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Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother?

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Question - (13 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ikiki writes:

Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother?

Let me explain a bit more. This "man" leads me on and I tell him I like him and he replies likewise and than he suddenly goes cold. His mum (a family friend)said that he feels a bit random around me (not in a good way). I haven't raised this issue with him but I find him staring and taking pix of me in secret.

I mean he hasn't mentioned 'us' to me and he got some else now. but I was just wondering.

Peace. xxx :)

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A female reader, rikiki United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2009):

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Thanks Gina. Yeah its annoying and I'm letting it go. there is nothing more I can do or should do. right? he could have been honest with me and communicate. Its ashame tho I really did love.

All the best Gina!!!

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A female reader, rikiki United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2009):

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Hi gina,

well he'll be all nice and then go cold.

E.g he sent me messges in the morning & than when I would see him, he wouldn't even look at me. He introduced to all of his friends.On one our dates (with his friends) he started to criticise me (not loudly I don't think his friends heard him.)

Like I said he had gf(which he didn't tell me about I found out frm her) But he took pix of me in secret & kept old pix of us also we got into a random convo he move real close & played with my hair & whispeared in my ear.

He comes from a big family & is a future lawyer, i mean they are avarage middle class people. he was real close to his mum but lately they drifted apart.

Sorry I blabbed on

Thank you for your time!!!

Thank to all who try to help!

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