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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She is blaming me for my ISP problems

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is pissed at me and wont talk to me because i keep disconnecting because of my internet was stuffing up on msn... i was full stressign and trying to reconnect but then when i got back on she said that when i kept disconnecting she ...

I am in a legal quandary and am not sure of my rights!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - The father of child has custody of my child, and i get to she her every other saturday (as painful as it is to say.)well me, my other daughter and fiance have moved since that court day which was 6 days ago. He says i have to give him address even ...

Am I being sought for emotional attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure whether anyone can help me on here, but, I thought I'd give it a try. This is going to be pretty long, as it's so complicated, but I would really appreciate help. So where to start? I've known this guy, let's just call him "C",...

My Confusing Ex

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5 December 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for like a year or 2. Lets call her S. We finally decided to date and everything was going good and perfect for a while. We made out and everything. One day S suddenly broke up with me. At first, she told me that she had a l...

How do I fix my marriage ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Me and my husband just had a baby 5 weeks ago and ever since we fight and for some reason he irritates me so much he is a marine so I understand he works a lot everyday but he comes home from work and "relaxes" he doesn't help with the baby he ...

I feel like I'm not enough for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for the past 8 months. When we first started dating he would always ask for a threesome with another girl (a complete stranger that we didn't know), but i always said no. I even threatened to leave him for the other girl IF ...

Should I issue my married lover with an ultimatum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for now a year. I am married but been seperated. It started as a fling. Then we fell in love with each other. His wife found out in May but he has continued to still see me. The thing is i am in my 40s and he is 50s ...

She cheated on me a couple of days after we first started seeing each other... now I just feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I'm not really looking for help, because I don't think there's anything I could possibly do to make myself feel better. I just need a place to share my feelings. But if you want to offer some feedback, please do. About a month ago, I split up ...

What do I do and how do I get through this week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months... it's going well, but when we met she was kind of involved in this long distance relationship with some other guy. She was very hesitant to get too involved with me due to that fact but a couple weeks ...

Just a simple and sincere thank you to all of you...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I've asked for help many times and I'm so thankful that so many wonderful people I have never met take the time to read other peoples stories and respond. This is not a message in request for advice but just a thank you to you all. Without the ad...

Drifting Apart

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5 December 2009 (M) - i have been in a relationship for just over three months now, and it seems that in the last few days we are drifting apart... in the beggining of the relationship things started off quite quickly, and then immediately slowed almost to a halt. there ...

Me and my ex keep arguing and it's really upsetting...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Me and my ex keep arguing and it's really upsetting.He thinks that when you are in a relationship, you should see each other once a week at least.However, i have a different view.I'm more of a " go with the flow " kind of person.He goes mad at me ...

She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate ...

Is this relationship worth working at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently went through a bad patch and it seems to have recurred. We had our first arguement, it was only a small thing, I was snappy with him and he ignored me for 5 days until I had had enough of wondering if it was over or ...

I really want to go stay with him but he is being different with me and not replying to my messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Why is he being off with me? Basically theres a guy i met on holiday, we speak everyday, we like each other. He lives 2 hours away, im going uni next year in the city he lives in. We've always spoke loads, saying how much we cant wait to ...

Confused about my relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I'm 30 years old and very confused. There is a woman I have been dating for six months now. We have a lot of fun and many things in common. We take interest in each other's hobbies and have many of the elements of a good relationship. With the ...

How do I save my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1: i am using this site to hopefully get some q's answered ,my marrage is going bad an i need some advice i am 27 years old have a huband a 5 children my husba...

He says he needs some space, and I am confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has recently decided that we both need space together. He says we rushed into a lot of things. We are both 18 and have been together for a year and almost two months. We've been best friends for about four years. After a while,...

I am hoping he will change his mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I started dating a guy who admitted from the beginning that he wasnt ready for a committed relationship with a single mother. We thought we could see each other and find a middle ground. Recently he decided that he didnt think us seeing each other ...

She left him for me, will we end up happy ever after?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Alright so I'll try not to write too much, but I'm sure it'll happen anyways. Try to keep up with the story and I'll do my best not to confuse you. Those of you who don't care to answer, you might find our story quite interesting, I believe it to be ...

I can't tell if he is a keeper or just playing games

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - hello all, id like to know if there is a way you can tell if your man loves you or if your a "bootycall" with his actions in the bedroom apart from the obvious lol? eg do you feel a connection, do you just know because im confuse why so many girls ...

I want to save my marriage but does my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Okay, this is going to be a long story as it requires as much information as I know about the situation to even begin comprehending this, so grab a drink, and settle in a minute. I am going to try to keep my identity anonymous so forgive me, but ...

My ex told my current that she is pregnant, but I think she is just creating mischief

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I was in a relationship with a girl and my ex had told em she was pregnant with my child so i told my partner at the time of this but she had asked me not tot tell her or i would not see the child, my girlfriend at the time left me as she didnt want ...

I am on an emotional roller coaster and I don't know where my life is headed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - so i sat down tonight and started thinking..what am i gonna do with the rest of my life? and all i came up with was-i dont want to go to school the rest of my days and go to college and learn to do something i dont even want to do but at the same ...

Rumour has it he left his wife and children for me, but I hardly know him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I started working at my current job at the beginning of the year. This is my first job after university. I am a fairly open and friendly person and am friendly towards all the people I work with. This has led to one of the men at work to develop a ...

I don't think my boyfriend likes me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a lot of friends that don't like me. But in the beginning of the relationship he did not care. Now he calls me names, he wont make love to me, he doesn't even kiss me any more. And every time I try to have a conversation with him ...

My girl is ill but the doctors can't find anything wrong!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - I am worried about my girlfriend. The past couple of weeks she has had a very high fever. I took her to doctor but he just gave her antibiotics, this happened with three different doctors. She refuses to eat, saying the taste burns her mouth. At ...

He is married but still comes looking for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hello and thank you so much for taking the time to read this because I really need some advice - me and my ex boyfriend (also my best friend) dated for 2 years and for the first time, I fell madly in love.. However our relationship was not perfect ...

He wont talk so I don't know where I stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I've been dating a guy for the last 4 months, and within the last month or so he's been mentioning how he'd like to see me more often (we usually see each other once or twice a week). Last week after we went out I msged him when I got home...

My guy prefers his male friends company to mine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - i just broke up with my bf after realizing hes too attached to his friends that he decided to NOT communicate with me for 4 days straight and it was right after my bday to top it off, he didnt get me anything, not even a rose. I called 2 nights a...

I am getting mixed signals, and I don't know if she likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Recently me and a girl who i got on fairly well with in the past, have got on like a house on fire. For some days we are even unseparable, well one day we literally were! As we were tied to each other by the arm so obviously we were very close that ...

I have a boyfriend but hanker after somebody else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I like two guys. One of them is my boyfriend... one is not. The other one has the best conversations with me ever, while my boyfriend will not call me on the phone and rarely has much to say. However, he is such a sweetheart and I can't stand to ...

I am in the middle of my own soap opera!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Well to make a few things clear i am a lesbian, but my spouse is bi sexual...and we are seniors in high school. okay so i really don't know ware to begin. It all started junior year i began to like her. but she was still straight so i keep my mou...

We broke up when he wouldn't commit. Now he's back, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I need advice how to handle a situation. I dated a man for 2 1/2 years, he is smart, kind, loyal successful. We are both in our mid forties. I was the first women he ever fell for. He was used to being alone and took things very slow. As the thir...

He met my parents and then he dumped me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - i'm 31 y-o woman, jobless and just got dumped by a divorcee who was an old buddy of me. the relationship went well until he came home to meet my parents, things really changed after that. after a couple of arguing, he changed his mind of getting ...

Is it me or is it them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I am currently not speaking with a freind who was offended about the fact that i am not used to mingling with the rough side of neighborhoods, or with people who are rough around the edges. She is a little that way, but i never allowed that to keep ...

How do I get him to earn my trust back?

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5 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about 8 months ago. We had a very unhealthy relationship. No physical abuse, but cheating, horrible fights, constant worrying, constantly breaking up, until one day he finally ended things and I was completely torn. It took ...