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Archived questions from: 31 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

One day he's really attentive, the next day he ignores me! What's up with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I have absolutely no idea what to think about this guy. This guy is the co-owner of a bistro that is next to my work, a place that I eat at when I work (I started because there's nowhere else to eat over a 30min. break in the area!) I'm 18 and I ...

Emotional affair with your boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I filed a HR report against my boss. THis is a retail environment. We previously had an 'emotional affair', as is called these days. He actually wanted to be friends in spite of my HR claim. He tried being my friend again, but he ke...

I don't like my husband's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - So my husbands best freind is somebody who I dont care for. When i first met him, he bragged about how he was cheating on his girfriend to me and my husband. So I dont HATE him, I just wouldnt trust him if i were a girl. Well he has a fiance now ...

Am I just someone who occupies his time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - i've beendealing with guy for 5 yrs but he has a girl who he lives with and has a 14 yr old son . he doesnt trust me but he doesnt want me around other guys or even talkin to guys. what i want t know does he hav feelings for me or am i jus someone ...

What do you do when you really like someone but you can't tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - what do you do when you really like someone but you cant tell them. please dont say just forget because i cant. this guy started my job a few months ago and ever since day one ive had a major crush on him. i like everything about him. the weird th...

His kids are preventing us from moving forward

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Stats: I have full custody of my child. We have known each other from school, over 20 years ago. We reconnected almost one year ago. I’ve been divorced for nearly 10 years and have one young daughter. He has been divorced for one year and ...

Her parents are keeping her from me but I love her, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - my girlfriend's parents are against the whole idea of having a relationship. Recently, they saw my relationship status on facebook with her and caught us. Her cell phone has been taken away, and she has been locked up in her own house. Things have ...

My boyfriend's mum interferes with our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I need help you guys, im 17 years old and my boyf is 21. He lives at home with his widowed mum due to money issues (ie. she has none because she retired very early and now needs his). Over xmas he came to us on boxing day while she went to a mates ...

Why is my girlfriend lying to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Okay, so I have a situation where I can hardly ever trust my girlfriend. We've been together for almost 2 years and I still findit hard to believe her. Sometimes she'll tell me she's busy at work, but then if I call her up 5 minutes later, I...

I don't love her, like she loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Hey I need some advice, i've been going out with this girl for almost 9 months now and she is in love with me, at one point I thought I loved her too, which I do but i'm not in love with her. We get in fights pretty often over little things, but ...

I cant get out of a relationship thats ruined because of me I think

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Okay.. i have been in this relationship for four year. I can't get away I really dont know what to do I have tried everything he brings out the worst in me. i am not a mean person at all. everytime i am around him i hate myself and the way i act i ...

My partner has banned me from having a dog.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I am utterly desperate for a dog. I am a huge dog lover and have been raised with loads of animals. I have been with my partner for 4 years and he has refused to let me ever get a dog. How on earth can i make him see this is unreasonable and is ...

It breaks my heart to see my parents apart!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - im 14 my parents are in a fight how do i help get them back together? My dad has a a does not think before he says and regrets it. My mom and dad have been together for 17 years now i i cant live without my mom and dad being together it just breaks ...

Please Tell Me How To Handle My Man's Accusation Of An Affair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - The boyfriend did it again; saw a guy approach me and lost his mind and accused me of having sex with him. Said from what he saw it looks like we are having an affair and I need to come clean. I was lifting weights and a guy came up during m...

How can I guild up my self confidence from within this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - I have placed quite a few questions here and have had some very good advice and observations from the kind people who have replied. Unfortunately my continued postings here have frustrated some people as most have said the same thing: That I should ...

Hurtful relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years on and off. He has 2 children from a previous relationship who accused me of being with him for money. We were due to get married 18 months ago but he ended the relationship 6 months before the wedding. We ...