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writes:I found a picture of my girlfriend and her boyfriend when she was 14. He was acting like he was going to grab her breast, and she didnt look like she minded too much.She was put on birth control at about this age because of her devastating periods.I wonder if she was intimate with this guy at this age... the reasons that I feel she might have been are1. The picture2. Put on birth control for periods3. dated him for 9 months4. He was almost two years older than her.5. One time she was at a party at his house, and stayed overnight so she could drive home the next morning.Some reasons why she might not have1. Very young, she seems to disagree with being sexually active at that age.2. She broke up with him for another guy, leading me to believe that it wasnt a mature relationship.3. She is still friends with this guy, she does not get along with her other ex that I know she was intimate with.4. We are at 10.5 months, and she said that we probably still wouldnt be having sex if not for the first time (truly not intended, we were making out and it literally just slipped in... honestly... i know its hard to believe, but thats how it was.)What do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell friends, I do appreciate everything. I found out that she was lying to me about her birth control for that age. She did have sex with that person at a very young age. It doesnt really bother me anymore. i just wish she wouldnt have lied to me.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Reeeaalllly doesn't seem like it, sweetness. A picture where he appears like he's about to touch her breast? First off, that doesn't suggest that they're having SEX. Maayyybbeee that he's felt her up before, but that's not sex. It's really not. OR it could just be a picture!
Birth control is a very valid way of controlling periods that are difficult.
Why does it matter so much if she's slept with someone before or not? You seem to have a good relationship, just let it be! Stop getting "evidence" to support her sleeping with someone when she was younger. Ask her! If she says she slept with him, there you go. If she says that she DIDN'T, then trust her and let it go.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, xcharlottex  +, writes (16 April 2007):
By what you said I dont think she did, have you actually asked her? If she's said she was never intimate with him then you should trust her.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 April 2007):
 I don't know why it matters to you whether she did have sex with him or not but I also think that if you're that set on knowing you should just ask her. If you're in a loving honest relationship you should be able to ask anything, but if she tells you it's none of your business don't be offended because her past is allowed to remain just that if she so chooses.
CD
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