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writes:Here it go, me and this girl got together in 2007, and broke up in the middle of 2008. We got back together in 09, then around may of 2009 she moved to Missouri (6 hours away). Since then i'll go see her or she'll come see me. We've never really used rubbers, but when i saw here this past weekend she insisted that i used rubbers. Am i trippin or could she have been messin around, and was scared she might give me something. I know it sound stupid but i cant shake the thought. someone help your boy out
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reader, lowercaseq +, writes (9 July 2010):
 dude.. Im on the same page as you . call her out on it and ask for the honest truth . or ask around to some people she knows. it would throw me a hint of something if she was so insistent on using them . good luck . and hope all works out for ya
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reader, taymauad +, writes (9 July 2010):
Me and my boyfriend dont use condoms also and if he suddenly started saying he was going to use i would find it really weird.
It doesnt mean necessarily that she has been cheating,maybe she is concerned she will get pregnant or she had something down there that she feels weird about telling you and prefers to make sure she doesnt give you.
I find it weird though ,maybe you should ask her why the sudden change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): No don't be silly...I been with my boyfriend 3 years and we never use condoms and we've gotten used to that. I've never been 100 percent comfortable with going raw but I kept quiet because I feared that he'd think the way u are thinking now. When I finally worked up the nerve to ask he accused me of cheating when all I'm trying to do is prevent myself from getting anoter abortion like I was forced to do by my ex boyfriend when I was 16...talk to her before jumping to conclusions sweety.
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