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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:In a couple of months i'm due to get married to my faince, we've been together for a long time, haven't had sex justed kissed, (i prefered to get married and have sex so i stuck to my oath) and then he proposed to me so i said yes. But the problem is i haven't told him that i feel sick doing things with a man's ****. For example handjobs, blowjobs. I know it sounds weird, but i've seen him naked obviously and feel fine around him, i have no problem with a mans ****, it's just at times i get quissy and feel sick, i don't do it on purpose it just happens, i start feeling sick. I didn't feel sick when i seen his but i'm scared i might once we get married and have sex. And it's not even that i feel quissy because i don't want to have sex, i'm ready and i know, i could tell before i wasn't ready and so did tell him and he was fine, but i'm scared he might not want to be with me anymore. When i did first see his i felt lust,but things can change, and i don't want a marriage on lies, any small thing can cause problems and i don't want that. I'm too scared to tell him. Anyway to fix this? and is this normal or am i generally just freaking out cause it's my first time or am i really weird? How do i tell him? Could this risk our relationship? And any tips on how i can get used to it, and feel normal and not quissy? Any help will be apprecaited.
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