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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend greets his friends first I think he should come to me first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - in the morning i come to the place were my boyfriend stands but i get there before him so i talk to any of my friends that are there too. when he comes he goes to his friends first sometimes and then goes to me and my friend who is with me goes go ...

My son has been deployed and I worry about what his girl will do while he is gone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - My son just turned 20 yrs old and has joined the army, while he was in high school he dated a girl called Jess, They dated for 2 years and during their senior year she cheated on him and they broke up. My son was heart broken from the break up and ...

I have some problems with a housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I did a favor to my cousin and helped a woman he knows when she was in the town where I live. Until she gets situated, or her so boyfriend that she is madley in love with returns from overseas. she is living in my Apt, paying symb...

He emotionally hurt me so how do I get over that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - he said no guy will go for me. that I'm sensitive, that he never cared about. me and that he could live without me. he made my cry. it is impossible for me to get over him.i am sensitive. it was just a crush but i thought we were friends. i was so ...

Truly confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Hey whats up im 21 years old,and have been with my girlfriend who is 18 soon to be 19 for almost 2 years. She is amazing the most perfect, sweet and caring person in the world. We liked each other for years before we finally dated . We fight alot ...

He's always starting arguments but says its me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Everytime I say something,anything,or make a comment,he always has something to say.He try to start an argument but always saying it's me.It's like he trying to tell me something and push me away...What is it?...

B/f says I'm always negative and always nag!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend says I am negative and I always "nag". He gives me everything but no respect(calls me names). We always talk about making it better but it doesn't seem to work.It's just words.I feel like he's cheating and lien but there is no proof.I ...

He keeps me hanging on, surely this means he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - hello all i need a male perspective pls, i have been friends with a bloke for bout 6 years i always thawt he was amazing but he is in a relationship, so i never let on, about 2 years ago i found him looking at me alot and doing things that were ...

The girl I like is already taken, where can I find another like her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Hello this is my first time here =) Well i am a cool guy, have friends(popular in school), good looking, and kinda profound, but Ive never had a girlfriend or had sex, last girl i tried to get, well she was 1 year older,i talked to her and all w...

He never has time for ME!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - im fed up with him i honesly in my mind dont wanna go thru the drama anymore but my heart wont let me end it i dont know know how 2 just leave him alone please someone help me n my dilemma.he doesnt abuse me in any kind of way he just doesnt have ...

My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she ...

Is there something wrong or am I being OTT?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I'm 17, and recently have been a bit worried about myself, and my personality I suppose. I've always had traces of low-confidence, and I've not had an easy life - I've had plenty of ups and downs and my life is far from perfect but I feel gradu...

I'm not a control freak ....... am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - ok its me again lol sorry about this!! its boy issues yet again!! homestly i havent got a clue when it comes to men! ok so heres my problem, i met my bf through friend who i were really close to and he was close to them to but i was mainly bette...

My friends wont take my advice and its starting to make me angry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Ok. I've spent the last 3 years helping my friends when they have a problem, reasuring them and making them smile. I try my best. And when I'm upset I hope for someone to be there for me aswell. Lately all my friends are going through a hard time, ...

He says he isnt interested in me so how come he keeps hugging me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - OK so there is a guys that i just met at the beginning of the school year and i thought he was really weird but then after i broke up with my boyfriend of the time the guy started to get a little closer to me and i started to like him, after a while ...

I want to know how to find another guy who will take things slowly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i just broke up. He was the guy i lost my virginity to, and I only had sex with him because he made me feel comfortable and didnt pressure me to do it. This was a while ago when i was younger, now i'm in college where the only ...

I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for ...

I broke it off but am now having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Hola... About a week-and-a-half ago, I gave my boyfriend a letter telling him that I think we should break up. The problem is, though, the more I think about it, I don't really think that I want to...I just kinda wanted to get some things off ...

I'm falling in love with my husband's brother

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - my husbands brother moved in with us after his divorce. he had no where to stay so i agreed to let him stay with us. i spent some time with him, while my husband was at work. I got to know him better, and acually got close with him, i find myself ...

I broke up with him, but still see us being married some time in the future

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago just to cool things off in our senior year and to give each of us a chance to focus on colleges and spend time with friends (we go to different schools and have different friends) and to maybe start seeing ...

Married a few months only and husband puts me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - hi i just got married a few months back and my husband was very kind to me then. but know we just had our first son and he know 5 months of age. my husband makes me feel real bad. he makes bad remarks about my weight. i gained fifty pounds with the ...

I feel pathetic coming to the internet for advice but here is my story!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - hi... i feel really retarded and pathetic for coming to the internet for help but i honestly dont know what else to do. i guess i should start by saying im 19 and ive been "in love" with my best (guy) friend since my sophomore year of high sch...

How much time do husbands and fathers spend with their families on average?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I would like to know the average time a husband/live in boyfriend (other than those who work away from home)spends with his family. Like on a daily basis, how many hours does he spend at home and really "being there" and not doing something else ...

Are my work colleagues judging me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Shyness has always been a big problem for me and recently I've noticed a lot of girls staring at me. There is a girl who sits over the other side of the office who Im sure fancies me, staring alot. A while back she started walking past and she said ...

My love for him grew steadily, but sometimes I miss the feeling of wild mad passion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend but I feel that I am not in love with him. My boyfriend and I have known each other since we were teenagers although we did lose touch for a few years, I am now 28 and he is 27. I was absolutely head over heels in love with my ...

My relationship is losing it's Spark!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for the last 6 months now and up until 3 weeks ago everything has been great. But lately i have not been getting turned on as much and during sex i often fantasize about something other than him. I am not ...