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female
age
36-40,
*iley
writes:I know my ex has a new gf.He confessed to me when I told him that I know your present relation.At first he tried to make me emotionally weak.I dont know why.He begged to me to receive his phone.I received the phone and talked to him very politely and calmly.After that I started loosing control over my emotions again.And next when I initiate the contact again he told me that he is very happy with his new relation.He told me that he still wants to keep contact with me.Not in a regular basis.But when we need we may contact.He told me to meet for the last time.I denied and said "be happy forever. But I dont think we should meet right now.It may hurt your new gf or may affect your new relation".He agreed with me.But told me that he still want to keep friendship with me.Its not possible for me to maintain frienship with him as i love him so much.I want somthing more.So I deleted him from my facebook and changed my number.I did not give my number to any of our mutual friend.I dont know I am on the right track or not.But I still have feelings for him.Even When I tried to be rude with him he tried to make me emotionally weak reminding me our past when we really had a good time with each other.My questions is if he is not interested in me why does he try to make me emotionally weak?Why did he say that he wants to stay friend with me?If he is interested then why does he avoid me?If I Avoid him he gave me emotional dialouges.Why?Its really confusing to me.Please help me.What should I do now?I really dont want to lose him forever.Does NC help to make him miss me?
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reader, The B man  +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Perhaps this guy is trying to use you as a lifeboat, so to speak, and that he wants to keep you weak so that in the event that something happens between him and his g/f, he would try to get back with you. Im only making an assumption from the way things sound but you might wanna give a little thought in this. I hope things end up for the better, Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): as he begged to you to receive his phone. I think he is missing you after a no contact. Is it possible that he lies you about his new gf.. If he wanted to jealous you. may be he too don't want to lose you. find the truth. If he is truly and deeply in a new relationship leave him. make a good conversation and decide both of you not to talk each other for some time. be a specific... 3 weeks or a month..give some more time to yourself.
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