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writes:I was with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, the reason we broke up is becuase of general male ego. I started flirting with her cousin and we also talked about each others sex lives. No way did it go any further nor did i want it to. But she did, I said no and the cousin didnt like it so I cut off all contact with her. My ex finds out from someone else, I denided it as first but then it told her the truth. We broke up mainly because of trust issues, everytime she sees me she thinks of what happened and the fact i broke her heart.Its been four months now, I know she still loves and misses me, but she cant seem to drop what happened. We still remained friends, but did have a month where we didnt contact each other. She has thought about giving me another chance but she says that she doesnt know if she can trust me, and that the thought of me flirting with the cousin is always in her mind. I love her to bits, she still admits that I am the one for her, but she still wont go back out with me. What can I do? Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks for the replies,I have tried to been friends with her and show her the improved me and the fun we can have together. But I get mixed reations out of her. Over the phone we act as if nothing happened, we would talk for over an hour, but in person she would sometimes act cold around me. Why is this?Could it be because she is still mad at me? What can I do?
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reader, Gini  +, writes (26 August 2008):
wow...same think happened to me.My bf went away for a bit and he promised he'd comit but it turns out he did stuff with his ex...so i have a hard time trusting him.I think yur gf will get over it eventually.There's not much yu can do to make her change her mind, cuz now she'll doubt everything yu say.I don't think words will help much.Just try to be as sincere as possible, not interested in anyone else.Make her feel like she is the world to you...
It'll take time but she'll eventually feel yur honesty.Most of all she'll know yur realy sorry.
Good Luck with it all.If yur meant to be together, it'll all work out;)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 August 2008):
You have to give her more time to regain your trust, but in that time you have to show her that you really want her back. Spend time as friends and show her how great you are together. Remind her of the connection you had explain properly about why you started flirting and what it meant to you.
There is always a chance but be prepared to get your heart broken if she just can't get over it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): yes, me and my girlfriend are to gether for 6 years i want baby from my girlfriend, my girlfriend told me she wants to have some fun first,inaugust of 2008 my girlfriend sent her son to ny with his aunt, and her daughter is with aunt,when i ask about baby she said she wants to get married first, is thier any hope for me that she could posibly have a child for me?
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