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writes:Ok,I recently found out something interesting about my girlfriend and her best friend (a guy who she dated until she met me). I heard that it was mentioned that she and some of her friends feel that she was more passionate about him than me... or her "relationship" with him was more passionate than our relationship is.I'm worried that she wants this extra passion. However, I asked her if she loved everything about us and she said yes.My first question is this: I'm at a loss in thinking how people perceive passion in a relationship. What ways can I add passion to said relationship that she and her friends could notice?I don't believe that more passion makes a better relationship or stronger love, but I just read something that said. "the best relationships are the ones that provide the most security and the most passion." This kind of concerns me as, with the info I discovered, as I feel that I do not provide the latter. Should it be something I should worry about? Or should I just continue to believe what I believe: she's with me for much more than just the level of passion and that I should not worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): I guess another thing I should ask: is the lower passion not something I'm doing but something she is? IE - is it possible she is just not displaying/having as much passion as she had with him?
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