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Why is he giving me mixed signals?

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Question - (9 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i have a friend who flirts with me alot and hints that he likes me however he says he likes me but he doesn't want to lose our friendship.he also says i believe what everyone says over him ,which is why he doesn't see our relationship going any further that what it has .what exactly does he mean ? why does he give me mixed signals?

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (9 January 2009):

Griffo agony auntHe's not, he said he wants to be friends. He has enjoyment in being with you and flirting is natural to do, he probably has more of a kick in having you and chasing (or you chasing him) than actually settling with you as a lover.

If you want to break this cycle you need to talk to him about it. Sometimes its better to lay all the card on the table and jolt him into the thought of having you as a lover. Maybe he's waiting for the action from you because he's not sure if you really would want him.

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A female reader, lovestolaugh13 United States +, writes (9 January 2009):

men take not listening to them as a major turn off, set back kind of thing. if you take a lot of other people's opinions above his he might feel that his opinion isn't important to you. if you are good friends he is going to want to feel important and needed especially if you want to be more than friends. let him know he is important and that his opinion does matter because if you start a relationship but take say your best guy friend's opinion or advice over his he is going to feel jealous and threatened.

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