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writes: well me n my boyfriend are still virgins but we pleasure ourself which i dink is best instead of having sex an well since he started fingering me now it has become an addiction. Is that normal that we want to mostly do that everyday an is kinda addicting because i really love him an i dont want that the things we do affect the relationship.Will it affect the relationship if we pleasure ourselves too much an is it normal ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): It's the sign of a healthy relationship that you both want to do this with each other! A good sex life is good for general health at our age, just be careful so you don't get pregnant or catch any STDs, and it's good that you aren't rushing into things =]
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Hey sweets,
No, it won't ruin the relationship. You guys are young and excited about taking a new step in your relationship and sexuality. It's okay to be super excited about it be practically "addicted". The only way it will ruin your relationship is if you:
* Go too far sexually and feel uncomfortable or get yourselves into a bad situation (a.k.a pregnancy).
* If you get caught by your parents who don't approve.
* If you start slacking off in other areas of your life, like school and your friends.
Make sure that you guys still spend time together without the physical action. Make sure you stay mentally connected as well as physically. Besides, eventually the excitement will wear down a bit and you won't be *quite* so obsessed with pleasuring yourselves!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): what isnt normal about it? Its completely normal you should appreciate it while you have it
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