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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She is already over me because she has starting dating but I still want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hi My gf and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We were together for 2.5 yrs and we lived together for about 6 months. She started getting distant the last month, and as much as I tried to take her on dates and do romantic things with her, she...

His temper is freaking me out more and more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - My Common law husband and I are expecting a baby in June. Recently his temper has been freaking me out more and more, I guess because I'm pregnant and I'm afraid of my child experiencing it. He is especially insane when he drinks which is often, h...

I'm not happy with my boyfriend and torn between two lovers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - i am so confused. i have a boyfriend who i am not happy with. he lies,has hardly any ambition even if he works hard,he has nothing organized. i am so fed up. he has past issues with his family,is terribly ignorant and is a bit suicidal,when things ...

Husband got laid off, became lazy, after 3 years of this, I want out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - i realy dont know how to start i been married to my husband for 6 years we have 3 children together the frist 3 years he was working hard and i was stay home mam then he got layd off then since i had better experince at work i star going back to my ...

My b/f expects me to pay 50% of his mortgage with no guanantees for me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am just new to living with my boyfriend in a house that he owns. Recently while discussing contributions towards household expenses he told me that he expects me to pay half his mortgage and that he is not interested in putting me on the title. He ...

Since she fell pregnant, my girlfriend has lost her allure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hi My girlfiend is 6 months pregnant and i dont feel attracted to her anymore. Before she got pregnant, we hardly ever had sex and on the one occasion we did she got pregnant (she said she was on the pill) When we first started dating sh...

Boyfriend's habit of taking care of "business' himself is creating problems in our sex life

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Good morning, I am having difficulties in my relationship with my boyfriend that I live with. One problem that seems to be getting bigger is our sex life. Lately, he has been masturbating before work in the shower and I know this is going on. ...

My younger brother is caught up in an online relationship with an older woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - My brother is a really shy guy who doesn't like to go out much. He is a cutie pie and I wish he could be around more girls cause he has the looks. He is just too shy for his own good. Well, lately he has been talking to a woman online who I am ...

I love him but something doesn't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - well my boyfriend is 15yrs older than me.our relationship has been good for the most part but something is telling me that he is hiding something i.e. i never met his family or kids he has met mine i have never been to his house he claims he is in ...

I'm too shy to approach women I find attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - So I've been hanging out with this girl that I really like. However, when I'm with her I just don't feel "it". She's really awesome and I actually do have feelings for her. It's just that it seems like she is a better friend then a girlfriend. But ...

I still like to hang out with my ex, and I have feelings for him, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so recently I have hung out with my ex boyfriend. In the past (about 7 months ago) we only dated for a few months but i felt like i never got closure because it ended before it started. We were both stubborn and broke up for a stupid reason. The ...

I am obsessed with a girl who has an on off boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and am in my second year of college. Within a few months of my first year I met someone I felt I was completely compatible with. We had similar interests, had the same group of friends, and she's beautiful. I started hinting at the fact that ...

Sometimes I can, sometimes I can't, what's up with my libido/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Hey guys, So I went through a depression a little over a year ago, and went without sex or sexual desires for about 1.5 years (I went through a phase where I thought I was asexual, but this definition didn’t fit, especially because I did ...

When I try to involve him in the plans for our wedding he gets mad and says whatever you want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Im 27 i have been with my fiancee for almost 9 yrs. we are engaged to be married in april of 2010. i am a stay at home mom he works. but i just cant get him really interested In our wedding plans. i am doing it alone and its to much on me i have our ...

His actions don't match his words!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl - and I'm the only person out of everyone I know that's never been in a relationship. The guy i've liked since the summer finally decides to msg me after months pass of not seeing each other to hang out....and it go...

He is my first boyfriend but he doesn't make my heart race

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - So I've met this guy, and he is my offical first boyfriend. I want to make myself believe that I love him, but whenever I'm with him, my heart just doesn't seem to race. I guess he is just too perfect, I want more drama into my love life. He always ...

I have a new g/f but keep thinking about the ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - Ok so here the deal me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and I'm really doing fine without her. It was rough for the first month or so but it's all good now, I've started dating another girl and she really seems to like me, apretiates me for who ...

Engaged! Finally! and now he is cooling off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Engaged after five years and now he is treating me like a room mate. Here it is... It's his way or no way! It feels like he doesnt want to get married. He is saying that i dont do enough around the house when it seems that is all i do. Im not ...

My ex wife wont allow me to do anything with my kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I need help. My ex wife wont talk to me about my kids and disagrees with everything I want to do. I cant get my 7 year olds ears pierced, take our 5 year old skating, go to my nieces grad party, aunts funeral got shut down. I need to know why she ...

How do I attract a guy that doesn't want me for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so all my friends have boyfriends and have already lost there virginity. they dont pick on me for still being a virgin but they dont really talk about anything else beside haveing sex. i am really focused on school and haveing a job. im almost 17 ...

I am not sure if I am getting the brush off or if he is waiting for me to text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi My boyfriend is in a band, and last week had two shows in our town and then left out of state for a week. He always takes me along to the shows they play but this time I had to ask to come along, he acted weird and was drunk (I had to pay to...

She has been swapping nude pics with her ex, should I forgive or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over six months. She is my age and has a son that is almost two. I knew she had a son and there for would be around her ex more then any of my other girlfriends but, was willing to try and ...

My ex is coming back around Christmas, and I am not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - so my ex and i havent talked in like 3 months and he's comming back around not to long before christmas. the second time we dated i realized that i had fallen in love with him. when he finally called it total quiets i was heart broken and i wanted ...

Two breakups in one year, I KNOW I deserve better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Please help me. I've been through two horrible break-ups this year. The first was a two-year relationship, my first love, the first guy I ever slept with. The second lasted about 7 months. I wanted it to work so badly. I was in love with him...

I asked her on a date, but she said no, now I feel hurt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a senior in high school. I have never gone out with anyone, and this doesnt help my confidence any. But my friends convinced me that I should ask out a girl that i talk to a lot and am very good friends with. She is in some of my classes ...

I thought my crush liked me but he didnt so now I feel uncomfortable around him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen. For the past two years, this guy "Conner" has been smiling at me in the halls. Initially, I thought it was because he liked me, but he just wanted to be friendly. Last June, I found out through, believe it or not, a Facebook chat, th...

Sometimes I don't understand him, and it makes me sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm feeling down tonight. It had been a few days since I had talked to my boyfriend and I missed him greatly. I was finally able to talk to him again tonight, and everything was pretty good. But then I mentioned how I was working on a Christmas gift ...

I feel like I'm caught in the middle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm a seventeen-year-old senior in high school. M y question is about peer pressure and judgmental people. Warning: it's a long story. One of my friends "Skye" I have known since freshmen year. We get along and all, but over the past few months, ...

Stay with him in an open relationship until I meet other men, or stay single and just enjoy being a mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I have a little scenario that I'm wondering if I should move one for good but I feel like I dont want to have to start all over and get to know the person. I've been with this guy for over 4 long years hes been abusive in the past so far he hasn't ...

He wants to give up his dream for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - My fiancee and I have been together for four years. I love him very much, and I would never want to be the reason he turned down a dream. However, I've spent the past few years training in a field that is highly specialized to where we live no...