I am away on vacation and I think my man is cheating.

A female age 36-40, *aymauad writes:

So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. We did long distance for a year and 4 months and i moved to arizona to be with him. Our relationship has not been easy because when we met he had just separated and I had to go thru some much stuff because of his ex wife and my jealousy. I am a very jealous person and I have a really hard time trusting people. He had hidden things from me a couple of times which makes harder for me to trust him. He knows i will bitch at him if i know he was talking to his ex but he prefers to hide to keep the peace. I am away on vacation and I am suspicious he has been cheating. I called one morning after he went out the night before and he seemed to be whispering on the phone like somebody was next to him or something. He says he was sleeping and wasnt whispering. He is always fighting with me about my jealousy and how i dont give him trust but it is hard for me when he hides little things from me. since ive been gone for 3 weeks we decided to be naughty on cam and i realized he had trimmed his pubes and i got pissed because i dont understand why he would do that if i am not there. He said he did while he was shaving his chest to go to the pool with his daughter. I just find really weird i dont remember him doing that when we were long distance unless i was coming or maybe i didnt notice. I am freaking out here thinking that he s cheating while i am out of the country visiting my family. What do you guys think? Am i being too paranoid?

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