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Archived questions from: 25 February, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Porn Addicts - how to spot one in 13 ways

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...

Is he the right Bf for me? He prefers vanilla sex. I want threesome,s sex toys, bondage, role plays, sex outdoors and dressing up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my partner is 28 and we have been together for a year and a half. Although we love each other the chemistry in the bedroom isn't sizzling... We keep fighting and getting frustrated with each other about whether we are having sex or n...

How can I make my dad understand my college situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I got into college last September. Although my college has many, many, ridiculously too many parties, I never went to a single one. I tried to get in the whole college spirit but I just don't enjoy getting stupid drunk and hangover. I went EVERY...

I'm straight. My gay male friend gets holier than thou when I talk dating a guy. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm pretty much stuck in a situation where I feel like a total Fag Hag. Most of my friends are gay. I absolutely adore all of my friends, and see them as amazing people who just happen to be gay. It's my gay friends who like to socialize an...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

What's changed? I'm attractive and the same weight etc. Yet guys have stopped asking me for dates, since I turned 40. Is it me? Why the change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm a pretty woman in my early 40s. I look very young, not my opinion, but others say it. I have a great job, friends, my only child is away in college. I decided not to have a boyfriend after my divorce few years ago, as I couldnt fit one ...

What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...

Are we Platonic or not? While telling me he's a "Player", now he wants me to meet his sister.Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - If your guy friend wants you to meet his sister(after 9 months) is my relationship with my guy friend platonic or not? Why am I confused? It's because he has been saying that she wants to meet me, and now he's actually putting something to...

What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationshi...

My world is crumbling around me. Are there any strategies that could help me deal with all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a problem. Basically the world is crumbling beneath my feet. I have studies at Uni to finish, I'm in my last week of my internship and everything is going to hell. I really need some advice or at least a listening ear. This is my situation...

I thought, due to his own issues, that we were going to be FWB. Yet is he getting attached to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I just started seeing this guy for a month, even we never talked about our relationship status, it's more like fwb or f*buddies.. In the beginning, he didn't really seem to give a thought much about me Recently, he acts like he is my boyfriend w...

How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...

Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date. He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows. ...

The one thing I always wanted was passion. Just broke up. Am I asking too much? Wanting passion in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I was wondering if the idea of real romance like in the movies is really impossible to find in relationships? Of course I realize they are only movies but a girl can dream right? I always hated romance movies because I think yeah right! But ther...

I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband....

Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

She keeps finding fault with me. Though not afraid to ask for presents.Help please, because I am confused about what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - My gf and I have been dating for 2.5 years. We spoke today over the phone, and she asked me if I want to know what she feels right now. I said yes. She said that a few days ago, I had put her down. I asked how. She explained that she felt hurt wh...

My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...

I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her...

He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...

He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...

My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...