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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

G/f wants to strip to make extra money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - I am 30 yrs old and my gf of 3 yrs is 25 yrs old, together we have a 15 month old daughter who is my world. I a full time fire fighter and work part time as a janitor at a local middle school. My gf is a full time TA. Even with both of us working we ...

No contact since Monday night, what's up with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Alright, well I met a guy online. We have been talking back and forth for about a month. This has involved texting, emailing, and talking on the phone. We had made plans to do something this past Sunday together. Unfortunately, Sunday morning I ...

I am having second thoughts about my up coming wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my fiance' for 5 years now. We have a 3 year old son together who has major health problems, he has already undergone 5 open heart surgeries. My fiance' and I are getting married in March 2010 but I'm really having ...

Best Friend is blowing hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My best friend of 2 and half years told me he loved me a few weeks ago and i was very happy and told him how i felt about him in return. Later on in the conversation he then said he was unsure of his feelings for me and didn't want to say anym...

I fight to get my anger out now he has walked away!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so i just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, we are very very serious, we've already discussed marriage.The problem with me is that i fight to get my anger out. We have been fighting for over a week now, everyday. It is always my fault and i ...

My unemployed b/f has anger issues, and I want to confront him about them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't work and has a bad temper; how do I confront him about this without him breaking up with me?...

He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!

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16 December 2009 (F) - long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, ...

We were going great guns but now she has cooled off!

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16 December 2009 (M) - Ok, i am 25 male and the girl i met this 20 yr old girl about a month ago rite before leaving school for the thanksgiving holidays. We share a muttual freind which is also a girl. the first time we met we talked at my apt for a couple hours and...

Cheated in a long distance relationship... can I forgive her???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a woman in another country for 3.5 years now. She is 26 now. We love each other very much and our sex is so good that it is almost unbelievable. To my huge dissapointment, after 6 months into our ...

We spend way too much time together... I don't know if I love him any more.

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16 December 2009 (F) - I'm 16. My boyfriend lives with my parents and I. Well they hate him and think I can do way way better, I'm so confused and don't know what to do. We spend way too much time together and I'm not so sure if I still love him. What do I do??...

My relationship is falling apart. Is there any way to save it?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years now, and so far it's been amazing. It's a very healthy relationship, we have good communication and are very close... but lately, in the last few months, things are beginning to fall apart and I don't ...

Is he playing hard to get or trying to push me away?

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16 December 2009 (F) - hey, okay so here's the thing: i know this guy....lets call him J. Me and J were together a while back, when we first met, but it ended badly and we didnt speak for nearly a year. About four months ago though we started talking again and he's been ...

I need guy help - it seems like our relationship is starting to be based on sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for eight months now and things have been a little shaky. i told him that i was keeping my virginity until marriage before we even went out and all this time i've kept it. the thing is every time i come over ...

I told him he could stay with me until he was on his feet. Over a year later, he's still not!

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16 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years and he's been living with me for a year. He was recently divorced when we met and going through some real estate issues, and still is a year and a half later - they are still "settling" stuff! They ...

If I don't chase her will she lose interest or lose the love she has for me?

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16 December 2009 (M) - hi. my name is mike. i met my ex girlfriend last november and we have had a fantastic relationship. she would tell me everyday how much she loves me and how much she appreciates me. we never fight and we have always been on the same page. there is a ...

Is love enough when everything else in the relationship is crumbling?

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16 December 2009 (M) - Hello all, I have been with my Fiance for 3 and 1/2 yrs. I don't know what to do. She has 3 children from a previous relationship, (that I love so much) but I am trying to leave them out of this equation, because I cannot stay w/someone just for ...

I need advice for a manipulative and rude mother in law.

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16 December 2009 (F) - This is what happened recently My husbands father came to stay with us after he got out of jail for not paying child support (it was from my ( husband and my BIL who are both grown) this man never works, smokes pot all day, and hadn't seen my ...

Long distance relationship!!Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Me and my g/f have been together for 4 years we lived together and traveled together but then we spent a yr apart from each other occasionally seeing each other every month etc. We decided to move in together which she said she was a bit nervous ...

I am over worrying about not falling pregnant yet!

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16 December 2009 (F) - I know this is probably a question for doctors but I just want opinions really as I am worried. Just over 2 years ago I got pregnant after 8 months of trying but suffered a miscarriage at around 8 weeks which has made me worried about getting pr...

I feel very protective of this man who has been married twice and already in another relationship

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16 December 2009 (F) - omg i dont know whats happened to me i came out of a bad relationship 8 months ago-he left me financially crippled etc-used me for what he could get so no way am i looking for anyone-but this guy started at my work a month ago and we have worked t...

I really want this relationship to work but I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been dating a boy that i love with all my heart for 1 year and 7 month. I am not going to go off saying hes completely horrible because i dont think he is. sometime he is very sweet and caring. I met him second year of college and i left ...

We are happy, our mothers are happy but what will the wife say when she finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Had a wonderful friend in high school, I knew he was in love with me but I just wanted to be friends, 4 years after graduation he comes back into my life,by then I am a young single mother to a 1 year old son and he said he would be honored if I ...

My b/f's party animal mate is back in town

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating awhile ago,and before we did, he was a party animal. His best friend and him would go party almost every night, and this was when we were in the first stages of our relationship, so it wasn't a big deal to me. His ...

I am taking too long to finish and it's making my partner sad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Hi every one.. i am a healthy man and i love sex my problem is the time i need to ejaculate.. i have always been slow and it took me from 20-40 min of intercourse to ejaculte .. but since 4 months, the time has encreased to 50-90 min wic...

I love my husband but I TOTALLY love my best friend!

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16 December 2009 (F) - I've been married for 11yrs.I love my husband,but I'm totally in love with my best friend. we've been together since 2nd grade.We r just made for each other. We see each other offten and talk everyday.I just don't know how 2 be without him.Do anyone ...

I've been dumped, but am unsure if I should leave the door open for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months. He said he didn't feel the same way about me that he did when he first got together with me, and he thinks the relationship is pretty much doomed. He told me he wants to think about things and call me ...

I said "no way! no more! so he blocked me on myspace, why?

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16 December 2009 (F) - We've Ben together for 9 months, kinda off and on. We got back together Sunday night and I thought everythin was fine now. We talked about life and kids ad marriage and then bam! Last night I find iut he's cheating on me.. For 3 weeks with this girl ...

I cant fit the mould my parents have waiting for me

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16 December 2009 (F) - (This is long, sorry.) I feel like such a misfit in my family. I'm 16 and the middle child (I have an older brother, whose 17 and younger brother, whose 10). First of all, my parents favor my brothers. Honestly, I've felt for a long time that m...

I haven't been able to contact my online g/f for a few months, I think she is cheating on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - For the past few months my girlfriend and I have lost contact. I've not been able to get hold of her at the best or worst of times with the constant reasoning that she's sleeping. I do understand some people have sleeping problems, however I call ...

Coin flip time, which girl will win me, A or B?

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16 December 2009 (M) - 2 girls... girl A i have liked for a long time(5years), but she was in a relationship which has been broken off which she has a kid from, which is 1 year old.the father is a loser who doesnt help out and who there is constantly problems with. S...

I am hooked into cheating with a man just married

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16 December 2009 (F) - I had an affair and now im lost. I am married n he wasnt, he was engaged but never told me when he was getting married. He even called me the morning of his weddin to tell me he loved me. He is a newlywed cheating on his wife and I dont know about ...

I called it quits but now want him back!

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16 December 2009 (F) - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...

He has me confused, is he messing with me?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I need some advise. I dated a guy for about two months. When I met him things moved at his pace. I met his fam right away and he made me his girlfriend. I thought nuthing of it, but i knew things had moved to fast since I had been in a long term ...

I gave some gifts to my professor, but apart from sying thankyou I havent heard further from him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my ...

I feel trapped in this relationship! No way out of this box!

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16 December 2009 (F) - I am in a 4 year relationship. I wouldn't call it an abusive relationship but my friends do. He is very over protective over me but somtimes it feels good 2 kno somone cares so much. We'v had good times aswel as bad. Last year, September,he left me, ...

Long distance and separated but both still in love. Maybe.

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16 December 2009 (M) - Long distance "relationship" I dated my girlfriend for a year and things were perfect. The entire relationship, we always had this tension hanging over our head. I'm 23 years old and told her right off the bat that in a year, I'd be moving to LA ...

Who should I believe, my dream guy or everyone else?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy a couple weeks ago and just the first time I layed my eyes on him it just felt right and like I knew I wanted to be with him more than anything.. He's smart, sweet, incredibly sexy, ect(pretty much everything I want in a guy).. ...

Am I correct in thinking he used his son as an excuse to cancel our wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a few weeks after his son left for Afghanistan for 1 year. Two days before our wedding he told me we had to wait for another year. He could not get married without his son being present. I was in total shock ...