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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now.I think I am in love with his brother!Is this just a phase or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): take it from its a phase, sometimes when you spend alot of time around a sepcific person you might feel like you love them but really you dont. try and distance yourself from his brother.
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reader, Love Doctor  +, writes (16 April 2007):
 This is probably just a phase as the anon said the probably look pretty similar. If you have an arguement with your boyfriend try not to go oveer to his house, text or phone him, just incase his brother is in and he comforts you as you may take this as a wrong sign and you may do something you will later regret.
If your relationships seems to be going no-where then move on, tell your boyfriend things aren't going the way you would like them to and find someone new, definetely not his brother, or enjoy being single for a while, your still young you have plenty of time to find the man of your dreams, you prince charming...
Good Luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): Yeah, it could be. Seeing as your boyfriend's brother probably looks similar to your boyfriend whenever you fall out with your boyfriend and his brother comforts you you might think that at that moment he's like a nicer version of his brother. Don't get close to your boyfriend's brother. If something did happen between you and your boyfriend's brother and your boyfriend found out he would hate both you and his brother. You don't want to make some sort of brotherly feud do you? Plus if you did say that you have feelings for your boyfriend's brother to your boyfriend's brother and he doesn't feel the same way (or even wants his brother to stop going out with you) all he has to do is tell his brother and you'll get dumped. So stop thinking and loving your boyfriend's brother and focus on your relationship with your boyfriend. If that doesn't work then dump your boyfriend and move on. Find someone (not his brother) and play the court a bit. At your age you should be enjoying having fun on the dating scene before you find the right guy for you and settle down.
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