girl loves me as much as I do her, this girl does not call me at all, I have to call her everytime... even if I send her air time... ...

I'm going crazy. Should I call him or is it too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Two weeks ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect ...

Is he ready to finish with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend and when we are together everything is really great. The one problem is we don't see much of each other, when I make an effort to meet him he is really vague towards me and doesn't call when he says he will, what to do!?...

Is he taking me for a ride? Do you think I can learn to trust him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I got together with my boyfriend (who is 16 and I'm 19) while he was with another girl. They had only been going out for two months and we felt that what we had was really special. He's dumped her now but now I'm scared he'll do the same to me. ...

My boyfriend has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for taking him back but I just can't let go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - hi, I'm really stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in no more, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has started taking drugs cocaine, I've told him if he carrys on I'll end it but I don't think he cares. He has hit me in the ...

Since I cheated too, we're "even-steven," but I don't know if this means he will be unfaithful again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me the other day. But...i did the same to him... i cheated with an ex. He knows, i told him, and he told me he cheated on me. We're being honest with each other, which he really appreciates. But he said he was upset and mad ...

He wants to date others but misses me when we're on a break...is all this worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Here is my problem...My boyfriend who I've been with for almost 5 months now is having feelings of wanting to date other people. He's had these feelings for a month or so and now we're taking a week "break". I miss him so much though, and for some ...

During my recovery, I asked him to accompany me for the night, he went to his friend's party instead and slept with someone else. Should we break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I have been in my current relationship now for nearly 6 years. We got together when we were 16 years old. We are now at different universities, have completely different lives and all we seem to do is argue. I nag him all the time to be more ...

I am currently in a marriage where all we do is argue. I feel at times my wife is treating me like a child.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - I am currently in a marriage where all we do is argue. I feel at times my wife is treating me like a child. There are times when we have gone out and she has embarassed me in front of friends and family. About a year ago I had a slight breakdown and ...

I feel really bad on her boyfriend and wouldn't have got involved if I didn't want to really make a go of it with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Hi guys. Just wondered your take on this. I'm in an affair as the other man. We are very much in love an it would be amazing for both of us if she were available (bottom line is she aint!!!). Now they aint married an no kids an she thinks she can ...

He says that he's not sure about getting married anymore. He wants to be sure before we even get officially engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hello, about a month ago, my boyfriend asked me to marry him. It was very low key (there wasn't even a ring) and he said that we were going to redo it later on to make it more official. I was really excited of course and I can't wait to start my ...

Do I meet the Internet guy or stay in an unhappy relationship for the sake of my son?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hi, oh god, i'm in a bad situation here. I'm 23. I have a 4 month old son, and a partner of 2 years. We live together. I have been chatting to someone else online for about 12 months now. This other guy wants to meet me. I like him alot, he wants me...

If we do split up how am I going to tell him I'm pregnant? He's been getting phone calls saying I'm cheating on him when I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I just found out I'm pregnant - I did a test last week and it said yes, I'm scared but that isn't the issue here. I don't really have any symptoms except feeling bloated [I only took a test because I'm 3 weeks late] does this mean I'll miscarry? B...

I cant seem to stop flirting with guys when I've been drinking. I'm scared I will do something silly when my guy isnt out with me. I think I just crave the attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I cant seem to help myself from flirting with other guys when im out, even if my boyfriend is right beside me! its only when i have drink on me but im afraid to go out on my own incase i do something ill regret. like last weeknd, i almost got with ...

My girlfriend seems to speak to her male friend more than me! Am I right to be hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Hi, here's my problem: My girlfriend has a very close male friend with whom she sometimes goes out with (just the 2 of them) to plays and concerts. In addition she texts with him a whole lot and they call each other a lot too (even late at night ...

I'm developing feelings for my girlfriend's daughter! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - I'm 29 and have strong feelings for my 33 year old girlfriends 17 year old daughter. I keep trying to forget about these feelings, but I can't! What should I do?...

We only just met but are already arguing. Whats going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - Hi there im looking for HELP!!!!!!! i met this girl 3weeks ago and we are dateting for 1week. but whe had fights already and it was realy bad, but last night whe whent to friends and i had a alot to drink and we had a big fight over it, and i said ...

I cheated on my girlfriend. I feel real guilty. How can I get her trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - i cheated on my GF the other day, but i still love her alot! i was just rubbing this girls thigh (not in her pants) but my GF freaked when i told her, and shes a wreck. I feel soo bad and guilty, and even after she found out that it was above the ...

He said the love has faded and he doesn't need me anymore. I feel used. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - I met a boy who I enjoyed spending time with, he was so sad when I first met him, he didn't know a lot about the world outside of where he lived. so I did what I could to start showing him how somethings could look through other perspectives. ...

My boyfriend is abusive and I have no family to turn to. I'm also pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - hello everyone, i am hoping some one can help me iam in a abusive relationship he beats me bad and i love my boy friend i am pregnant 6 months with hes child and i have a 2 year old also hes we have been together 5 years no mater what ...

My guy seems to have no emotion and I always feel like sex is a one night stand with him. Does he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - i love him but i feel sex doesnt mean anything to him as it does me he was my first and i was hes 14th that he had been with like its no big deal i ask him to make love then he gets into it saying aww i really cant wait to get u off as i...

He says he's not ready for marriage. Am I being strung along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I'm a 40-something childless divorcee who has been dating a 40-something childless divorcee for three years. I love him, I'm attached to his family members and ready to get married. But, he's not sure when or if he'll be ready. "Maybe 3 or 4 ...

My boyfriend is trying to palm me off onto his mate! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - he says he loves me and i used to believe this but i saw him yesterday and his friend was with us. weve been having some problems lately and i wanted to talk to him about it, but again his friend was there. then today he called me and the same ...

Do you think this guy is only after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I like a guy I met a year ago - back then we had one date and sex (well kinda,cause I was a virgin and he didn't know that:).Now I saw him few weeks ago,after that he asked for my number from a friend...Now we saw each other 2 times.He's cute and I ...

I love my boyfriend but I worry when he goes out with his mates that he will cheat. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much, and i know he would never cheat or do anything to hurt me. so why do i keep finding myself worried about him finding someone else when he goes out with the boys? and get jealous when he talks to girls? and the fact he ...

Should I break up with my bf or tell him I was unfaithful? I feel guilty.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been in a serious relationship for exactly 3 years, I love my boyfriend to death but lately we've been going through a ton of problems, mostly trust issues. I had this strong gut feeling that he was cheating on me!!...

My husband gets so unreasonably angry to our children about everything, I feel as though I'm failing them for not being able to avoid this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Hi,I'm really down,my husband has a serious drink problem,he turns from such a nice person into a real nasty person after a few hours, Always sorry next day,but its the kids i'm worried about,the nightly abuse from his words to them is heartbre...

How can I manage to have a normal relationship where sex and love don't have to be separate? Help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - Please help. Any advice would be so appreciated. My self destructive behaviour is destroying my relationship happiness. I don't know how to escape it. My dad left when I was two because my mum cheated on him. She then moved my step-dad in str...

My friend spoke to her on MSN pretending to be me saying some perverted stuff and now she won't talk to me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 September 2007 (M) - What can I do here? Alright I went on a few dates with a girl and things were going great, but now she ignores me completely, and although I like her I can accept that and move on. But the other day my friend (who was very drunk) was on my MS...