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writes:My b.f told me that I’m 6 month solder than he is and that he want to breakup...When we met he lied to me and said that he was 18years old, I just can’t forget all he said to me.I asked him to tell me the reason why he made a lot of promises to me when he knew it can’t happen, he replied "that's part of been a liar". How could he do this?I told him that, "You promised to marry me and he replied "promises are meant to be broken”. I am hurting badly right now, can’t stop crying or thinking about him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2014): mayb he just want u to go
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reader, Baddchristy +, writes (2 May 2013):
Baddchristy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks alot for all your answers and help
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reader, Baddchristy +, writes (27 February 2013):
Baddchristy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot 4 your help I thought he truly loved me and am really happy that I never had sex with him...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 February 2013):
 Oy your ex boyfriend is a jerk…
This is not how boys in general are… this is how your ex boyfriend is. And honey he’s an ex… or he should be.
Just because he’s 6 months younger than you does not mean you have to break up…. That’s just his excuse. My husband is 13 YEARS younger than I am.
Now you need to end it with him because
a. He lied about his age… you can never trust a man who lies to you.
b. He says he’s a liar and seems proud of it…
c. He thinks promises are meant to be broken
What in the world are you crying about…. You should be over joyed that this boy who lied to you is leaving you to find a better man….
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 February 2013):
 You write: "...can’t stop crying or thinking about him... "
Please let me give you a GREAT reason to stop crying and forget about him. HE'S A LOUT!!! .... and is not worthy of your tears or your thoughts!!!!!
That should work.... Good luck...
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (27 February 2013):
 So he lied to get you in bed? And one of those lies were, we will get married ?
1. He is a douche. Promises are not MEANT to be broken. Sometimes it happens, but it shouldn't be the norm. I was raised with parents who wouldn't promise me the moon unless they knew it was within reason that I could GET the moon. That is how I am raising MY kids too. I DO NOT make promises unless I know there is a 99% chance that I can keep it. THAT is called having integrity.
2. 6 months older means nothing at ANY age. Unless either of you can be prosecuted due to the age difference. So again he is telling you some utter Bullshit.
3. Why would you even WANT to marry this idiot? He doesn't LOVE you, he USED you and then tossed you aside.
4. It's OK to be a little naive, honey. But you need to take things slow, that goes for trusting guys too. Get to KNOW a guy, listen to his words and see if they match his actions. Get to know the people he hang out with, his family and so forth before jumping into fantasies about marriage.
5. Last but not least, stop beating yourself up for dating a douche. And cut the contact with him 100%. He is a liar who is proud to lie and use people. That is NOT someone you want to date or hang around.
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