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writes:me and my boyfriend(8months) have a really good relationship atm, we havn't actually had sex yet as i want to wait 'til i'm 16, but we mess around and that, i'm fourteen and he's in the year above. i'm really not into all the sex stuff but i know he is so i do it for his pleasure mainly, even though sometimes i do enjoy it.anyways, my question is, he wants me to take photo's of myself in my underwear, would it be wrong for me to do so? i hate it when i see pictures of girls half naked, who just love themsleves, so if i did it, would i be just like them? [even though i'm nothing like that].i know he'l keep it just for him, but even so, would he maybe think of me as just being like most of the other lasses out there for doing it?i know its not a major deal, but i'd like to know others opinion before i make my decission.and btw, is it wrong to take pictures under a certain age?any comments appriciated (:
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 If you are unsure about taking these pictures (or, indeed, anything else), then don't do it. It's your body, and it is up to you what you do with it or who you show it to. Because you mentioned that you don't like those kinds of pictures, I'd advise you to say no, because you may well regret it. It's something you are uncomfortable with, so don't do it just to make your boyfriend happy - he should respect your decision if you decide not to.
Keep in mind that if you break up, he may well use the pictures against you - do you really want the whole school seeing you in your undies? I'm not saying that he WILL, but it's a possibility to keep in mind.
Because you are 14, you are underage, so there may well be laws regarding things like sexual images - I don't know a lot about US laws, so I can't offer much info, but perhaps one of the other aunts can, or you can check up on Google. Either way, I'd definitely look into the legality of it befor you do anything.
Good luck, and keep us updated.
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