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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why am I so untrustworthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - trust is a huge issue in this situation. I feel like people don't seem to trust me. Like my friends and family. At school every time i have really good friends, trust becomes a big problem. No one seems to belive me! and i'm sick of it. I'll prat...

Unsure of how to deal with my mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - My parents have been divorced for about 15 years now and my relationship with my mother has always been rather rocky but I feel our problems have particularly escalated recently. It all started when I moved in with my boyfriend in Pennsylvania....

I'm pregnant and I think he's been lying to me the whole time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hey im 36 weeks pregnant and i dont know what im going to do im in love with my babys father but i think that he has been lying to me the whole time me and him have been together and i think that the person he told me was his ex is not that they are ...

Are the things he says to me normal? Do other women accept this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Aside from all of the false accusations of infidelity (that seem to be habitual for him...and kill me inside), he uses depression and unemployment as excuses for his harsh words about me, my ...

I'm feeling very guilty about my boyfriend and work and feel so alone, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hello all, ive let my problems pile up over the years and now ive got to sort them, i want to completely change my life because everything in it is wrong ive been in an on off relationship with my daughters dad for 12 yrs and im tired now he was ...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

He's making me feel guilty because he pays for me on dates!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - i've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year now. in the beginning of the relationship, things were fine. i was in high school and he was in college. neither of us were quite financially sound (hey, we're students), so it...

Should I wait for her to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years ...

He just doesn't seem that interested...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hey there ok i have been coming here for awhile now and my bf has just been making me so depresset. he is to into his video games i have been trying to set up a day where i can see him and i asked him if he would wanna stay the night tomorrow...

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see ...

I like her sober, but I don't like the clingy, crazy girl she becomes when drunk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her ...

How do I overcome all my problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hello I figure it was time for me to write all of my thoughts down as it has been a long ride so far. When I was growing up I did not have a great social life. Actually I did not have one at all. From preschool to 8th grade I went to a small priva...

I scared him and now he thinks I'm clingy! How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ive slept with my friend a few times now and things were progressing until I got drunk at a pub and scared him... I know he likes me... Is there anyway I can fix this? Ever since we have had sex, the friendship has changed... which I knew it would, ...

I want my boyfriend to do something bad so I hurt. How can I fix this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, i love him to death and he is so good to me, he treats me like a princess, but I want him to fight with me, i want him to do something so bad i hurt. Now in my past relationship they have ...

How do I confront him without it turning into a major fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my current bf for just a little over 2 years. He has just gone back for two weeks during the holidays to visit family and he assures me that he is not going to meet any female. We have had problems in the past about ...

Am I being used and should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I’m a 43 yo female living with my boyfriend going on 3 years. I want to be married and have told him this. He told me he wants to marry as well but wants to make sure first. I wonder if he wants to marry at all now because I came upon some missing ...

Finding it hard to forgive and forget my partner's cheating..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I found out one month ago that my partner of 2 years has been cheating on me, by talking to girls online, on cam, swapping rude pics, flirting etc. I couldnt believe it... but I forgave him, for a few reasons. The first is that i love him. Secondly, ...