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writes:i lied to some of my friends and told them i lost my virginity... idk what to do... i trust my friends but i feel like they think im a hoe.. i dont wanna tell them i lied to them, but i dont know what to do..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): i did this to, and now i really regret it. last night they found out and now i think my life is ruined. i miss them so much. i am going to tell them the truth.
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reader, summer-xo  +, writes (18 July 2010):
just sit them down, apologise and look very regretful and upset at your actions, and tell them the truth. they might be a bit hurt that you lied to them, but that will go away and they will accept it and forget it. just tell them why you did it. stop worrying and learn a lesson from this, dont lie!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Why did you lie in the first place?
So you have a choice of being considered promiscuous or being a liar. Possibly both. Not good.
I guess I think I'd figure why I lied and then tell someone the truth.
Good luck.
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (8 July 2010):
 First of all, don't lie. If you don't want somebody to know something, just don't say either way. Ok but that's past now. You lied. You've got three things to do: You tell them the truth, you make a big deal out of this or you make a small deal out of this. Tell them the truth? just hope you've got good friends, otherwise they'll use it against you in which case, you should not blame yourself but your friends. If you make a big deal of this and get in over your head, lots of things will happen unexpectedly and you might not want most of those. If you make a small deal of this and you just let it pass, avoid bringing it up and such, just ignore it. You will pass through it calmly. What your friends think of you is mostly up to you. You either give them the right impression of you or don't. This case, you didn't and you will probably be feeling the concequences for a little while to come. Life's a series of choices. Your life will turn out by the way you make those choices. Can't really help you a lot from here.
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