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writes:hello i have a questioni met this man on marriage site he said that he would love to chat with me so we got along very well we exchanged e-mails and chatted we live on different continents and he also has too much work therefore we dont chat often he cant even give me an appointment because it has to match his working schedule cause he even works on weekends and somethimes travels far from his city to work. my problem is i know he wants to chat cause i always find out that he searches for me on line and that is either very early or very lateso how do you think we can make it Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): Well, it would still be better to try and meet men who live closer to you on the marriage website.
This one doesn't have too much going for it, sorry to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): no there is no nicer guys in my area i can meet, cause i dont live in my country and there is a gap between me and the people here iam english speaking they are not i had a english backgroud education they are mostly not.i live in this country with my parents so i went on marriage site cause time is passing and i want someone who speaks english
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): The short answer to your question is: with great difficulty.
You both live on different continents, so how do you think you could ever meet, even once, given the distance and his schedule? It takes many meetings over a long period of time to get to know a person, and even though you get on well via email and chat, its not enough. Then there is probably some cultural differences between you. No small matter, that.
Even though you met on a marriage site, you're probably better off regarding this man as just a pen-pal, not anyone you might consider marrying. UNLESS sometime he makes a lengthy visit to your area; eventually moves here and things are really hunky-dory, that is.
Otherwise, it sounds difficult to well-nigh impossible, sorry to say. One more thought: how do you know he isn't already married? Maybe he is single, but how would you know that? Sorry, but its worth thinking about.
Are there no other nice young men closer to home?
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