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Am I just causing myself a headache to believe in the stars?

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Question - (22 September 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2008)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Oh, this is kinda like an astrology question. I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is Libra. I've had a lot of readings everywhere and people saying that the two are not a match made in heaven. But what me and my boyfriend have seems to be totally real and inseparable! I've never been so in love before and he claims the same with his previous relationships. The chemistry is so strong, the sex is perfect and nothing seems wrong...

The only thing i've noticed is that he never gets himself emotionally involved in our relationship. Which i admit does tic me, but i believe in the fact that you should never try to change your partner. I do because i think i can live with that, it isn't too bad. I just want to know if anyone has had this kind of pairing before, did it last, did it end badly, with just a friendship or am i just causing myself a headache to believe in stars....???

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (22 September 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntBe careful. If he isn't emotionally involved you might run across someone who is there for you, and that might cause problems in the relationship that yall share.

As for astrology, I wouldn't worry about it.

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A female reader, miss know it all United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2008):

well im a libra and my boyfriend is a virgo and we get on fantastic we have been together for two years now and things couldnt be better. It sounds like you two are very much in love so just ignore what people say and enjoy your lives together.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

I think the bigger problem here is that your boyfriend doesn't get emotionally involved in your relationship. How can you have a relationship without being emotionally invested? If it tics you now it will tic you more the longer you are with him and more emotionally involved you become. How can you have a future with someone who isn't emotionally involved in the relationship?

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A male reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2008):

OhLawdWhat DoIDo agony auntWhy would the time of year that you and your boyfriend are born affect your personality in any way? Doesn't that seem silly? Surely star signs are completely and totally irrelevant to anything.

Just my two cents.

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A female reader, lilgirly Lebanon +, writes (22 September 2008):

lilgirly agony auntwell i am a libra and i've dated two guys who have the virgo sign and it ended differently..don't read too much into it cause it might damage your relationship.for me i don't beleive in signs but sometimes i read about it in magazines just for fun.. and the funny thing is each magazine says the exact opposit of the other..

take care..and stop thinking about it..you might ruin things..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

remember...you're only talking about sun signs....there are a lot of other stuff too...like moon signs, ascendants etc.

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