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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

This girl is a thorn in my side...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My bf is really good friends with this girl and her bf. I get the feeling that the girl is trying to break me and my bf up, or something like that anyway. I am interested in other peoples outsiders veiws of the situation. Just so you know, my bf, t...

My mother's ideas and mine clash on morality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My mom has these outdated ideas about relationships/dating/sex. She’s not a strict person but when it comes to these things she’s very prude. I stayed over at my bf’s house the other night. The day before I told her where I would be spending the ...

I struggle to trust, and I "found" a text he sent another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. I am struggling to trust him. It is probably my own trust issues but I keep finding reasons not to trust him. He swears he is loyal and loves me. But I found a text message he sent to another ...

He keeps promising, but never follows through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I was introduced to a guy about 6 weeks ago by mutual friends who said he'd been asking them to set us up. From what I know of him I really like him. We have been out a couple of times and we also go to the same church. I thought we were having a...

I am in love, but she's my boss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I know i'm in love but should i tell her,i'm 43 and not getting any younger. I've known this woman for about 8 years i was instantly attracted to her as soon as i saw her and there isn't a day that goes by that i don't think about her.I really ...

It's driving me crazy how this "thing" is not progressing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I have a classmate (we have all classes together) and I like him. A lot. and I thought he liked/like me too BUT I'm not so sure anymore.. This has been going on for a year and in the meantime we've kinda become friends. At first there w...

I have been married for a few short months, but the no sex is getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I have been married several months now. Things didn't start too postively when my wife was too tired to make love on our wedding night. It was a tiring day so this was fair enough and I didn't create a fuss. Howver ever since we have sex so ...

Will he wake up and realise what he has lost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I'd be really grateful if you could let me know what you think i should do or how to get over my ex fiance. I haven't spoken to him since last week when i stormed out the house and haven't responded to his email. I've written a mega long ...

My girlfriend of 13 wont even kiss me, she is frigid!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Ok i am 13 years old and have a girlfriend who is friged but dosent want to be and she gets scared and backs away when i try to kiss OR EVEN HUG HER i like her alot and really dont want to dump her but for weeks now it seems that she dosent even ...

My girl is sexually selfish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - It always atarts off that we have fool around really wild and dirty, then she wants me to eat her out, she comes, and afterwards, she won't get me off; she's suddenly "too tired," or if she "tries" she will complain about how tired she is, how much ...

My cheatin' heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I cheated on my fiance. We have been together 6 years. I cheated and about a week later I couldn't handle it anymore, I had to tell her. I know I made a mistake and wanted to be honest. I love her to much to lie and get away with it. I knew it ...

I am so down after breaking up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice re my situation. 9 months ago I split up with my partner of 7 years because he walked out after a series of arguments which I think were mainly caused by him being depressed and at that time he was verbally abusive ...

It took him three years to decide he didnt like my past and he dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years just dumped me. He has issues with my past from a long time, and yet again he's giving me hard time over it. He said he feels he will never be able to forgive me. I never did anything too wild in my past, but he knew a ...

I am the woman who dated the committment shy guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I am thew women that dated the commitment phobic guy for 2 1/2 years and broke up with him 7 months ago. How do I interpret this mans response? We got together this weekend and kept it platonic. He told me before he came out he is trying to figure ...

I'm always the one to fix things after a fight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - well ...me and my bf got into an arguement ..nd he got really angry and told me not to text or call him anymore that he will do it whenever he feelz like it ...he also told me to do whatever the f**** i want nd that he'll do the same..so im asssumin ...

Why has she started ignoring me when it was going so well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - right, so i've been going out with this girl for three weeks and we get on really well. we seem to be getting closer every time we see each other, we always hold hands and have kissed a couple of times. we went out last wednesday night and it was ...

He doesn't seem as "into me" any more! Is this down to his illness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a month and a half is Bipolar II. For the first month he was attentive, romantic, physical and completely into me. He mentioned love before I did and couldn't wait to see me. Now he has become less physical and affectionate and seems ...

Why does he act like this when we are not together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - hey there, i have a problem and im just getting sick of it. My bf has been acting really weird lately and in a mean way, he has been ignoring me and pushing me away. I try to talk to him about it but he just pretends he doesnt hear me or he just won...

What is going on here? He is wanting to exchange presents with his ex, but he has just proposed to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Ok. I find myself in a situation where most females are on here on the website. Me and boyfriend well now fiance have been together for a little over two years. Hw told me he was in love very quickly and we just sprang from there. Everything isn't ...

I regret having my son because he ties me to this relationship! Should I leave or am I just bored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I have lived with my boyfirend for three years and we have a 2 year old son together. My elder son of 17 also lives with us. I have two grown-up daughters who live away. Although I do still have strong feelings towards my partner I realise we are ...

How to respond without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi everyone and merry X-mas, I need some help if you can; my ex and I broke up 5 months ago, at first we didn't talk at all, but like 2 months after the break up we started talking, he would txt me every day, all day. Then without reason he stopped ...

If I follow my career dream it means another three years apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We met when we were both working abroad over the summer, and when the summer ended we decided to keep things going even though he lives in Holland and myself in England. With the help...

I don't know whether I should wait for him to tell me stuff or just out and ask!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I would like to know did my boyfriend have any serious relationship before me... it`s only because I`m curious, not because I think that is realy important. Also, I`m not sure that he`s virgin like me, so I have a little doubt, should I just ask him ...

I just have to get this off my chest .................

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - this one is quite long...sorry. ill start from the begining. i am in a long term reationship and after about 1year and a half, things werent soo great, lots of arguments, etc and he really didnt pay me any attention ant more. i really loved him but ...

I keep having bad dreams

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - i keep having really long vivid not very nice dreams. i wouldn't call them nightmares because they don't scare me as such, they are just unpleasant and do not give me restful sleep as i seem to act out my dreams in my sleep (or thats how my muscles ...

I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found ...

Two people I love are having problems in their relationship and I don't know how to help them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - howdy pretty people. so i have my cousin whose also my best friend. well hes datin my friend who just happens to be a really good girlfriend. they have been datin for about 4 months and its perfect. but my cousin had been acting really weird lately. ...

My boyfriend wished his ex happy birthday on facebook but ignored mine!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Things have been going amazingly well recently between me and my boyfriend. But I recently saw something which really upset me and got me thinking. This year, despite the fact that we text/call each other every day, my boyfriend didn't wish me a ...

My husbands anger is getting worse and he is resorting to violence

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - i don't know what to do!!! my husband and i have our problems but i think we argue more than anything. it has resently gotten worse. the other day he got pulled over for the third time without a license and i told him he isn't driving anymore. he ...

My pregnant partner doesn't want sex but my libido is high!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - hi there, so my delema is this, i met this beautiful girl and she was pregnant, the father was waaay out of the picture, and i could not help but fall for this girl. she had a beutiful baby boy, whom is my world, and see him as my own, he is now 5 ...

My girl has changed over the past 5 months and now I don't love her the same

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - For a few weeks (about 3), I've been confused about the way i feel about my girlfriend. We have been going on strong for 5 months now, and we were completely attached to each other. But recently I've been having doubts. Now that she has this new ...

I rang the guy my friend is interested in, because I believe he is married and cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I haven't registered on this site, thankyou so much in advance for all of your advice :) Sandra tells me that she meets this really good looking guy at work. She told me this a week ago. Says he is funny, and outgoing and witty. One day whi...

I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that ...

I have heard rumours my 15 yo boyfriend is gay, and I am a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hey, im 14 and my boyfriends 15. i'm worried about his sexuality and i'm not sure if its just rumors starting to sink in or if he really is. don't get me wrong he is really sweet and very funny but sometimes he sends off signals. when we first ...

I don't know if I should start dating a new guy when I am still not over the last guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Should I go dating with a guy I have feelings for when I am still not over the pain and hurt from the last relationship? I have feelings for this guy but I am really afraid to fall in love again because of the betrayal from my previous relationship ...

I'm willing to let him go to make him happy... should I fight for him and try to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - well, its kind of a long story. but short version. i was dating this guy for a year and i had been flirting throughout the whole relationship and not being such a good gf but i never cheated, at least not physically. i just flirted a lot and well...

Should I give him space in the hope that he contacts me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Okay where do I start?? I met this guy through a friend 2 years ago. When I met him, I could tell he was really attracted to me. He was SO nice to me that it was too obvious that he liked me so that was sort of a turn off for me so I acted like I ...

I need to learn how to have fun and enjoy life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - i am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, i recently moved in with him in an upper part of a house. i just had knee surgery and had to quit my job as a hair stylist, its very hard to find a job now so he has been ...

My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still ...

I want to know how to strike up a friendship with her without looking silly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Her: funny, cute, is in all the little clubs (NHS, Freshman support, Early childhood development, Key Club, choir, etc, etc) she gives amazing advice (one of the many reasons i like her) shes a senior in high school, and is really well known in the ...