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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My usually outgoing, goofy b/f has come home very quiet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - We've been together, and living together for almost 4 months now. He went to his moms for thanksgiving and just came back Tues dec.8 A lot of stuff came up that he had to help his mom with. Now he's finally home. But I can't help but notice ...

I need help to break it off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I've been talking/seeing this guy for the past year and a half and he's perfect, but I just don't feel what he feels. I've been in love once before and i haven't fully gotten over it. He's told me he loves me, but I don't feel that feeling I had ...

I get violent with my friends when they agree a boy is hot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hey aunts i have a problem with jelousy but it isnt with my boyfriends its with guys i fancy, all my friends have noticed well its kind of hard not to because if i say the guy i like (lets call him chris)is fit and they agree i will literally rip ...

Since we married in October my husband has shut me off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I jsut got married in October 2009 and I am feeling extremely unhappy. I don't know what to do because I love him but I am frustrated with his critical, negative behavior. We are already having sex issues and he blames me for that too. I feel like I ...

Whenever my ex sees me with a new guy he tells the new guy lies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Well I dated this guy for 3 yrs and we ended on bad terms of hurt but if I see the guy out he will do weird things. First if he saw me talking to another guy rather he knew him or not he would tell the guy I'm his ex and I'm crazy. Second he would ...

I am stuck on a crush and need to unstick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Last year I met this guy in one of my classes. We didn't really talk that much, but I developed a really big crush on him. I guess you could say it's the biggest/strongest crush I've ever had on a guy that wasn't a celebrity. Basically he doesn't ...

We've been a couple three days, I want to break it off already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - How do you break up with an extremely sensitive guy who claims he is IN love with you, and its like nothing he has ever felt before, bearing in mind we only started going out 3 days ago? I honestly thought I liked him, I knew he liked me a lot more...

One minute we're lovey dovey... next he doesn't care. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hiya. There is this boy and we have been such good friends for a couple of years. I started to fancy him about 1.5 years ago. He knows i fancy him and so does everyone else. He has just never mentioned it. When we are alone (eg. in the computer...

How do you get over a bastard? Suggestions welcome.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - How do you get over a bastard? I fell head over heels in love with someone who treated me wonderfully most of the time. Problem was that he had just (a year ago) got out of a long term serious relationship that had gone bad and was obviously not as ...

What happened to us? Are my actions in the past to blame for his actions now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are real happy together most of the times but ever since he’s gotten off probation he’s been a whole different person. We’ve been going out for a year and the whole time we have been going out he’s been on probation for a crime ...

Should I wait until he realizes he was wrong or text him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy in a band for a few months now, he is incredibly sweet and treats me well but the last few days have confusing. We see each other evey weekend and during the week. When his band usually plays a show, he takes me along, ...

Where can you turn with almost impossible problems?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I know it is hard to describe ,what I'm trying to tell. I'm not even hoping for full understanding. But ,I'm hoping someone maybe familiar with such an issue. My problem is ,that my life has sooo much horrible things in it, that even the therapi...

How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I was great friends with my girl friend. We studied together and I helped her in ways that no one would ever do for another person. I beleived in her. After she passed her exams she apparently decided I was not worthy of her friendship and ...

I would tell her how I feel but she has a boyfriend and her brother is one of my best friends! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - I need to know what to do there's a girl who i work with in a part-time job. I'm 17 and she's 20. I'm still in secondary school and she's in second year in college. What I look forward to is the weekend so i can see her. We can talk about absolute...

I don't know how to tell to my hubby that I don't love him anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i am married and i felt i don't love my hubby since i gave birth to my first son. and we were married for 6 years now, and now i am having friends online, there is someone that caught my attention. he is way older than me, but i have feelings for ...

Any suggestions to help our friend live a little?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has a friend who I've known for 5 years now. Now this friend is currently 21 and has never had sex. Actually she has never had a boyfriend or even been kissed before. This is common knowledge for anyone who had met her because she's ...

Why does my ex hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Why does my ex hate me so much? My ex just hates me. He's terrible. He spreads lies, stirs the pot with friends, loves a good drama scene, loves making me feel crazy...We're not togther anymore, and since the summer- we haven't even been in ...

I've lost that loving feeling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been married now for close to 17 years. We have three children. For the past 5 years my husband and I have been through a lot of financial stress. During that time he used a lot of profane language,(even a...

How do I get a DNA test to prove that my ex really is the father to my baby girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I just had My daughter a week ago. The father was well informed that I was in labor and we ended up in the hospital for 2 days because of how she was eating, his excuse on not being there was because he couldn't find a ride. He doesn't have a ...

My girlfriend has left out some vital information about her character, now I feel differently towards her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - So me and my gf been together almost 2 years. I really love her. But there is one situation that really bothers me. Let's rewind back to when we had been dating almost 5 months. I was her 6th guy and I was the first to hit it right and give her orga...

Should I explain to my ex's friend why I couldn't speak to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - ok i feel like a made a big mistake and i need help realy bad. Il try to make it short me and my ex were togather for 10 months and he was the love of my life, he broke up with me a little over a couple weeks ago and me and his friend started ...

Does it sound like a good idea to sort of give him time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago due to just being tired (especially him) from arguments, etc..and other issues.. no one cheated, there was alot of love i think.. we did not have contact because he knows I can't be friends with him and he knows ...

He's always maintained he is gay yet he will get drunk and mess around with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Hi guys, i really feel down and need to speak to someone. there's this guy i was mad about for years. He's a good friend of mine, but since we met he said he was interested in guys. anyway, one day he asked me if i had feelings for him and i sa...

Can I believe that she has stopped having affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I am hoping someone out their will help me with my dilema. I am a middle age man and has been in relationship with a very young lady half of my age, we have been together for 9 years and blessed with one child, 5 years ago I travel ...

Should I be concerned that my girlfriend wants an STD test? And how can I stop my girlfriend's mum interfering so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have 2 issues in this one 1st off, last night my GF said she was thinking about getting tested for chlamidya(sp?) why now all of a sudden after being with me for the last 9 months, she said she has done one since she slept with her e...

Should I just get over it? Or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for two years but have recently started developing feelings for my friend and i feel i need to end things. There have been a couple of drunken nights together with this friend, and he is very sweet to me...

I have stopped talking to my lover but I miss him, I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I MARRIED WITH 2 KIDS, some emptiness was there in my life so i involve with a person who also in same situation like mine..we are friends from last 8yrs. we had a good time but now im feeling like he is changed but he denied .i stop talking to him ...

Is it worth it for me to stay with him, or let him go with all the drama that follows?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating my current boyfriend for about 8 months now. DUring our relationship I broke up with him because i thought he was cheating because of text messages and phone calls he received. Not long after we broke up he called me pleading his ...

My boyfriend always goes home each festive season, I think he has somebody else there

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11 December 2009 (F) - hi friends i know that i can count on you,its been two years spending festive on my own and this is killing me.my boyfriend always when it is festive he always goes home i've tried to talk to him about this but he always do it and this makes me ...

My ex is blackmailing me and I like skinny women but she is average

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - How can I get my ex to stop blackmailing me. I don't want to get into alot of detail as this is the internet. It was a crime that was committed by both of us and she has the evidence to prove it. We will both be facing charges and she does not ...

He got another girl pregnant during one of our breakups, and my heart is breaking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Well I'm 14 years old and I thought I found the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with... We quickly fell in love but we also faught way to much. These weren't just silly little fights they got serious to the point were he tried to kill ...

Is he abusive/dangerous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have a (long) question about my ex. My best friend says he emotionally and almost physically abused me and needs help or he may go on to physically as well as emotionally abuse other girls. But my friend is really overprotective of me and has had ...

I am in love, but she has a boyfriend and when I see them together I die inside

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - hi, i'm on love with my best friend (a girl) i mean want whats best for her love not just the humdrum. but she has a boyfriend whos. well. bound to get her into trouble. they make a nice couple and all but everytime i see him with her (always) i ...

He doesn't care for sex...could it be the porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I am 21 and so is my fiance'. We have been together on and off for the past 3 years. In the beginning we were very intimate with each other. Now we have a 3 month old little girl and I have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship. I know I was ...

Why does sex with me make him sick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been with my bf for 10 months and for the last 3 he has been complaining about my vagina being loose and says that it was not like that before. because of this he believes that i have been cheating. I have one child, 7 years o...

Why do I feel like his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Why do I feel like I am more of a mother to my boyfriend then a girlfriend. I feel like this because I am always telling him what he has done right and wrong it's like he is only saying the answers that I want to hear. I am always the one th...