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Should I leave him alone and go back to my husband?

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Question - (8 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok heres the thing. i am in the middle of a divorce, it will be final in a month. i am most definatly sure that im in love with his childhood best friend. and he says he feels the same way. thing is, he has two kids with a girl i used to go to highschool with. and she has one on the way. he loves his family and she has threatend to take his kids away. i need to know if he really loves me like he says he does and if i should leave him alone. i know that no matter what life goes on. but it hurts me.. and he says he feels the same way. im thinkin also about goin back to my husband because, its the right thing.. people tell me.. but WHAT Should i do...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

It sounds like you are very confused and maybe afraid of being alone because you haven't mentioned that option at all; it seems to be whether to start with this friend or return to your husband.

Being alone, like being with someone else, has its pros and cons.

It sounds like starting a relationship with this man when you are feeling so vulnerable could mess you up emotionally, as well as mess up his family. And how would your husband feel if you went off with his best friend? It's like a slap in the face.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (9 July 2010):

xanthic agony auntRegardless of how either of you feels for the other, he has a family and a baby on the way, which I'm assuming is his. If it comes down to him having to make a choice, he's definitely going to choose his children over you.

Leave him alone. If you really love your husband, go back to him. If not, find someone else.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010):

Has your bf left his girlfriend or is he cheating on her with you?

Has your husband said he would take you back?

More information please

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntDont be a home wrecker. He is married and you should know better than to break up a marrige. Stay clear of him and move on completely. You are getting divorced for a reason are you not? Moving on is the best option here. For everyone.

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