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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Help, I need some help on what programs, strategies and ideas might help with my brother. He is Autistic,has Apergers and Anger Managerment issues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - My autistic brother has anger management issues and it's ruining his chances at a stable, good future. He's 25 and he still lives at home because he can't hold a job. First he worked at a company where he assembled car parts. When things went ...

Does he just want to sleep with me or is a relationship on his agenda? How can I determine this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a male friend whom iv known for years. Little did i know that he liked me for years. I never looked at him that way til we had a drunken kiss around christmas time and we have been talking every day since. some sexy talk but in a l...

I'm shy and he's not giving much away as far as plans.What's going on ? Is he interested or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I've been talking to this guy whose in my class (3x a week) for a few weeks now who I'm starting to really like! We went for coffee about a week ago and it was awkward because I was shy. Anyway, all our other interactions after that have been r...

I thought the break-up had no effect on me. Except I've changed in ways that scare me. What's happened to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I was with my ex for 3 years, we broke up around 4 months ago. I loved him so much, at the time he was everything to me! My best friend, my entire world. We broke up because he moved away, and I think some time before that I had subconsc...

I'm not so into him.Am I being cold or mean? I feel bad that he still feels bad about my rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I've known this guy since 9th grade, we're 12th grade now In 10th grade i had a crush on him but I noticed he was all over other girls so I stopped And a few months ago he was texting me A LOT and told me he really likes me and wanted to go...

Is he playing mind games? Two weeks together. He broke up with me. A week later he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy who is 19, we shared so many laughs, funny memories and some really sweet memories too. We were "dating" for about 2 weeks, and then he said he wanted to break up because he was working so many hours and didn't find it fair on ...

How can I convince her to give up her sex toys? And consider a real guy like me for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (M) - I a year a 25 year old male with a new girlfriend who is 21 years old. We have been going out for about three months. After the first week of dating the subject of sex came up She told me that she had bad sexual experiences with her last boyfrie...

Both 17. Trip to Movies, just the 2 of us. Is that a date? How to make it special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (M) - Both 17. A trip to the cinema alone. Is it a date? If it isn't how can I make it more of a date, or find out if she's interested in dating/being with me? ...

There's Chemistry. But it's complicated as he owes me money he promised to pay. How do I sort this out? And remain friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I'l try keep it short. Theres a guy at college who I met when i started there, it was instant chemistry on both sides, constant flirting etc. We finally went out for dinner a few months later, and we had such an amazing time. we go on so well, ...

Porn users: how valid is my Bf excuse that he 'forgot' his user name on a porn site? Was that said to prevent me seeing his porn use log?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Right this question is slightly different than most porn questions. It is directed at the techies. My boyfriend told me the site from which he downloaded his porn from, I asked his username. I discovered I could try and find out when he last log...

My depressed Gf won't have sex with me. If I say I'm leaving she hurts herself. Should we breakup?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Hello all, I have been with my girlfriend for one year and a half and we live together. The problem I have is she won't have sex with me. The last time we had sex was 7 months ago and I confessed to her that I am considering sleeping with other ...

Let a man prove to you over time he is bf material

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I have recently noticed women of all ages calling men they just met "the one" or saying "I think he's my soulmate". I see them picking out wedding china already in their minds on their third date. Ladies let these men show you with time if the...

Why didn't he tell me about this close female friend of his? Why has he saved hundreds of emails? And why is he buying this woman gifts that I don't even know about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I don't know if I'm overreacting or not... I hope someone can help me clear this up in my head. I have discovered that my husband of less than a year has a close female friend that until the other day, I did not know about. I found out when he left ...

New town. His town. How do I overcome problems with making friends with my partner's buddies? They don't seem to like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for two years. He was unhappy in the town we lived in (where we met) so I agreed to move with him back to the town he lived in previously, where he has lots of friends and was happier. I am freelance and work from home s...

In a subtle way, how do I encourage him to feel able to approach me? I want something to happen.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (?) - I really want this guy who I see every week day and have nothing in common with him other than he works at my daughters school. We have exchanged constant stares over the last year, I feel that he is aware that I like him as when I return his gaze...

Am I over-reacting when I notice my Bf likes pics of other women on his Facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - This really bothers me. My boyfriend is always on Facebook liking pics of other chicks. They're not like sexy pics or demeaning pics or anything. But it's a constant thing that a chick who he may or may not know puts up a cute pic of herself and ...

He wants Anal and I do not. Should I stay with him, or just consider us as not compatible as a couple and move on?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - hi, this is my query, i have been dating my new guy for 6 months now, things WERE going well, but know there are problems in paradise, ( i know some of you are gone think this is silly). But he likes anal sex, i have never tried it never had th...

She has a Bf yet flirts with me. Should I ask her how she feels about me and tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I been friends with this girl for about 2 years now and I really like her, and she likes me back (Im 90% sure). Problem is that she has a boyfriend and they've had sex together. Her friends tell me she likes me and so do my friend...

Can anyone please explain to me how it's possible to be too sweet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (M) - Can anyone please explain to me how it's possible to be too sweet? Last weekend when I went out with a girl I've known a few years, we got a little drunk and totally unexpected she kissed me, I've liked this girl since the moment I met her but be...

Should I be the one to deal with my Bf's ex Gf? And if so, then how?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. The thing is, he's got this psycho girlfriend who he had been with for 2 years. She kept contacting him anonymously (putting her phone number in private and call him and just stay there a...

What can I do? I don't like it when he calls me bad names, but I'm also scared of him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I have been hanging out with this man for about 5 months, he says we are just friends but we act more like a couple, heres my question!! I have been giving him b j a lot and there have been times he pushes my head down and he calls me bad names a ...

Will I regret it for the rest of my life if I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (M) - Ive been on and off with the love of my life (hands down) for awhile now...shes very finicky and runs off for nothing-issues often. She left me again on her birthday the other day and is telling me via text that we shouldnt be together. Ive been ...

Does this 'relationship' have any potential?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - we've been seeing each other for over a month now. Every week, but usually at his place. We will go out for dinner the odd time. He says he wants it to stay casual as he just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship. In the beginning he woul...

How do I get through this? Or at least over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Well where to begin? I was in love with my ex so very much to the point I did everything for him. He was my life. We were together for there years and I never felt for anyone or anything the way I felt for him ....he did not how ever feel the sa...

How can I have a normal conversation with my Bf? He implies I'm angry when I'm not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I feel like I don't know how to talk to my boyfriend anymore. Every time I talk to him he thinks I'm angry or mad. I'm never actually feeling like this so I don't understand why he always thinks I'm angry. I'm usually just trying to have a norm...

Is tough love the answer? My 27 year old son doesn't think so.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I have a 27 year old son who has been living on his own for 2 years, he quit his job 2 months ago, I paid a month of his rent which my husband ( his stepfather ) does not know about because I have helped him so many times in the past and he feels ...

What to do? Sex is destroying our loving relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months. I am 17 and he is 18. Our relationship is very loving, supportive and intimate. We were both virgins when we met and after a month we decided to make love. We were both very nervous, the...

He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealan...

It's been over a year now, and he's still my Bf. But how can I overcome my jealously over the girl he once saw, when he cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Over a year ago my boyfriend who i care about very very much cheated on me. She is the same age as him and before i found this out i had personally always thought she was very pretty and very nice. Once i found this out i was of course very upset a...

My boyfriend has had money troubles and now he wants to transfer my name over onto his bills. Why? Is he just using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has had quite a few financial troubles in his past, and has had a few court cases in which people owed him money and vice versa. He seems to be paranoid and wants his name off a lot of things. For instance, he has a mailbox in anoth...

I've fallen head over heels in love with him. And he's flirted with me. But there's a catch: he has a Gf. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Okay, so... I've met this guy about a month ago, and even though it's only been a month, I've quite quickly fallen head over heels. Like, I've never really felt this way about anyone before so he's obviously special! Now over the course of th...

Is it unhealthy or bad to make love every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I live with my bf and we make love almost everyday,very often. Right now I am thinking on how bad it could be for me as a girl,I don't really think it good to do it everyday. I spoke to him about it and he explain how much he loves making lov...