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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I try talking to him or just give it up? We haven't talked in weeks.

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6 December 2009 (F) - Let me know if I am wrong here seriously. This guy I were friends with for many years. He had a girlfriend. She hated me cause we were friends. NOTHING happened!! This girl moved in. He swore to me he did not ask her-that she just brought her stu...

Bored out my skull after nearly 4 years in relationship - please help?

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6 December 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I've been in a relationship with my Gf for nearly 4 years now and well im starting to become really really fed up of things atm. When we first went out it was cool, we were going out doing the usual things, cinemas meals etc ...

Losing control with teenagers!

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6 December 2009 (F) - A couple of days ago I asked for help with my teenage sons and mentioned that I removed the older from my home due to violence. i had a few good helpful responses. This evening I asked my 15 year to wash his hair. I gave him money for barber...

Do I confront my friend about her disrespectful ways?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hey, Need some help with a fairly awkward situation with one of my best friends. This last weekend, I went away home to my parents house for the entire weekend. On the friday night, my other flatmates had a big party - which I was ok with, no ...

He wants me to have his baby but I'm so not ready yet! How do I tell him?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Ok! I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and hes soooooooooo ready for me to have his baby. I love him so much thats my baby but I'm not ready yet. I want to but not just yet. How do I tell him this??????...

I haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks...

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6 December 2009 (F) - I havent talked to my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks. I messaged him on facebook and asked him what's going on and he messaged me back last night and said "you told me to f*** off, so I did." I dont remember ever saying that to him, and it doesnt m...

He keeps saying we don't have a future after 2 years!

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6 December 2009 (?) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years. But whenever i want to talk to him about the future, he freaks out and we always end up having a huge argument and we both end up crying. In the end he always apologises and we make up ...

Why will my girlfriend not tell me her secret?

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6 December 2009 (M) - There's a girl who told me she has a secret that makes her cry every time she thinks about it. she wont tell me at all and we're going out. She's dropped a couple hints here and there but I'm confused about the whole thing.... I think she is being ...

Does anyone feel my husband can be trusted?

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6 December 2009 (F) - I have been married for a year and I just had my first child with my husband. 2 months after my son was born I found out my husband was sending text messages to other women. He says he never cheated or even texted them back (which I know is a lie ...

Can he get away with leaving me nowhere to live and without my belongings?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I know I'm feeling sorry for myself, I feel tricked and not sure what to do. After asking my husband for a divorce in the heat of the moment, I left for a few weeks to think about it. I came back to him and suggested we go for counselling,...

How can I get past this emotional baggage and not be so upset?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I've asked a couple of questions here before. I'm not really sure how to phrase this as a question, I just need some advice. Bear with me as it's a bit of a long story. There's this guy, "Chaz", who I met about three and a half years ...

My five minutes of fame are bringing a lifetime of shame

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I've had real problems with self-esteem and subsequently booze for quite a few years. I have forced myself on a downward spiral and i seem to dwell on my problems more and more. It all began when i was 20 and booze enabled me to be 'popular' (at the ...

Boyfriend is a bar star! What do I do?

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6 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a barstar and I need some advice Im not a fan of his behavious and dont know what to do. We have been dating for almost 4 months. He goes out almost every weekend to the bar and almost always gets drunk, passes out at home and wake...

Why has he suddenly gone all cold with me?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hi All, I accidentally came across this site whilst trying to find ways of getting over someone. I really need some advice...my brain knows what I need to do..yet my heart isnt listening...what is the best thing to do? 3 months ago, there was a ...

Unsure on how to proceed.

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I have been going out with this guy for 5 months now, at first it was great we spent time together he baught me flowers a few times and we went out on walks, baught each other meals and things. I was introduced to all his friends, they were ...

I don't understand why the tables aren't turned, after all I've done for him he should be the one begging to be with me!

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6 December 2009 (F) - I will give you some background information first: I've been with this guy for 6 years. We broke up last October due to his family problems and he freaked out and pushed me away. I am 21 and we started "dating" when I was 14--young I know, but our ...

I think I'm going to end up hating my first love!

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6 December 2009 (F) - I really love this guy. He was my first love. He was the first relationship I ever had and it bothers that he had about relationships before that he keeps bringing up. The two that come up the most are the ones that dumped him. One girl dumn him and ...

Am I wrong for thinking that something has changed or something else is going on?

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6 December 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for the past year. At the beginning, when we couldn't see each other, things were great...we constantly told each other how much we wanted each other and found other ways to be intimate. Over the past 6 ...

Do I have any right to be upset at what he did?

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6 December 2009 (F) - I would like peoples opinions on this situation please^^ thank you in advance My boyfriend and I had a big fight around two months ago. I have let this go now and accepted what happened but still get upset when he brings it up. A girl I had be...

Been together 5 years and I don't want to have sex anymore.

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6 December 2009 (F) - So, my and my boyfriend have been dating now for 5 years. im 21 and hes 23. I love him very much and see myself marring him someday. BUT, it seems like for the past 2 years our sex life has gone down the hill. Now there are some factors that play ...

Will he go back to his first ex or stay with me? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I looked up stuff about my boyfriend's first ex. theres plenty of stuff about him and her. and how much he loved her and how much she wants him back even though its been a year since their break up. and I've been scared ever since. what if he leaves ...

I've played it cool, but I am not sure what to do next....

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6 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a non committed relationship for nearly 7 years. We are long distance and meet up every now and then for a bit of fun and company. I know that he has slept with others and so have I during our off periods. He does his own thing, w...

How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?

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6 December 2009 (F) - My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...

My wife told me she was a virgin, but she was no where near it.

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6 December 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been reading this forum for a while now. My wife and I were High School Sweathearts. We courted for a couple of years, she became pregnant and we were married soon after our first child was born. I was in my third year of college ...

I really dislike porn! How can I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I know this may sound really bad etc But I really dislike porn. I don't know why etc but I just do. Thing is, i've asked my boyfriend not to watch it, because it upsets me and I get jealous. In case he finds the girls in it more attractive than me,...

Do you think he is just using me for sex?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Theres this gyy he says he really likes me, we've been to the cinema once, and he only really texts me when he wants to meet up with me, and all he really does is pick me up, have sex with me then drop me home again. When i ask him to meet up he ...

How do I resolve this major fight I had with my best friend?

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6 December 2009 (F) - ok, long story (fight between friends, needs help straightening out) Well it all starts with a fan site for a band. Me and my friend are both members. What it is, is a chance for fans from all over the world to chat with each other. You can e...

How do I honestly Communicate to my boyfriend that he does not make me a high enough priority?

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6 December 2009 (F) - HELP!!! How do I honestly communicate to my boyfriend that he does not make me a high enough priority? He really does adore me and always tries to do everything possible to make me happy. Lately he has been caught up with his new band. He loves mu...

Don't know if I still want the relationship or love him much any more...

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been dating a man for about 9 months now and we have had a lot of problems since the beginning. We both have issues with drink and we have been agressive violent with each other on a few occasions when drunk. He has threatned me on a ...

Is he letting me down softly?

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6 December 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start but here it goes... A year ago I was going through a separation with my husband. I began seeing a fellow co-worker as a casual fling. He pursued hard and we eventually began dating. We broke up on and off over the cour...

What should I do about by ex and my current boyfriend?

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6 December 2009 (F) - please take the tme to help. Well my ex boyfriend posted this about me : 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a...

He has a baby and I tried to keep in touch with him, but now he wants to be friends

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6 December 2009 (F) - I started talking to this guy in June 09 and he kept wanting to take it further. when he i didnt want to until july i agreed to and we spent time together. he always called me when he could since he got his phone stolen on july 4th. we spent time on ...

I think my girl is going through a phase and I hope she gets over it soon!

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6 December 2009 (M) - I know this is really long to read but it was the only way to get you to know what is exactly going on and exactly how I feel. Thank you so much for your time. I am 21 years old I have had many short term girlfriends and relationships with gir...

Why is she being so cold even after me changing and being there for her?

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6 December 2009 (M) - Hi there, I am new on this site and I really need advice, ok so I have been seeing a girl for a year right now, I love her so much with every second of my day I have her in my mind, when we met we had so much love for each other, she was the most ...

We have both moved on but I still get a little jealous of his new girl

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6 December 2009 (F) - Long story short: The ex and I broke up about a year ago after a two-year relationship. We then went on to hook up randomly throughout the last year even while dating other people. Also including once recently while I've been dating another guy. I ...

We are sleeping together but he wants to keep his options open

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6 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently started seeing this guy and he's been really sweet but I'm afraid I'm reading into things far too much. I'm pretty sure he cares about me to some extent since he's been there for me through some tough ordeals, and his atti...

A girl I like says she has a big secret, and I think I know what it is!

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6 December 2009 (M) - listen to me... i have recently been talking to this amazing girl. we were talking today and she was telling me about how she was crying all the time and how one person does it to her and all this. she said it was her one secret she never told ...

I am tempted to give hubby for his b/day the same as he gave me

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hubby ignored my birthday again this year. It was Thurs. It's almost like he does it deliberately. He knows I don't want expensive gifts, he just knows I want some recognition. Well, he didn't completely ignore my birthday, he did get me a box ...

When she is out of sight she is always on my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me ...

I broke up with Sam, and I kissed John who told me Sam still loves me

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6 December 2009 (F) - Recently on a night out, I began talking to my friend John. We had kissed once but he has been going out with his current girlfriend for over a year. This doesnt bother me, but as i was the designated driver that night i remember everything he said ...

We have been together for 4 weeks and I am too lazy to have sex

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6 December 2009 (F) - My boy friend any I have only been together 4 weeks and have a great relationship and I'm very happy but every time it comes down to having sex I just can't be bothered to have sex. I enjoy having sex and especially with him but I have always been ...

I havent heard from him for two weeks, and am thinking he has forgotten me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My male friend, I have deep feelings for is enlisted in the USAF and one month ago he told me he was getting deployed and couldn't reveal the location. He told me to contacted him on Facebook and his email account. We have been Long Distance since ...

He wanted to get engaged but when it came to the crunch he cooled off

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6 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now, we moved in together after just two months of knowing each other, which is quick but I didn't have anywhere else to go at the time. He has been pretty open about the fact that he wants ...

My girlfriends family keep trashing me

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6 December 2009 (M) - ok down to the question like always im dating my 18 year old girlfriend i love her and all but her family is always getting in the way i mean her dad talks trash about me as well as her grandmother and grandfather... and it annoys me and just ...

My boyfriend went out with the guys, now I can't contact him

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6 December 2009 (?) - My boyriend told me he was going to a casino with two of his guyfriends tonight and that they were gonna sleep at a hotel. I called him a couple times tonight and he didn't answer. I sent him a text and he didn't answer, and now i after a couple ...

My boyfriend admits to being a massive flirt and says I just have to deal with it

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6 December 2009 (F) - My bf says he is a massive flirt and I have to just deal with that? Should I have to? He's my BF!!...

I think my husband only wants me for sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm a 29 year old female, married, and have a 2 year old. I feel like all my husband wants from me is sex and when I don't want to he pouts. Being a new mother I'm tired all the time and he always wants to when I'm ready for bed. I've told him ...

Sweet 16 and in love with Dad's 61 yo boss

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6 December 2009 (F) - hey wat up, well i'm 16 and i'm in love with my dad boss. we lived close by so we knew each other well i mean very well he would tell me about his life. We started talking more deeper and deeper and only time he told me he doesn't love his...

He has had another girlfriend, but through it all still seemed to like me!

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6 December 2009 (F) - hey jsut a curious question here because its happened to me. This guy really seemed to like me well used to and kind of still does. Is it possible for yoy to really like someone, maybe know that it can never happen(things got made difficult for us...

I know I love her but does she deserve it!

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6 December 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with this woman for a year and a half now. I found out about 4 months ago that she had slept with another man after we got into a fight and she stayed at a friends house. I broke things off immediately and tried to ...

We broke up due to cheating, but now she is cheating with me!

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6 December 2009 (M) - 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my whole group of friends, as they felt they couldn't ...

I was planning on asking her out one day, now I have found her number online and want to call her

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6 December 2009 (M) - I'm in a real pickle here. There was a girl from work i really liked. I vowed that the day i would leave this job I would ask her out. And since she worked there for several years, I always assumed I would be the first one to leave. Problem is that ...

He seems to have lost interest in me, but not football

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6 December 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years now. He is the best man i've ever met. Although for the past year i've felt a little neglected. We live together and we hardly spend time together he is always watchin football. I feel discusting and ...