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*ollyanna
writes:How important are looks to a man? Long hair, short hair? Short, tall? Brown eyes, blue eyes? How big is too big? How small is too small? What about chest size... does size really matter? Let's get really honest here. We're not all supermodels... but how darn important are looks anyway?Thanks!Pollyanna Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. Mark +, writes (16 April 2007):
Men are often given the bad rap of being shallow and staring at a woman's bust and/or rear. Ok, a lot of the time we can't help it, but ultimately it's not what we are looking for....
Often there is something about a woman that the guy can't put his finger on. It could be her smile, the twinkle in her eye, the way she laughs or the sound of her voice. Men generally want to spend time with women who seem fun and give them attention but are not clingy. Yes, overall appearance an important factor, but I think most men are interested in finding someone who looks healthy and is happy. Men want women who are encouraging, and who listen to their dumb and grand ideas. If only we men were as good at listening as we like to be listened too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): Men do like to have a good looking girl but personality plays a major part too. What men like is what they call a good looking girl with a great personality on their arm.
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reader, Blue Rat  +, writes (16 April 2007):
Looks are important to MOST men. There are exceptions of course. Naturally, in a relationship, personality is vital, but no matter how good the personality there still has to be a basic attraction too. At least that's how I feel and I think how the majority of guys feel the same.
Of course, what constitutes good looks varies enormously and beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder. Tall, short, long hair, short hair, big/average/small tits, long legs, curvy, skinny, buxom, blond, brunette, dark....we all like different things and a good personality is also part of any overall attraction too.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (16 April 2007):
 I think the first initial attraction is what someone looks like, but then over time someone's personality will far superseed looks. As for what things are important to a man it differs in each individual, some like brown eyes, some like blue eyes, some like big breasts while some like small breasts.
If someone is outgoing and confident this can also be very attractive to a guy.
Good luck x
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (16 April 2007):
 In my book looks only go so far. Some men tend to only look at the "beautiful" women, but to me it is the personality and the real person inside the counts (cheesy as that sounds)!
Yes, looks can automatically attract you to someone, but that is also down to personal preference. For me, it could be a look they give, or their smile, the confidence they have, to be honest it could be anything which attracts me to them. It is'nt always a package deal. (Big boobs, blonde hair, tall etc...)
You dont always have a choice who you fall in love with, thats the beauty of it...x
I think the important thing maybe is that the woman knows how to take care of herself and is self confident; that can be the most attractive quality you can find.
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