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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He is making my drinking an issue, and says he cant trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over nine months, and just recently my drinking has begun to cause problems. One I start, I cannot stop and I have said and done hurtful things to him in the past when I was under the influence. Jut ...

We met during troubled times and split, but now we are dating like a normal couple

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. We started out in a wrong way both our marriages were ending when we met. I was in an abusive marriage . He was and his now exwife had been living as roommates for 3 years ( his ex wife told me this herself, said ...

He states he loves me, but his actions say different! Should I just leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - my bf says that he luvs me but often times he makes me feel like im just a roommate. We r hardly intimate or there is nothing that feels like luv coming from his end. he says he luvs me,but to me his actions show me differently. should i leave or ...

Having doubts about my current relationship..how do I get my bf to hear me out on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months. We both started going to different universities this year, and I had to move and rent a house far from where he lives in order to study to that university. At first I felt really excited t...

I like this guy from work..we get along very well. But..is he sincere or dodgy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're...

The way my bf acts around other girls...really hurts me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 1 year now and i have tried to tell him that the way he acts around other girls makes me feel like he doesnt care how i feel or if it hurts me but he does it anyways, what am i supposed to do? I love him and i dont ...

Help! He's going back to his old ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - me and my bf have been close lately considering what we have been through recently n hes tryed to put my feelings first but ive noticed that hes slipping back to his old ways, going out all the time and coming home drunk, only tells me he loves me ...

Why did this guy suddenly stop calling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - In September I started college and started casually seeing a guy that was living near me. We had both been hurt in the past and agreed that we were both happy to keep it casual. Things were fine for 2 months and then he suddenly stopped talking to ...

My Dad's gf is threatening to leave him and I don't want her to! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) - This is really hard for me so here it goes. Well I feel as if my dad and his fianceé are always arguing. Today I did not mean to but I heard what they were saying and she(we will call her Alli) is crying. They were arguing and Alli was talking about ...

Is it wrong for me to get emotional support behind her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - My long-time girlfriend has some serious psychological issues from external factors. I am exhausted and often depressed from dealing with her. She has few friends and I am currently the light of her world. My life would be so much easier if I ...

Should I say something and see if he tries to get me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Ok, this may be a long one! So I'll be grateful for any help! I'm 15, and I met this guy who was 18. He text me etc, we saw each other a few times and spoke on msn, and I already new of him because I know a lot of his mates. I went to his 18th and ...

Her boyfriend invited me to a gangbang with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I was in a relationship with a girl for the past two years. I was sincere. I had sex with her only once.. but I wanted to do it again. Recently she broke up with me and started a relationship with another guy. But she still calls me and ...

Burglarized by friend and they are still stealing from me!

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12 December 2009 (F) - i had a big burglery by a so called friend in 2005 and they are still coming in my house now. it made me ill and i ended up under a shrink. im not on tablets now. but she was playing with my head. i changed the lock on the doors 3 times and changed ...

Please Help! My jealousy is ruining my relationships and I have lost custody of my son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Hi, my name is [Mod: Removed to protect Identity]. I need help from someone. I'm going thru alor right now over my baby daddy. He broke up with me in feb.of 09'. And we were together for almost 4 years. We have a 2 yrs old son together. Well I tend ...

My BF is being really controlling... could this get worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is being very overprotective (or is controlling a better word?) at the moment (this has never been an issue in the past). For example, he doesn't like it when I hug my guy friends; he'll get all tense when I do. He's been touching my ...

My partner appeared in an adult movie to get money to support her and our baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have come across that my current girlfriend was recently in an adult film. we weren't together at the time, but we have a child together, i am 22, we had our daughter when we were 20 we were together for 1 year prior to the baby's birth. We...

I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...

I am getting all the communications from his friends, but little from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his ...

My ex hacks into my computer and has sent nude pics of me to my dad

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Disaster. My ex will hack this and read this as usual but still want advice. He went mental because I got a new boyfriend so he hacked my email and sent a naked picture of me to my dad. What do I do? He said he deleted the pictures but he's ju...

I have a crush and we are meant to be friends but sometimes she wont even talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Me and this girl are supposed to be friends because she said she wanted to be friends. However I am pretty sure she has a crush on me and she already knows I like her. As every time me and her walk past each other her best friend looks at me and g...

A guy I like wants to get to know me before he decides if he wants to go out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - this guy i like and he likes me says: he likes me and does as far as it goes.. he wants to get to know me and decide.. he doesn't wanna lie to me.. wtf? is he talking about?/ what does he really mean?? should i forget about him?? t...

I love him but he has no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i love him so much but he got no time for me at all, we dont see each other i want to give him space so that he can miss me but i cant, what should i do? ...

Why are some guys only interested in sex, I am losing faith in love

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - why do some guys.. make you think HE REALLY LIKES YOU..but he just wants sex... when you DO GIVE in he never calls you again.. and if u DON'T GIVE in he doesn't call and changes his number?? why are all they looking for one night stands?? ...

I would blow my friends off for him,,but wont blow his off for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Hiiya, i really need your help. Im so confused and upset. There is this boy.. We are in the same year at school and same year. we have about 8 lessons together a week, that is out of 25. We have been pretty close for about 2 years now... but there...

I know a relationship with him cant be good, but my feelings are still strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I know I really should have learned my lesson by now, but I've been involved in a really strange off and on relationship for almost two years now. I want this to end badly. I'm a really laid back girl. I don't like to argue, no trust issues, I'm ...

We broke up and he has a new girl, but he knows I am still in love with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - me and my ex broke up almost a year ago, and since then have remained really good friends, he told me that if i changed my attitude and was the girl he fell in love with again i would be hard to resist, we talk all the time (i live with him, for ...

I love a girl from afar and she just ignores me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

12 December 2009 (M) - Ok so im new to this web and im desperate. Im 13 going on 14 in march. I have liked this girl since second grade. Now that im in 8t grade I fell everyday she keeps slipping away. Shes dating people more popular and closer to her group and doesnt ...

My friends don't take me seriously, there is either a problem or I am too needy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) - My friends seem to not take what I say seriously- when I tell them something they kind of brush me off or not take what I say to heart. Maybe I'm being too sensitive, but it feels like they don't really care about me or my life. But then when they ...

I am living the American Dream, so why am I not happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been together for six years, since we were twenty-three; married for two years. I'm currently pregnant with our first child, a son. Both my husband and I grew up decently. The most "worse-off" either of us have ever been w...

A guy I dated between his prison sentences wants to go out with me again, but I don't know if I should or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for several months and he broke up with me cause he went to prison and then we dated again after he got out but he went back for 2 years and then we where friends for a while but he went back again. He wonts to go back out wit...

I want to improve my relationship with my mother, but don't know where to start

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - ok can someone tell me some tricks to get closer to my mom. last year i graduated highschool n didnt introduce her to any of my friends. that really hurt her. i mean a few met her after we graduated but it still plays on my conscience.(if i cud take ...

I don't know if I am being paranoid, or if there is a problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I am currently seeing a married man who had separated from the wife before we met. He told me the truth from the start and we had a beautiful friendship. My gut at the time told me to give him a chance, after all, he was the sweetest guy I had met ...

He cheated with his ex, now we are FWB

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i was with this guy for 8 yrs and then a year and a half ago I caught him cheating with his ex wife. he left and i moved out,and since then we have became friends with benefits. what i would like to ask is, i want to end it but i do not know how , ...

Do they ever come back and commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Has anyone ever been involved with someone who wasn't ready to be in a full blown relationship, and then later after some time apart, the person wants to be with you afterall? I dated a guy for 8 months, but he was still hurting from a break-up,...

When I decided to marry my female friend, who was my friends g/f became very distant!

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12 December 2009 (M) - i utilize thus to express my feelings, in the open. i have a female friend, girl friend of one of my male friends, whom i met and introduced by her boyfriend. we developed a very good company and we were loving so much. this is a case where the term ...

I want to get back together, he wants to be casual and not rush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago due to just being tired (especially him) from arguments, etc..and other issues.. no one cheated, there was alot of love i think.. we did not have contact because he knows I can't be friends with him and he knows ...

I have to initiate all physical contact, and even then he sometimes wont respond!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend is 3 years older than me, and we've been together for just 4 months? Thing is, he really loves me, as I can feel it. We hold hands and stuff. But, when it comes to hugging or kissing, he doesn't really like to do it in the public ...

My boyfriend says he's tired of me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says he's tired of me. He says he doesn't know if he wants to break up or not. Our latest fight was about my insecurity... I have terrible insecurities about my body, and he knows, and he added some "hot" girls ...

My cheatin' man has eyes for my man eatin' friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - hi i am having some relationship issues here is my problem He did it again he wants to talk to her again but i fear her might fall for her again like last time and if he does i will be heart broken and i love him to death i fell in love with this ...

Unwanted by my father, abused by family member

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - i'm crying as i write this and feel so silly for doing it. i feel like my brain isn't functioning properly sometimes like theres something missing, i feel like i don't think like other people. it's only in the last couple of months that I've kind of ...

How can I make him hate her and love me instead???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) - i am sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend that he cannot sleep with because of her religion. Anyways i am confused. people have told me that he is playing me and i think he is. he has said some really hurtful things to me like he loves her but ...