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writes:i am 14 almost 15 and i always knew that i was different i knew i also loved girls.. after being threatned for being gay i came out to my friends finding out that the girl i loved felt the same about me and that two more friends were also bi. but me and her kissed a few times always talked and we we were both suicidal and so depressed after a while she stopped talking to me and i would send her little random messages to see whats wrong if she was ok. then her friend stepped in and started yelling at me bcc she wanted to be with her and hated that i loved Anna (name made up by mod). but then Anna was saying how i am too clingy.. its been about a month since ive talked to her. and i miss her . i cry everyday . i just can not get over her. i am in love with her. and she is my everything only one person knows the way i truely feel about her. my friend knows that bcc of Anna and me falling apart that i have been taking pain pill and getting addicted. and my brothers aderall. i have started cutting my self. and i cant stop.. i want to commit suicide now of all times but i cant bcc of her. and everyone says she is broken bcc she thinks i hate her and that she misses me . and i dont know what to do. i need help. What do i do.? keep trying? or give up? move on? i dont think i can.? but i need advice.? i just need her back in my life
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reader, The B man +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Continuing from my last statement, It appears that perhaps what you are going through may be an obsession. If you are interested in researching this there are two topics; Cognetive Behaviour Theorpy and Obsessive Love. To answer your question I believe you should try to move on but keep a friendship like bound which will keep a door open for the future. I dont know your case all that well though but if you want you can send me a message and I might be able to help a little more.
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reader, The B man +, writes (8 July 2010):
Let me start by saying I kinda know how you feel. I am obsessed with a girl(though im a guy) and she just moved away and my world fell apart. Now from what I learned from the last month was this; our minds can sometimes get "stuck" on someone,if you will, which can occur to ANYONE. I've been doing alot of reading on this and I found a subject that can really help on this matter, Cognetive behaviour theropy. I would suggest googling it and reading up a bit. I have to go, I hope I helped. Good Luck.
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