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writes:okay so im 17 and have been with a the same guy off and on for about 4 years now, he tells me he likes me and we will do stuff and then 3 weeks later he says hes not feeling it. This has happend at least 4 times. I need help getting over him because i still like him alot and I know he will want to come back to me soon. PLEASE help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): You deseve to be with a guy that is feeling it, do you know how bad this is for you emotionally? To be thrown arround like this, luv don’t let this guy do that to you, you know deep inside its never gona get better and you need to move on, if you take him back he will hurt you again, this is actually some form of emotional abuse, and its been going on for 4 years?!?!?! Sweet heart please leave this guy, tell him that you are worth more than what he’s offering so no thanks you DON’T want him back, be strong show him tht you are trying to move on go out more, hang out with some friends (don’t hang out at places he is likely to be) start loving yourself and I can guarantee you this guy will kick himself when he sees how great you doing, and other guys would most probably take more note of you if you are being independed and having fun, this guy is not healty for you, and yes moving on is hard, but its gona be even harder a nother 4 years don’t the line, you know you deserve better
Good luck and keep us posted
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