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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have been very honest to my boyfriend from the beginning I got with him. But I have a feeling ( a gut one) that he is not. He is not attentive to me as much as he was earlier in the relationship. He mentioned about a female friend of his, and later on, I asked him if he did have any feelings to her just cause I wanted to know..his reaction was being angry and me and he pushed me against the wall..right there something told me that there may be more to it than i know or im totally wrong. Few days ago, I wish I was pretty like that female friend of his becaue I do think she's very pretty and Im not as much, and he reacted to me by kicking me in the ankle and sticking his nail into my finger causing me to bleed and have a wound. If I have done something wrong, my reaction of guiltiness is just to admit to it, because there is not other way out. But I don't know that when he gets physical with me he is just doing because he feels guilty or he is innocent for something he has done. Need some guidance,please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): Hi
Get out while you can , he does not love you any more
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): Doesn't sound like he is honest to me. I am sorry my dear, but you guys are courting and this suppose to be the best time ever, he should never have done those things to you like kick you and push you on a wall, he doesn't love you enough. I can feel your pain because, I go through that with my husband, you are still single and don't have to put up with it. He is being dishonest. Don't worry about not being as pretty as her, I am sure that you are beautiful, and believe me honey, there will be someone out there that will love you for who you are and would treat you with a lot more respect. Try and get out of this relationship. It will be most difficut for you, but try, and let him know that you have more selfrespect than that, and you won't put up with his abuse.I wish you the best of luck with all my heart and hope that you find true love and happiness sooon.
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